I am a no-nonsense type of a guy.

I treat the women I date right. I take them on vacations on "my dime". They don't have to spend a penny when out with me.

The only thing I ask is be treated with respect.

When I see they are taking me for granted or not respecting me, for whatever reason, they get dumped. As easy as that.

I will tell you one thing. It is cold to cut off someones junk, but then take it for a trip in a car an throw it out the window. That's just cold.......

You have a right to say NO to women.

You have to stand up to yourself for your right to happiness.


But don't forget to bend a little.

L'homme est un roseau pensant. -Pascal

(Man is a thinking reed)

Most people, not just women... don't know what they want. They bounce around looking for something that will 'complete' them. When we are able to find peace with ourselves, enjoy our own company and understand who we are, then we know what qualities in another person will bring us happiness.

I see nothing wrong with bending for a woman you think is worth it.

But I'll be darned it after treating someone like gold she is going to take me for granted. I won't let it happen.

Even my brother says that I am LOCO for dumping the last woman I was with. For something he says is "minor". Well, it's not "minor" to me, therefore, bye bye and "hasta la vista, baby".

Note: This is NOT a reversible statement.

This is my motto:

There's only one person I love more than I love myself: My mother.

That said, I will NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVER love a woman more than I love myself.

Perhaps the reason why I can move on so quickly.

But I will always threat them great.

While it's nice that you like to spend money on the women you date, it isn't going to ensure they stay with you. Try just being yourself, rather than spending money on them. Buying gifts and paying for their vacations aren't necessarily going to make women want you more.

You are missing the point.

I don't take them on vacations, nor do I buy them things for them to want me, I do it because they are already with me.

Are you willing to tell me that if your boyfriend tells you he is going on vacation and he wants you to oome along, at his expense, that you will say no?.

If you say yes you are lying.

So what's a man to do?. Go on vacation and not invite the woman he has been dating?.

If he doesn't, who will stop her from nagging, bitching, whining, crying and complaining that he didn't ask?.

I have my own money and I would pay my own way.

I don't allow anyone to manipulate me because of money.

Love, trust and respect have to be mutual and earned. If you give all of these things blindly to someone with out making them earn it, why should they even try?

In my experience, they want booze, babies, and a guy who either has no brain or who is OK with turning it off permanently.

Oh pleeeeeeeeeeeease.

There's no way that if you are in love with someone and that someone wants to take you on vacation you will say "no, I'll pay my own way", even if you have more money than God.

Hey, at times they do earn it.

The problem starts when they start taking it for granted.

In all of my dating years I've never allowed a guy to pay my way on vacation. I don't care whether you believe it or not. This is how I choose to conduct my dating style.

The weakest, the better, to some, I gather.

It seems to me that most people give out their love, trust and respect a little too prematurely... even more so when they are very lonely. I'm pretty sure you probably see warning signs and push them back into your subconscious because you'd rather have their company than be alone.

Yes something about falling in love after the first week of knowing someone seems crazy too me.

You have a point.

But there are many guys out there, like me, that don't mind being alone, every now and then.

If a woman tells me she has fallen in love with me after 1 week, I'll run to the hills, as if my butt was on fire!.