Community > Dating & Relationships

Previous 1 2 3 Next

Topic: Good Advice for Conflicts ...
Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 07/27/10 11:12 AM
Read this today .. When in conflict, make the relationship more important than the issue

MiVidaLoca Joined Mon 09/21/09 Posts: 909	Tue 07/27/10 11:16 AM
Solid advice Hiya Fade

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 07/27/10 11:18 AM
I generally avoid conflicts. Unless it creates internal conflict within myself. I generally just go with the flow, and am willing to compromise and please the other, within reason.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 07/27/10 11:27 AM
What if the relationship is the issue

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 07/27/10 11:38 AM
Solid advice Hiya Fade hey handsome .. how's the life eh?

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 07/27/10 11:39 AM
What if the relationship is the issue Go back to the bar Johnny ..

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Tue 07/27/10 11:39 AM
relationships are issues

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 07/27/10 11:44 AM
relationships are issues YOU! Go sit with Johnny

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 07/27/10 11:48 AM
I generally avoid conflicts. Unless it creates internal conflict within myself. I generally just go with the flow, and am willing to compromise and please the other, within reason. suckup

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 07/27/10 11:54 AM
True.... Very wise!

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 07/27/10 11:57 AM
True.... Very wise! Ladies and Gentlemen we have TWO winners this morning .. AL and TAMMY .. BOB .. tell them what they won

mattsk1 Joined Tue 06/15/10 Posts: 353	Tue 07/27/10 11:58 AM Edited by mattsk1 on Tue 07/27/10 11:59 AM
I have avoided conflicts at all cost in my life and it has cost in the absence of meaningful relationships. I discovered conflicts and relationships co-exist. Conflicts will find a way to bite you back again and again unless they are dealt with. My conflicts were internal and I had to make my own decision to change.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 07/27/10 12:00 PM
I have avoided conflicts at all cost in my life and it has cost in the absence of meaningful relationships. I discovered conflicts and relationships co-exist. Conflicts will find a way to bite you back again and again unless they are dealt with. My conflicts were internal and I had to make my own decision to change.

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Tue 07/27/10 12:02 PM
What if the relationship is the issue then avoid the issue and you have no conflict

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 07/27/10 12:15 PM
What if the relationship is the issue then avoid the issue and you have no conflict LOL .. leave it to Phil

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Tue 07/27/10 12:37 PM
Passion must also have brakes applied to slow it down a little. AS passions rise during conflict so does the speed at which it can get out of control. So is the speed limit 55 words per second?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 07/27/10 12:38 PM
When my sister calls me to complain about her husband I always say, "Well, do you want to be right or do you want to be married?" Sometimes you just need to let it go.

Geniee Joined Fri 06/25/10 Posts: 68	Tue 07/27/10 12:42 PM
When my sister calls me to complain about her husband I always say, "Well, do you want to be right or do you want to be married?" Sometimes you just need to let it go. This is perfect! You should have an advice collumn here.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 07/27/10 12:43 PM
When my sister calls me to complain about her husband I always say, "Well, do you want to be right or do you want to be married?" Sometimes you just need to let it go. Yup, it's better to choose your battles wisely. Sometimes you have to step back a bit, and look at the big picture.

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Tue 07/27/10 12:44 PM
Fuzzy handcuffs and a feather...