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Topic: Why are you still Single?
soufiehere's photo
Mon 02/21/11 01:44 PM

flowerforyou *hugs*

I hope you are feeling better, so
you can go back to being picky :-)

Blackipino's photo
Mon 02/21/11 01:45 PM
Because I unintentionally don't give men the satisfaction of treating me like a little princess. They're attracted to my feminine, curvaceous body and my overall platonic sweetness, but when they realize I'm not a sugarplum and actually quite tomboyish, they lose interest pretty fast:)...I THINK this is why, I'm honestly not sure though.

OhHenrydidit's photo
Mon 02/21/11 01:56 PM
Cuz I wear shirts that say " Guns Dont Kill People, I Do!" and " Dont Piss Me OFF! Im Running Out of Places to Hide the Bodies...."

ArtGurl's photo
Mon 02/21/11 10:41 PM






Timing? Distance? Who knows ... it won't be forever. I am loving my life.



good morale!! best of luck!! For sure u will get one soon!!


Thank you flowerforyou

vthepoet's photo
Tue 02/22/11 05:42 AM
Cause my god has a sense of humor ;-)

roadlesstrvld's photo
Tue 02/22/11 04:43 PM
Single because I can't find a man I can't live without.
My ex was replaced with a fly swatter as all he did for me was kill spiders. So sad...

Dict8's photo
Tue 02/22/11 04:45 PM
Cuz' I'm impossible..... :tongue:

Sleepless_nights_78's photo
Tue 02/22/11 05:41 PM
Much happier being single and just haven't found the right one yet.

j3ss1ka's photo
Tue 02/22/11 05:43 PM
Single because i enjoy my freedom and like to go out with friends often i love to dance and have a good time, but i also like men older than me (10 years) so they usually are over the club scene and want to settle down, but i guess i have yet to find one with a young soul.

navygirl's photo
Tue 02/22/11 09:59 PM

Because I unintentionally don't give men the satisfaction of treating me like a little princess. They're attracted to my feminine, curvaceous body and my overall platonic sweetness, but when they realize I'm not a sugarplum and actually quite tomboyish, they lose interest pretty fast:)...I THINK this is why, I'm honestly not sure though.


I have to agree with the the princess statement. I personally can't stand it.

no photo
Wed 02/23/11 06:53 PM
cuz I don't know if I have what it takes to be a good parter any more - I've become jaded

I do an emotional dance - I want it (relationship) but I run from it if it gets too close

it's going to take a special kind of man I think

msharmony's photo
Wed 02/23/11 06:56 PM
single because I am honest about what it is I can bring to the table, and what it is I need in return,

outside of all the romantic fantasy


I want to be with the 'right' person or just be right on my own, and he hasnt found me yet,,,,if he is out there

no photo
Wed 02/23/11 07:08 PM
Sweet, I looked at your profile. I think there may be a flaw in your verbage. "I'm not going to date you" is kind of a show-stopper. A guy has to feel that he at least has some kind of a chance to win your heart. You're certainly attractive enough to draw some interest. (I tried to send this message through your profile page, but I didn't qualify for you filter).

Don't care much for your Governor or Senior Senator, but that's neither here nor there.

Cheers, Art

no photo
Wed 02/23/11 07:09 PM

single because I am honest about what it is I can bring to the table, and what it is I need in return,

outside of all the romantic fantasy


I want to be with the 'right' person or just be right on my own, and he hasnt found me yet,,,,if he is out there


yanno it would be nice to meet a man who just likes a good chat now & again - and be able to forget about "issues" until ...whenever...if ever

a man who is a friend, and open to whatever - or nothing at all happening ( in an intimate sense)- but still a friend

msharmony's photo
Wed 02/23/11 07:16 PM


single because I am honest about what it is I can bring to the table, and what it is I need in return,

outside of all the romantic fantasy


I want to be with the 'right' person or just be right on my own, and he hasnt found me yet,,,,if he is out there


yanno it would be nice to meet a man who just likes a good chat now & again - and be able to forget about "issues" until ...whenever...if ever

a man who is a friend, and open to whatever - or nothing at all happening ( in an intimate sense)- but still a friend



I agree, I have friends I can chat with, but Im stil single because that is a bit more of a 'selective' process

no photo
Wed 02/23/11 07:16 PM
Edited by artlo on Wed 02/23/11 07:18 PM
yanno it would be nice to meet a man who just likes a good chat now & again - and be able to forget about "issues" until ...whenever...if ever

a man who is a friend, and open to whatever - or nothing at all happening ( in an intimate sense)- but still a friend
There is absolutely no reason that that cannot happen. Friends will tolerate all kinds of disconnects with each other. I have friends who are very Conservative, but whom I dearly love. "Issues" are a part of who you are. A true friend deserves to know where you stand on those issues. All your friend needs to know is that you love him/her.

no photo
Wed 02/23/11 07:23 PM

Sweet, I looked at your profile. I think there may be a flaw in your verbage. "I'm not going to date you" is kind of a show-stopper. A guy has to feel that he at least has some kind of a chance to win your heart. You're certainly attractive enough to draw some interest. (I tried to send this message through your profile page, but I didn't qualify for you filter).

Don't care much for your Governor or Senior Senator, but that's neither here nor there.

Cheers, Art
laugh ur sweet! thanks - IDK what I have filtered that prevents your message - I thought I had pretty much opened all that up

I suppose that's good feedback

I'm just not much of a dater, and everyone on here I talk to lives hundreds or 1000s 0f miles away so I decided to be "forums only" on here

that's what that means - but as I also said I am rewriting my profile and I will consider your comments kindly. thanks

no photo
Wed 02/23/11 07:26 PM

yanno it would be nice to meet a man who just likes a good chat now & again - and be able to forget about "issues" until ...whenever...if ever

a man who is a friend, and open to whatever - or nothing at all happening ( in an intimate sense)- but still a friend
There is absolutely no reason that that cannot happen. Friends will tolerate all kinds of disconnects with each other. I have friends who are very Conservative, but whom I dearly love. "Issues" are a part of who you are. A true friend deserves to know where you stand on those issues. All your friend needs to know is that you love him/her.


well I do not like things issue oriented at the start of new relationships. I like to keep things easy, light, & friendly - and I like them to stay that way even as we grow closer

I don't like politics so I did not mean those kinds of issues, and I do not know who my governor or senators are so don't worry about it (nor do I care)flowerforyou

mamaoftwo0810's photo
Wed 02/23/11 08:39 PM
Really Im not sure but I have a couple ideas. I've been told that men are intimidated by me, not sure if thats because I'm more like 'one of the guys' and not at all girly, guess its just the country girl comin out in me biggrin and I haven't found a man that can be honest and handle my kids and I. :laughing:

Ducky1212's photo
Wed 02/23/11 08:41 PM
because I don't let men control my life, and so far they have all wanted to tell me what i could and couldn't do

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