As long s they aren't serial killers, hatchet murderers, and bill collectors, especially the latter.

There are a lot worse things out there girlfriend than bankruptcy. Next time you're out an about look at all th e homeless people around you who don't have a home, job,or decent meal to eat (not counting the soup kitchens), you count or income because of our good ole' American gov't allowing the worst economic crash in history.

I think it's just an low self esteem issue. It do goes both ways though. If you can't like or love yourself, then you can't expect anyone else to.

Wow girlfriend. It's pretty bad, but dang don't beat yourself up over it. It's easy for us on here to say this and that but it's not or heart here that is bleeding at the moment. Please cheer up, it's not the end of the world for you. Ignore all that hateful advise you have been getting from those who didn't show any sympathy. You can do it, call him and tell him the truth. Put the ball in his court and let him decide afterwards. Don't leave him hanging, or just walk away without the truth, I'm sure you would agree that is wrong. Don't leave him to feel like you played (intently) with his emotions. Go to him with the same feelings and emotions you came to us with girlfriend. Good luck!