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just be you, you'd be surprised that not all guys are looking for the bombshell looking girls, trust me i've dated plenty of them.
i'm attracted to the person not always the great looks. |
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Posting this here was obviously a mistake. I was really emotional last night but can see things clearly today. I have spoken with him, told the truth and have NOT lost a friend. I had absolutely nothing to be concerned about. Whatever you all may think I am NOT a bad person and am not in the habit of lying. To the person who called me fat, thanks alot. This is why I used that fake picture (because of people like you). My bored Saturday night 3 years ago turned into a social experiment and what I thought was proven and continues to be proven. I am no longer in need of further opinions from any of you so admin is welcome to delete, lock or do absolutely nothing to my thread here. To those of you who were the least bit supportive and understanding, thank you. I'm glad you didn't lose your friendship and I do hope that you now know that you are good enough just as you are ... you don't have to be something or someone else. You is enough. And I hope you will honor all of your relationships by being honest with them and with yourself. Best wishes... |
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Wow girlfriend. It's pretty bad, but dang don't beat yourself up over it. It's easy for us on here to say this and that but it's not or heart here that is bleeding at the moment. Please cheer up, it's not the end of the world for you. Ignore all that hateful advise you have been getting from those who didn't show any sympathy. You can do it, call him and tell him the truth. Put the ball in his court and let him decide afterwards. Don't leave him hanging, or just walk away without the truth, I'm sure you would agree that is wrong. Don't leave him to feel like you played (intently) with his emotions. Go to him with the same feelings and emotions you came to us with girlfriend. Good luck!
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So she lied to a guy for 3 years, asked for advice and got it and now we are the hateful bad guys ? Interesting.
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I hope you have learned from this experience and wish you the best of luck...
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So she lied to a guy for 3 years, asked for advice and got it and now we are the hateful bad guys ? Interesting.
Bingo ... ! Most insightful response yet ... |
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What a lying jerk thing to do yanking his chain... guaranteed, hell tell you to go to hell...
and rightfully so... you deserve it... you are a munipulator of the worst kind. That is so mean. |
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......................trust me he was never devoted to me in that kind of way. We talk alot but he dates and goes out. I have been more of a confidant for him and any romantic feelings for me are a recent development.
So, what makes you think this guy is not particular in wanting (and deserves) trust in those he confides in? I would think he would be hurt in many ways to know he was decieved by someone he placed his trust in. He devoted countless amount of hours to your friendship (you stated that yourself) then you went on to say "Any romantic feelings for me are a recent development"........... Hello, this may sound tough but; relationships and friendships are based on trust. I would be upset if someone did this to me (and so would you) especially if you (or the other person) divulged personal information.............. "I am no longer in need of further opinions"   (public forum!) I noticed you turned this post around to make out that you are the victim here, you asked for views and you got it, I make no apologies for pointing this out to you.
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You're wasting your time responding to this thread, they deactivated.
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Yeah? Well then its all your fault.
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It probably is, I get blamed for everything
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Ha ha.
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You're wasting your time responding to this thread, they deactivated. I think it was because she was told the truth! |
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You're wasting your time responding to this thread, they deactivated. See what you did ... ? It's all your fault ... oh - and mine - and ... hers ... and his, and ... theirs ... and ... but YOU did it ... ! |
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Yep, I checked too. Her account is now deactivated.
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You're wasting your time responding to this thread, they deactivated. See what you did ... ? It's all your fault ... oh - and mine - and ... hers ... and his, and ... theirs ... and ... but YOU did it ... ! Everyone elses..............Except mine. 
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Yep, I checked too. Her account is now deactivated. My word wasn't good enough, huh?  
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Yep, I checked too. Her account is now deactivated. My word wasn't good enough, huh?
Well, see, now you got a rep - I mean, YOU're the one who made her leave ... it's all YOUR fault ... Oh. Wait. I forgot about my role in it. And hers. And ... and - THEIRS ... and ... EVERYONE ELSE's role ... but you did it ... That's just the way life rolls ... |
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You're wasting your time responding to this thread, they deactivated. See what you did ... ? It's all your fault ... oh - and mine - and ... hers ... and his, and ... theirs ... and ... but YOU did it ... ! Nya ha HAAAAAA!!!! |
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What a lying jerk thing to do yanking his chain... guaranteed, hell tell you to go to hell... and rightfully so... you deserve it... you are a munipulator of the worst kind. That is so mean. 
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