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It seems to me that most people give out their love, trust and respect a little too prematurely... even more so when they are very lonely. I'm pretty sure you probably see warning signs and push them back into your subconscious because you'd rather have their company than be alone. Yes something about falling in love after the first week of knowing someone seems crazy too me. If a woman tells me she has fallen in love with me after 1 week, I'll run to the hills, as if my butt was on fire!. |
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I don't care how amazing the other person makes you feel or how compatible they seem to be, all relationships should be approached with caution.... for your OWN sake. IF you open yourself up to these kind of people, they will take advantage.
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I don't care how amazing the other person makes you feel or how compatible they seem to be, all relationships should be approached with caution.... for your OWN sake. IF you open yourself up to these kind of people, they will take advantage. Why is life so complicated |
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Because people put too much stock into their emotions and forget to THINK with their damn brains.
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Because people put too much stock into their emotions and forget to THINK with their damn brains. |
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Because people put too much stock into their emotions and forget to THINK with their damn brains. Yep luckily we do! |
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I don't care how amazing the other person makes you feel or how compatible they seem to be, all relationships should be approached with caution.... for your OWN sake. IF you open yourself up to these kind of people, they will take advantage. I always say that I much rather take my time than to give someone false hope. When I met someone, the first thing I tell her is "let's have fun and lets allow time to dictate our future. Time will tell if we are meant to me together". I dated a girl that used to get mad at me because I didn't say "I love you" back after she told me. She just couldn't understand why was it that I didn't love her back. The relationship was fairly new and I don't throw my "I love you" just for the heck of it. I have to feel it, darn it. |
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Edited by
MikeAngel
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Sun 08/08/10 09:45 PM
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Because people put too much stock into their emotions and forget to THINK with their damn brains. Or should I say "lust"?. |
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Notice I never said anything about men or women specifically? It's all human nature, we're all guilty of these things.
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Notice I never said anything about men or women specifically? It's all human nature, we're all guilty of these things. |
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I don't care how amazing the other person makes you feel or how compatible they seem to be, all relationships should be approached with caution.... for your OWN sake. IF you open yourself up to these kind of people, they will take advantage. Why is life so complicated People are. Just like life is NOT too short. It's what we make of it. |
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What am I looking for...???
Right now my spare change purse..Im not sure where it is... |
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I treat the women I date right. I take them on vacations on "my dime". They don't have to spend a penny when out with me. The only thing I ask is be treated with respect. When I see they are taking me for granted or not respecting me, for whatever reason, they get dumped. As easy as that. While it's nice that you like to spend money on the women you date, it isn't going to ensure they stay with you. Try just being yourself, rather than spending money on them. Buying gifts and paying for their vacations aren't necessarily going to make women want you more. I don't take them on vacations, nor do I buy them things for them to want me, I do it because they are already with me. Are you willing to tell me that if your boyfriend tells you he is going on vacation and he wants you to oome along, at his expense, that you will say no?. If you say yes you are lying. So what's a man to do?. Go on vacation and not invite the woman he has been dating?. If he doesn't, who will stop her from nagging, bitching, whining, crying and complaining that he didn't ask?. I would not expect him to pay. So no, don't tell me I'm lying. |
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i really your article and i wish we woman understand what we want and how to handle si
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What are women looking for? Hrmm i wish someone would tell me then i wouldn't have to think about it anymore. lol
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its just like the old saying nice guys finish last start being a jerk and see where that gets ya women want what they know they should not have
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its just like the old saying nice guys finish last start being a jerk and see where that gets ya women want what they know they should not have it is true but we also learn from the mistakes and i personally rather have a plain ol' nice guy. cus they are the hardest to find. |
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its just like the old saying nice guys finish last start being a jerk and see where that gets ya women want what they know they should not have Stop dating immature women and this will not be a problem. |
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Edited by
MikeAngel
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Tue 08/10/10 07:21 PM
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I treat the women I date right. I take them on vacations on "my dime". They don't have to spend a penny when out with me. The only thing I ask is be treated with respect. When I see they are taking me for granted or not respecting me, for whatever reason, they get dumped. As easy as that. While it's nice that you like to spend money on the women you date, it isn't going to ensure they stay with you. Try just being yourself, rather than spending money on them. Buying gifts and paying for their vacations aren't necessarily going to make women want you more. I don't take them on vacations, nor do I buy them things for them to want me, I do it because they are already with me. Are you willing to tell me that if your boyfriend tells you he is going on vacation and he wants you to oome along, at his expense, that you will say no?. If you say yes you are lying. So what's a man to do?. Go on vacation and not invite the woman he has been dating?. If he doesn't, who will stop her from nagging, bitching, whining, crying and complaining that he didn't ask?. I would not expect him to pay. So no, don't tell me I'm lying. I've dated women of all walks of life (except prostitutes), of all socio-economic levels, and I am yet to find one that said "no" when I tried to pamper them. Perhaps you haven't dated a real man, someone who still values women and don't see them as objects. |
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Edited by
MikeAngel
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Tue 08/10/10 07:28 PM
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It doesnt seem like you are listening to anyone. This would bother me in a partner....regardless of how much stuff he bought me or whether or not he took me with him on vacation. I am not saying that I would not allow her to treat me like a King. It's a two-way street but I see no problem in treating someone the right way. I am not a sucker fresh out of a ghetto, therefore, if I am treating someone well and she takes it for granted, she is gone!. I guess I am "old school". |
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