When all sorts of stuff starts changing in the relationship.. Sex goes down from twice to once a day.. Meals go down from 3 to twice a day.. You find out one of your kids is not yours.. You buy 3 comdoms & one disappears.. The only thing that might go up is the arguments you're having.. It was once a day but now you're having at least 10 arguments a day..

When she starts suddenly trying to lose weight after years of not trying and no longer has anything to say.

For me, it's time to walk. That has been the pattern I have seen.

I dont worry about it!! when I am done with my doll I deflate her and back in the closet, end of problem!!

1st clue... She hired a carpenter




2nd clue.... She hired a Cabana/Pool boy (but you don't own a pool)



3rd clue.... New window ornaments

Where do I get me one of those?

Let me know when you find the answer to that question, Myka! I wanna be next in line!!!

He's gay, you know....

That's a bit overly sensitive, wouldn't you say? If it goes from a few times a week to once a month or longer, then there is a serious problem, meals, if it's never, then there's a problem. Condoms, always keep track of your inventory. Arguments, they're prevalent in any realtionship, the trick is to make them discussions and debates, not arguments, rantings, and shouting matches. Time-outs are very important in relationships, one person needs to go out and get away, an then come back after having an epiphany and work it out from a calm, fresh perspective. Don't go to bed or have dinner angry. I think our grandparents told us that.

I noticed you didn't say nothing about the kids..
& no i'm not being overly sensitive.. I'm being dead serious.. It always start as a little then turn into a lot.. If you don't realize the changes when they first happen you will be doomed by the time you do realize it..