Hey, I was too lazy to see if there was already a thread for this,


but what do you all feel are the best ways for getting over an ex or break up? --ask mainly cause I've just gotten out of a 2 year relationship and trying to get my feet back

You are doing it.

she took your feet?

you need a better attorney!

I've got a whole different problem. How do you react to having to see your ex & his new girlfriend at the only store in town? Not to mention I'm the main reason they met.

Yea, Johnnie Cochran was too expensive :-X

How recent was the break up? and I have alot of empathy, and sympathy, for you,

awwwww....

you hold your head high
and don't let either of them
see that it bothers you.

actually some of the best advice on this whole subject too

Go out and talk to as many attractive women as you can. Don't try to pick anyone up, just say hi and make new friends. Soon someone will be interested in you and you can take it from there.

Physical labor. I take a machete and go whack a dead tree. Actually, I've upgraded to a chainsaw. Its great.

Okay doll, you are kinda scaring me :-)

watch a Jenna Jameson video

Substitution method has worked for me on many levels.

Get to enjoy being with you.

Do things you've put off doing
because you were with her.

Hang out with friends you haven't
seen for awhile.

Try something new or go someplace
different.

Above all-no contact with her until
time has passed and you are strong.
It's too easy to fall back into the
arms of someone that was wrong for you.

Very good reply!! I actually moved away too. At first the pain is still going to be there - no matter what - especially if you truly loved your mate.
But, in time, this too will go away. It's never easy, however, it will make you stronger. Chin up!

I've actually done this myself with a good sharp wood axe

Like this?

Sugarland

Missed my alarm clock ringing
Woke up, telephone screaming
Boss man singing his same old song

Rolled in late about an hour
No cup of coffee, no shower
Walk of shame with two different shoes on

Now it is poor me, why me, oh me
Boring the same old worn out blah, blah story
There is no good explanation for it at all

Ain't no rhyme or reason
No complicated meaning
Ain't no need to over think it
Let go laughing

Life don't go quite like you planned it
We try so hard to understand it
Irrefutable, indisputable
The fact is psssh it happens

My trusty rusty had a flat
I borrowed my neighbor's Cadillac
I'll be right back
Going down to Wally World

That yellow light turned red too quickly
Knew that truck the moment it hit me
Out stepped my ex and his new girl
'Sorry 'bout your neck baby'

But it is poor me, why me, oh me
Boring the same old worn out blah, blah story
There is no good explanation for it at all

Ain't no rhyme or reason
No complicated meaning
Ain't no need to over think it
Let go laughing

Life don't go quite like you planned it
We try so hard to understand it
Irrefutable, indisputable
Fact is it happens

Ain't no rhyme or reason
No complicated meaning
Ain't no need to over think it
Let go laughing

Life don't go quite like you planned it
We try so hard to understand it
Irrefutable, indisputable
Fact is

Yeah, the irrefutable, indisputable
Absoluteable, totally beautiful
Fact is psssh it happens

You get up and go one, dont let them see your pain it only makes it better for them. Just show them what they've been missing, if you see them just smile and walk away. Don't show them how you really feel.

oh well... after I broke up I was like paralysed and my heart covered in ice, I could not even consider getting with somebody else, even going through getting to know people was becoming too much... but now I am gradually coming out of that, and at least I am considering ....
never surrender!!!!!!