Topic: What Are Women Really Looking For?.
MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 08/08/10 09:32 PM



It seems to me that most people give out their love, trust and respect a little too prematurely... even more so when they are very lonely. I'm pretty sure you probably see warning signs and push them back into your subconscious because you'd rather have their company than be alone.


Yes something about falling in love after the first week of knowing someone seems crazy too me.


If a woman tells me she has fallen in love with me after 1 week, I'll run to the hills, as if my butt was on fire!.



:laughing: :thumbsup:

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/08/10 09:32 PM
I don't care how amazing the other person makes you feel or how compatible they seem to be, all relationships should be approached with caution.... for your OWN sake. IF you open yourself up to these kind of people, they will take advantage.


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Sun 08/08/10 09:35 PM

I don't care how amazing the other person makes you feel or how compatible they seem to be, all relationships should be approached with caution.... for your OWN sake. IF you open yourself up to these kind of people, they will take advantage.




Why is life so complicated

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/08/10 09:39 PM
Because people put too much stock into their emotions and forget to THINK with their damn brains.

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 08/08/10 09:42 PM

Because people put too much stock into their emotions and forget to THINK with their damn brains.


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

andrewzooms's photo
Sun 08/08/10 09:42 PM

Because people put too much stock into their emotions and forget to THINK with their damn brains.


Yep luckily we do!

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Sun 08/08/10 09:42 PM

I don't care how amazing the other person makes you feel or how compatible they seem to be, all relationships should be approached with caution.... for your OWN sake. IF you open yourself up to these kind of people, they will take advantage.


At times, when you "jump" into a relationshiop, you are bound to be hurt.

I always say that I much rather take my time than to give someone false hope.

When I met someone, the first thing I tell her is "let's have fun and lets allow time to dictate our future. Time will tell if we are meant to me together".

I dated a girl that used to get mad at me because I didn't say "I love you" back after she told me.

She just couldn't understand why was it that I didn't love her back.

The relationship was fairly new and I don't throw my "I love you" just for the heck of it.

I have to feel it, darn it.laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 08/08/10 09:44 PM
Edited by MikeAngel on Sun 08/08/10 09:45 PM

Because people put too much stock into their emotions and forget to THINK with their damn brains.
And please let's not forget that most men think with their little head and ALOT of women think with their vaginas when it comes to love.

Or should I say "lust"?.

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/08/10 09:49 PM
Notice I never said anything about men or women specifically? It's all human nature, we're all guilty of these things.

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Sun 08/08/10 09:52 PM

Notice I never said anything about men or women specifically? It's all human nature, we're all guilty of these things.
Indeed.

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Mon 08/09/10 07:07 PM


I don't care how amazing the other person makes you feel or how compatible they seem to be, all relationships should be approached with caution.... for your OWN sake. IF you open yourself up to these kind of people, they will take advantage.




Why is life so complicated
Sorry to disappoint you but life is NOT complicated.

People are.

Just like life is NOT too short.

It's what we make of it.


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Mon 08/09/10 09:25 PM
What am I looking for...???

Right now my spare change purse..Im not sure where it is...ohwell

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Mon 08/09/10 09:57 PM




I treat the women I date right. I take them on vacations on "my dime". They don't have to spend a penny when out with me.

The only thing I ask is be treated with respect.

When I see they are taking me for granted or not respecting me, for whatever reason, they get dumped. As easy as that.




While it's nice that you like to spend money on the women you date, it isn't going to ensure they stay with you. Try just being yourself, rather than spending money on them. Buying gifts and paying for their vacations aren't necessarily going to make women want you more.
You are missing the point.

I don't take them on vacations, nor do I buy them things for them to want me, I do it because they are already with me.

Are you willing to tell me that if your boyfriend tells you he is going on vacation and he wants you to oome along, at his expense, that you will say no?.

If you say yes you are lying.

So what's a man to do?. Go on vacation and not invite the woman he has been dating?.

If he doesn't, who will stop her from nagging, bitching, whining, crying and complaining that he didn't ask?. laugh laugh laugh




I would not expect him to pay. So no, don't tell me I'm lying.

guindammy's photo
Tue 08/10/10 05:13 PM
i really your article and i wish we woman understand what we want and how to handle si

JamieRawxx's photo
Tue 08/10/10 05:48 PM
What are women looking for? Hrmm i wish someone would tell me then i wouldn't have to think about it anymore. lol

rusty4570's photo
Tue 08/10/10 05:57 PM
its just like the old saying nice guys finish last start being a jerk and see where that gets ya women want what they know they should not have

JamieRawxx's photo
Tue 08/10/10 05:59 PM

its just like the old saying nice guys finish last start being a jerk and see where that gets ya women want what they know they should not have


it is true but we also learn from the mistakes and i personally rather have a plain ol' nice guy. cus they are the hardest to find.

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 08/10/10 06:51 PM

its just like the old saying nice guys finish last start being a jerk and see where that gets ya women want what they know they should not have


whoa whoa

Stop dating immature women and this will not be a problem. :thumbsup:

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Tue 08/10/10 07:20 PM
Edited by MikeAngel on Tue 08/10/10 07:21 PM





I treat the women I date right. I take them on vacations on "my dime". They don't have to spend a penny when out with me.

The only thing I ask is be treated with respect.

When I see they are taking me for granted or not respecting me, for whatever reason, they get dumped. As easy as that.




While it's nice that you like to spend money on the women you date, it isn't going to ensure they stay with you. Try just being yourself, rather than spending money on them. Buying gifts and paying for their vacations aren't necessarily going to make women want you more.
You are missing the point.

I don't take them on vacations, nor do I buy them things for them to want me, I do it because they are already with me.

Are you willing to tell me that if your boyfriend tells you he is going on vacation and he wants you to oome along, at his expense, that you will say no?.

If you say yes you are lying.

So what's a man to do?. Go on vacation and not invite the woman he has been dating?.

If he doesn't, who will stop her from nagging, bitching, whining, crying and complaining that he didn't ask?. laugh laugh laugh




I would not expect him to pay. So no, don't tell me I'm lying.
Oh please, every single woman on the face of the earth don't mind being pampered, whether they are poor or as rich as Bill Gates.

I've dated women of all walks of life (except prostitutes), of all socio-economic levels, and I am yet to find one that said "no" when I tried to pamper them.

Perhaps you haven't dated a real man, someone who still values women and don't see them as objects.






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Tue 08/10/10 07:26 PM
Edited by MikeAngel on Tue 08/10/10 07:28 PM

It doesnt seem like you are listening to anyone. This would bother me in a partner....regardless of how much stuff he bought me or whether or not he took me with him on vacation.


And what makes you think I am not listening?.

I am not saying that I would not allow her to treat me like a King.

It's a two-way street but I see no problem in treating someone the right way.

I am not a sucker fresh out of a ghetto, therefore, if I am treating someone well and she takes it for granted, she is gone!.

I guess I am "old school".