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xtratime1
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There seems to be a lot of that lately not the ones that marry for a Green Card but the others who seem to prey on those of us that want the real thing and then find out they have been duped.
I was one of the others marrying for what I thought was the real thing then finding out after that it was not the pretty Rose garden I thought it was. I have alway been lucky in some things but this time I almost got screwed badly I got out at the urging of many friends and good thing that I did...she hurt me deeply and most would say "Now you don't want to get involved again" I say I can step back and look at what has happened and start again this time being a little more cautious...although when I give my heart I give it all. |
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Sorry to hear. It happens to the best of us
Join in the forums and get to know members 
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Sadly it is a story that has happened to many of us. May you heal and move on to the life of your dreams.
Welcome 
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Live and learn brother. Welcome.........
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Yeah, roses are like that...
Mingle more, pick less. Hi & Welcome.
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Yeah, roses are like that... Mingle more, pick less. Hi & Welcome.
Hey now....watch it buddy boy 
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hey
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Yeah, roses are like that... Mingle more, pick less. Hi & Welcome.
Hey now....watch it buddy boy
haha, not everything's about you... 
here's a posey for the Rose... 
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There seems to be a lot of that lately not the ones that marry for a Green Card but the others who seem to prey on those of us that want the real thing and then find out they have been duped. I was one of the others marrying for what I thought was the real thing then finding out after that it was not the pretty Rose garden I thought it was. I have alway been lucky in some things but this time I almost got screwed badly I got out at the urging of many friends and good thing that I did...she hurt me deeply and most would say "Now you don't want to get involved again" I say I can step back and look at what has happened and start again this time being a little more cautious...although when I give my heart I give it all. The question is are we really duped into believing in true love from another, or are our core meaning of love relationships lives and our outlook actually differ. We all have our own responsibility and sometimes we chose not to see what we do not wish to see at times and dupe ourselves and make it easier for others. Good luck in your adventure of love. And as others before me stated.........get to know others in the forums watch their replies and see if philosophies might match. Yes, I really do believe some are in love with the idea of love. And once married love is what you make it to be (I know it takes two, but it also takes two to be argumentative, unyeilding and unforgiving for the love and relationship to end.) |
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thats sad to hear ...but you did get out and it sounds like you have agood attitude...learn from it and keep on rollin. best of luck to you !
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Welcome to Mingle2
My name happens to be Rose as well...sorry about that
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There seems to be a lot of that lately not the ones that marry for a Green Card but the others who seem to prey on those of us that want the real thing and then find out they have been duped. I was one of the others marrying for what I thought was the real thing then finding out after that it was not the pretty Rose garden I thought it was. I have alway been lucky in some things but this time I almost got screwed badly I got out at the urging of many friends and good thing that I did...she hurt me deeply and most would say "Now you don't want to get involved again" I say I can step back and look at what has happened and start again this time being a little more cautious...although when I give my heart I give it all. Welcome to Mingle! That's a sad story but all to true & frequent. I invite you to mingle with us in the 50+ room. When you get there come into the Topicless thread. It's a great bunch of people there!
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keep on, keeping on
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You are never too young to start over :-)
Welcome. |
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