Topic: Staying single
Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/03/10 08:05 AM
Edited by Ladylid2012 on Sat 07/03/10 08:06 AM



Until I find someone that is close to what I'm looking for I will remain single, however I still have ALL the benefits of a girlfriend in the meantime.


awesome...I do hope you at least treat her to an nice dinner now and then. So no random boinking for ya aye pats...



There's more than one & we go out from time to time, they also cook for me often & it's mostly "Random boinking " as you call it.


More than one..well you little he-whore you....laugh :wink:

... and "they" cook. Sweet deal ya got going on!!! Do "they" also do your laundry..who's the man, you da man!!
:thumbsup:

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 07/03/10 09:41 AM
<------Meandering Mounter

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Sat 07/03/10 09:53 AM

How many of you have decided to stay single, and just have friends now. Please explain why also.


Well, I haven't exactly decided to stay single, it's more like it's been decided for me.

Why? because there isn't anyone who fits my parameters; there isn't anyone I'm attracted to or who I find interesting.

If I'm looking at it from a historical perspective, I've never been with anyone who I was better off being with than being single. That's a really horribly-constructed sentence and it didn't come out the way I had hoped, so I'll try to do that again in a less labyrinthine way, maybe.

I would have been better off staying single than being with anyone I've ever been with. There, that's a bit clearer.

So, it's difficult for me to believe that anyone I would be involved with in the future would be any different.

I stopped drinking at 22 when I realized that drinking was no good for me and never would be. I don't know why I should see dating any differently.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/03/10 09:57 AM

<------Meandering Mounter


yippie ki aye....

freeonthree's photo
Sat 07/03/10 10:18 AM
Edited by freeonthree on Sat 07/03/10 10:24 AM

I have no desire to stay single, I love being in a committed relationship. I prefer to make love to someone I'm actually in love with, but if I don't find someone special soon I may just participate in some random boinking. Two months without is just too long!


Two months ? It's been alot longer than that for me. Maybe 5 or 6 years. Came close a few times, but I just don't have the desire to have sex with a woman im not in love with anymore.
I've decided to just have friends for now, and see what the future brings.


Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 07/03/10 10:20 AM


<------Meandering Mounter


yippie ki aye....


you forgot the "MoFo"bigsmile

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/03/10 10:21 AM



<------Meandering Mounter


yippie ki aye....


you forgot the "MoFo"bigsmile


no I didn't, I just didn't post it....it's all in my head bigsmile

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 07/03/10 10:32 AM
mine too

pitchfork heh heh heh

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/03/10 10:44 AM
hmmmmmmm, my phone is ringing...be right back :wink:

Rondoobie's photo
Sat 07/03/10 11:25 AM

I have no desire to stay single, I love being in a committed relationship. I prefer to make love to someone I'm actually in love with, but if I don't find someone special soon I may just participate in some random boinking. Two months without is just too long!
So the lonliness was getting to me last night. I've rethought my position on random boinking and have decided I can wait for that special guy to come along. I'm worth it!

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 07/03/10 11:26 AM



How many of you have decided to stay single, and just have friends now. Please explain why also.


I’m staying single until I met the WOW factor. love

I am casually dating but that doesn’t mean I’m necessarily celibate. I love sex and if I meet a guy with whom I have chemistry then I’ll let him sex me up. laugh

Someday I might get married but not until the aforementioned Mr. Wow walks into my world. winking


I have lots of friends - too many that I don't have sex with so I do separate them from the guys I date. In other words, I have enough friends! :angel:


oh Melody..the "random boinking" could work for ya...
laugh laugh


Selectively random boinking for sure! :thumbsup: :laughing:

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 07/03/10 11:37 AM
<----glasses Seductively Randomglasses

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/03/10 11:48 AM
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Selectively, Seductively, Sensually, Sassy....not random

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 07/03/10 04:18 PM
staying single is one thing..try giving up sex. For some of us it's harder than anything I have ever quit before. I gave up smoking at age 19 (restarted at 27) and that was nothing compared to it. Especially when someone was very sexually active for 2 decades. Women just suck..they really don't know what they are missing, thanks to their stereotyping and neediness, gold digging lifestyle and stuck up behavior.

LouLou2's photo
Sat 07/03/10 04:25 PM

How many of you have decided to stay single, and just have friends now. Please explain why also.


I purposely stayed single through the death throws of the marriage and a few months following. In retrospect, I should have taken a bit longer, I think. It is no longer a decision I have made, but most of the time I am quite happy with my life as it is. A little lonely at times, but all in all, not so bad.

