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Topic: for the guys that have been hurt
loveronthehorizon's photo
Thu 07/29/10 06:13 PM
this is where men can talk to each other about there relationships that tor them apart. so i will start her name was monique from spokane,Wa she had cheeted on my twice because she was a drunk and let her co worker take advantage of her drunkness she was at home i was working my usual grave shift at work she took him to the strip club when ii came home he was in my bed with her. let it go once. the second time i walked in on them in the middle of it because i worked 48 on 42 off firefighter so it was hard for us to have our time but she was a bartender so she worked late aswell.

newarkjw's photo
Thu 07/29/10 06:27 PM
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. The chick taking the brother to a strip club was kinda hot........smokin

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 07/29/10 06:33 PM
Men don't have feelings! Have you ever seen a John Wayne film with him crying in the psych office? No! Why?! Because men build things, then we destroy things to build more things!


Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus: Sláinte
Murphy MacManus: You know, it was sort of a balance though, wasn't it?
Connor MacManus: Shades of Eastwood. Charlie Bronson.
Rocco: Duke ****ing Wayne!
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus: Duke ****ing WAYNE!
Rocco: Men build things, then we die. It's in our ****ing DNA! THAT'S WHAT WE DO!
Murphy MacManus: And when it all falls down?
Rocco: We build it right back up again.
Connor MacManus: But this time bigger. BETTER!
Rocco: Look! Look what we can do. Look how ****in' beautiful we are. You think the men that built all this had it easy?
Murphy MacManus: Hard men!
Connor MacManus: Doing hard ****!
Rocco: and that gives me a hard on... But not in a gay way or anything like that.
Murphy MacManus: No, 'course not
Connor MacManus: Yeah it goes without sayin'
Rocco: I am so sick of all of this self help, twelve step, leftover hippie generation ********!
Connor MacManus: Now they don't want you to do anything, right? Just sit there. Don't drink.
Murphy MacManus: Don't smoke. Don't drive fast.
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus, Rocco: Kiss my ***!
Rocco: **** it! Do it all I say! Do you think Duke Wayne spent all of his time talking about his feelings with a ****in' therapist?
Connor MacManus: There's no ****ing way he did!
Rocco: John Wayne died with five pounds of undigested red meat in his ***. Now that's a man! Real men hide their feelings. Why?
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus, Rocco: Because it's none of your ****in' business!
Rocco: Men do not cry. Men do not pout. Men jack you in the ****in' jaw and say...
Detective Greenly: Thanks for comin' out.

Phuque2's photo
Thu 07/29/10 06:45 PM
Fear, I think I finally understand you now....

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 07/29/10 06:47 PM

Fear, I think I finally understand you now....


I'm a stone wall, friend.

Phuque2's photo
Thu 07/29/10 06:54 PM
That is what I was thinking. Life continues at warp speed.

RainbowTrout's photo
Thu 07/29/10 07:00 PM

this is where men can talk to each other about there relationships that tor them apart. so i will start her name was monique from spokane,Wa she had cheeted on my twice because she was a drunk and let her co worker take advantage of her drunkness she was at home i was working my usual grave shift at work she took him to the strip club when ii came home he was in my bed with her. let it go once. the second time i walked in on them in the middle of it because i worked 48 on 42 off firefighter so it was hard for us to have our time but she was a bartender so she worked late aswell.


Great topic. I have a buddy who opened up in our AA meeting. He found his wife in the bathroom with another man. He said he was concerned because she was in the bathroom for what seemed to him like a long time. Some how the wife and the dude locked him out of the house. So he grabs an ax and starts to chop the door down. They threw the door at him and from his story I guess they get the door back up. So he gets on the roof and starts chopping through the roof. They call the law on him and they take him to jail. He still sees her when he goes to visit the kids because he still has visitation rights. She wants to get back with him because her and the dude broke up. He has decided just to see the kids and not have anything to do with her. I was thinking I know where to go if I need to borrow an ax.

no photo
Thu 07/29/10 07:01 PM
I could do pages and pages on this subject, but it all boils down to my own stupidity, naivete, and taking far too long to understand what "waste of time" really means.


