There seems to be a lot of that lately not the ones that marry for a Green Card but the others who seem to prey on those of us that want the real thing and then find out they have been duped.

I was one of the others marrying for what I thought was the real thing then finding out after that it was not the pretty Rose garden I thought it was.

I have alway been lucky in some things but this time I almost got screwed badly I got out at the urging of many friends and good thing that I did...she hurt me deeply and most would say "Now you don't want to get involved again"

I say I can step back and look at what has happened and start again this time being a little more cautious...although when I give my heart I give it all.