LouLou2's photo
Sat 07/03/10 04:25 PM
Edited by LouLou2 on Sat 07/03/10 04:26 PM

staying single is one thing..try giving up sex. For some of us it's harder than anything I have ever quit before. I gave up smoking at age 19 (restarted at 27) and that was nothing compared to it. Especially when someone was very sexually active for 2 decades. Women just suck..they really don't know what they are missing, thanks to their stereotyping and neediness, gold digging lifestyle and stuck up behavior.


Ouch!!!

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/03/10 04:28 PM

staying single is one thing..try giving up sex. For some of us it's harder than anything I have ever quit before. I gave up smoking at age 19 (restarted at 27) and that was nothing compared to it. Especially when someone was very sexually active for 2 decades. Women just suck..they really don't know what they are missing, thanks to their stereotyping and neediness, gold digging lifestyle and stuck up behavior.


laugh laugh laugh

Don't be a hater just cause were all switching teams..


gawd Ferenc..It makes me so hot when you talk like a sexist pig...you just melted my ice cream cone winking

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 07/03/10 04:36 PM


staying single is one thing..try giving up sex. For some of us it's harder than anything I have ever quit before. I gave up smoking at age 19 (restarted at 27) and that was nothing compared to it. Especially when someone was very sexually active for 2 decades. Women just suck..they really don't know what they are missing, thanks to their stereotyping and neediness, gold digging lifestyle and stuck up behavior.


laugh laugh laugh

Don't be a hater just cause were all switching teams..


gawd Ferenc..It makes me so hot when you talk like a sexist pig...you just melted my ice cream cone winking


Well trust me..you would say the same thing if you'd come here where I am and see these 25 year old girls buzzing around the crooked fat 45 year old millionaires, working in some god awful money scheme in New York City, because they all want a Ford Excursion or a Chevy Tahoe to drive to the mall in 600 dollar shoes. Women of 2010. They would also give up sex, but not because they can't get it, but because they rather have money and a 70 year old Wall Street bastard who can't even get it up anymore, but buys them expensive pearl necklaces.

Engraven_Image's photo
Sat 07/03/10 04:38 PM
I have been single now since January. After that break-up, I decided to stay single until I was able to push forwarth with my movie script writing. Now, I am on the right track with that and so I have decided to jump back into the dating scene. Being a single father and always wanting someone that will be just as good to your children as they would you is kinda hard to find; let alone, someone that clicks with you. Trying to find a woman that truly wants a man like me, well, she's hard to find. I've decided to get back to the point of dating around with hopes of finding that special woman.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/03/10 05:03 PM



staying single is one thing..try giving up sex. For some of us it's harder than anything I have ever quit before. I gave up smoking at age 19 (restarted at 27) and that was nothing compared to it. Especially when someone was very sexually active for 2 decades. Women just suck..they really don't know what they are missing, thanks to their stereotyping and neediness, gold digging lifestyle and stuck up behavior.


laugh laugh laugh

Don't be a hater just cause were all switching teams..


gawd Ferenc..It makes me so hot when you talk like a sexist pig...you just melted my ice cream cone winking


Well trust me..you would say the same thing if you'd come here where I am and see these 25 year old girls buzzing around the crooked fat 45 year old millionaires, working in some god awful money scheme in New York City, because they all want a Ford Excursion or a Chevy Tahoe to drive to the mall in 600 dollar shoes. Women of 2010. They would also give up sex, but not because they can't get it, but because they rather have money and a 70 year old Wall Street bastard who can't even get it up anymore, but buys them expensive pearl necklaces.


Alright I get it..I get the frustration. You put all of us in that category that you see. You are getting so jaded, so bitter. You are seeing the women in YOUR age group do this.
Lets walk in each others shoes for a minute Ferenc...I walked away from a hubby with money, and alot of it. because I needed to walk a more spiritual path and he made fun of it, criticized me, a thing that was so important to me. I walked away..I asked for nothing. I took what was in the bank, my car, my piano, my kids and left. I have struggled raising these boys alone but I never sold out, never!!
Now I am done with menopause, raging hormones, constant desire for sex and haven't been layed for 3 years. So don't even go there with how hard it is to give up sex. I happen to miss it myself. So I get offers from kids, all day long..guys younger than you, or the 60 year old cowboys. The men my age want the 25 year old hard body gold diggers. You b!tch because that's what they are but those are the ones you keep going after. So us average girls who really want something ..something solid..were not what the men want. We aren't the right package. If people would look at the heart, well we all actually my find what is is we truly want. If ya don't want superficial, then stop being superficial!!!
and you know I:heart:U