RoamingOrator's photo
Thu 07/29/10 07:03 PM
I can't forget the words of the bouncer at this place where I got dumped in a very public fashion:


B1tches be crazy, and we still like 'em anyway.

hmlover's photo
Fri 07/30/10 05:26 AM
The breakup was hard enough to take, but when I found out our child wasn't really mine, that's when it got to almost too much to take.

oldsage's photo
Fri 07/30/10 05:32 AM
No pain.....No gain

newarkjw's photo
Fri 07/30/10 05:32 AM

The breakup was hard enough to take, but when I found out our child wasn't really mine, that's when it got to almost too much to take.


Damn brother. I can't even imagine. Sorry to hear that.....

soufiehere's photo
Fri 07/30/10 05:56 AM

The breakup was hard enough to take, but when I found out our child wasn't really mine, that's when it got to almost too much to take.

Harsh.
So sorry hmlover.

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 07/30/10 05:57 AM

No pain.....No gain


But the misery is optional.happy

Rondoobie's photo
Fri 07/30/10 10:30 AM
Edited by Rondoobie on Fri 07/30/10 10:31 AM

The breakup was hard enough to take, but when I found out our child wasn't really mine, that's when it got to almost too much to take.
That is so horrible. I noticed you said it was "almost" too much to take, that really shows how strong you are.
(((((hmlover)))))

mightymoe's photo
Fri 07/30/10 10:45 AM
Edited by mightymoe on Fri 07/30/10 10:47 AM

this is where men can talk to each other about there relationships that tor them apart. so i will start her name was monique from spokane,Wa she had cheeted on my twice because she was a drunk and let her co worker take advantage of her drunkness she was at home i was working my usual grave shift at work she took him to the strip club when ii came home he was in my bed with her. let it go once. the second time i walked in on them in the middle of it because i worked 48 on 42 off firefighter so it was hard for us to have our time but she was a bartender so she worked late aswell.


get real dude... if she cheats, why even bother? there is more chics out there, and from what i understand, they love firemen... don't put up with that silliness, life is to short.

no photo
Sat 07/31/10 04:57 AM

The breakup was hard enough to take, but when I found out our child wasn't really mine, that's when it got to almost too much to take.


That which does not kill us, make us stronger.

And very bitter.

(been there and done that too)

Mayhem_J's photo
Sat 07/31/10 05:04 AM

Men don't have feelings! Have you ever seen a John Wayne film with him crying in the psych office? No! Why?! Because men build things, then we destroy things to build more things!


Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus: Sláinte
Murphy MacManus: You know, it was sort of a balance though, wasn't it?
Connor MacManus: Shades of Eastwood. Charlie Bronson.
Rocco: Duke ****ing Wayne!
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus: Duke ****ing WAYNE!
Rocco: Men build things, then we die. It's in our ****ing DNA! THAT'S WHAT WE DO!
Murphy MacManus: And when it all falls down?
Rocco: We build it right back up again.
Connor MacManus: But this time bigger. BETTER!
Rocco: Look! Look what we can do. Look how ****in' beautiful we are. You think the men that built all this had it easy?
Murphy MacManus: Hard men!
Connor MacManus: Doing hard ****!
Rocco: and that gives me a hard on... But not in a gay way or anything like that.
Murphy MacManus: No, 'course not
Connor MacManus: Yeah it goes without sayin'
Rocco: I am so sick of all of this self help, twelve step, leftover hippie generation ********!
Connor MacManus: Now they don't want you to do anything, right? Just sit there. Don't drink.
Murphy MacManus: Don't smoke. Don't drive fast.
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus, Rocco: Kiss my ***!
Rocco: **** it! Do it all I say! Do you think Duke Wayne spent all of his time talking about his feelings with a ****in' therapist?
Connor MacManus: There's no ****ing way he did!
Rocco: John Wayne died with five pounds of undigested red meat in his ***. Now that's a man! Real men hide their feelings. Why?
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus, Rocco: Because it's none of your ****in' business!
Rocco: Men do not cry. Men do not pout. Men jack you in the ****in' jaw and say...
Detective Greenly: Thanks for comin' out.



BS 2.....LOVE IT!!

hmlover's photo
Mon 08/02/10 12:02 PM


The breakup was hard enough to take, but when I found out our child wasn't really mine, that's when it got to almost too much to take.
That is so horrible. I noticed you said it was "almost" too much to take, that really shows how strong you are.
(((((hmlover)))))


It was touch and go for a very long time... but yeah, I made it through, and here I am. :smile:

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 08/02/10 12:10 PM
Hey

it happens to us women to buddy!!

No whining !!!!!

Pull your big boy panties up and march on!!!!
:heart:

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