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Topic: What do men want?
Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sun 09/26/10 11:21 AM
Good food and did i mention some booty

jukdo Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 7	Sun 09/26/10 11:27 AM
I believe most goal oriented men"the ones who want a family, house, vacation once a year,ect". Are in a different mind set in this day and age. Love isn't so much the heart this time around but more for the heart and mind. In the past it was the heart, men saw themselves as the knight in shining armor. They would help a woman in trouble. But now it is more the heart and the mind as most divorces end over money concerns. These kind of men would want a relationship with a professional woman. Strong in her convictions.Able to financially stand on her own 2 feet. It makes for a stronger relationship feeling that both can contribute to each others goals in life.Not only as lovers but as best friends able to confide in each other no matter the problem. They feel as complete equals.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 09/26/10 11:47 AM
It isn't about what men or women want..... it's about what you personally want! Figure out exactly what you want for yourself, your children, your well-being, etc. Then live your life! And if someone comes around that you can communication with and problem-solve with that wants similar things in life, great! If not, be true to yourself and do not compromise!

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sun 09/26/10 11:54 AM
Most men are out for a "free meal" and I am sure you are looking for someone who wants more than that. The question is what do you want and what do you expect of others to frame out what you are looking for!

lezah Joined Thu 11/30/06 Posts: 61	Sun 09/26/10 11:55 AM
It isn't about what men or women want..... it's about what you personally want! Figure out exactly what you want for yourself, your children, your well-being, etc. Then live your life! And if someone comes around that you can communication with and problem-solve with that wants similar things in life, great! If not, be true to yourself and do not compromise! I agree..

jukdo Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 7	Sun 09/26/10 12:49 PM
It isn't about what men or women want..... it's about what you personally want! Figure out exactly what you want for yourself, your children, your well-being, etc. Then live your life! And if someone comes around that you can communication with and problem-solve with that wants similar things in life, great! If not, be true to yourself and do not compromise! I don't believe this is what she was asking, And this kind of advice is irrelevant. Its like saying "what goes up must come down" She's asking for a mans perspective and what he might be thinking. Everyone changes in a relationship, its about meeting half way from both partners.I think she wants to know what the other half is thinking to meet him half way.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 09/26/10 02:16 PM
We need you chicks to stop having fake orgasms. It is devestating the male psyche.

caribbean_boy Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 1	Sun 09/26/10 02:31 PM
Men Need 1. Food 2. S3x 3. Peace of Mind

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Sun 09/26/10 02:36 PM
We need you chicks to stop having fake orgasms. It is devestating the male psyche. How do you know they are fake?

mixalh Joined Sat 09/11/10 Posts: 193	Sun 09/26/10 02:38 PM
what a question....men...we all want different things hence going for different women.... im not sure what else to say lol we'are all different...and what one may want...another doesnt trying to stay in between it all here as best i can lol

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sun 09/26/10 02:48 PM
Men are just like women only different.

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Sun 09/26/10 02:51 PM
..a girl that gives good head... for some of us there is a hell of alot more tolife then sex Good point bro. A lot of guys think with their brain between their legs, instead of their brain in their head on their shoulders.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 09/26/10 03:02 PM
It isn't about what men or women want..... it's about what you personally want! Figure out exactly what you want for yourself, your children, your well-being, etc. Then live your life! And if someone comes around that you can communication with and problem-solve with that wants similar things in life, great! If not, be true to yourself and do not compromise! I don't believe this is what she was asking, And this kind of advice is irrelevant. Its like saying "what goes up must come down" She's asking for a mans perspective and what he might be thinking. Everyone changes in a relationship, its about meeting half way from both partners.I think she wants to know what the other half is thinking to meet him half way. Ultimately, she is responsible for her own actions/thoughts, not that of another. So, if she puts the focus on herself, then she will be more aware of her own wants and needs. Then she will be more able to express those to a (potential) partner. Leading her to wonder less about what men are thinking because she will be more apt to communicate her needs/wants and be receptive to his. But, communication and problem solving is key.

jukdo Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 7	Sun 09/26/10 05:49 PM
Ultimately, she is responsible for her own actions/thoughts, not that of another. So, if she puts the focus on herself, then she will be more aware of her own wants and needs. Then she will be more able to express those to a (potential) partner. Leading her to wonder less about what men are thinking because she will be more apt to communicate her needs/wants and be receptive to his. But, communication and problem solving is key. I can agree with that, Being receptive is key.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 09/26/10 05:58 PM
Ultimately, she is responsible for her own actions/thoughts, not that of another. So, if she puts the focus on herself, then she will be more aware of her own wants and needs. Then she will be more able to express those to a (potential) partner. Leading her to wonder less about what men are thinking because she will be more apt to communicate her needs/wants and be receptive to his. But, communication and problem solving is key. I can agree with that, Being receptive is key. I don't think that receptibility is key. One can be receptive to anothers needs, but if they cannot or will not meet or fulfill those needs/wants, then the person needs to communicate and problem solve... and both need to decide if the relationship will continue.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sun 09/26/10 05:59 PM
Men are just like women only different. Nah, women want a chocolate penis that ejaculates money.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 09/26/10 06:00 PM
Men are just like women only different. Nah, women want a chocolate penis that ejaculates money.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sun 09/26/10 06:01 PM Edited by Unknow on Sun 09/26/10 06:01 PM
Men are just like women only different. Nah, women want a chocolate penis that ejaculates money. Those are not my words. They are the words of a woman.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 09/26/10 06:07 PM
Men are just like women only different. Nah, women want a chocolate penis that ejaculates money. Those are not my words. They are the words of a woman. Well, just like anything in this world... just because you are a member of a 'group' doesn't mean you speak for the whole 'group'.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 09/26/10 06:10 PM
We need you chicks to stop having fake orgasms. It is devestating the male psyche. How do you know they are fake? Because the chick didn't slap me silly and call me Susan.