Explain to me how she deserved it, when the only rule she "broke" was to help protect her friend?

Her friend only got groped, not raped, not injured. They should have went to one of the bouncers.

Second reason doesn't apply then, because she had a damn good reason if her friend was in danger.

Danger? your funny, she has her butt groped, so what. thats no reason to break a nose. its just skin. she wasnt raped, wasnt harmed, etc. thats a bouncer moment. defense is one thing, lack of self control over a stupid thing is pathetic. someone grabs my *** its a COMPLIMENT over my looks, sure they wont be getting anything more or get to again, but not break a nose over a compliment

If a woman is going to act big and bad and throw punches, it's only fair a few get thrown her way. Simple as that.

How do you know he WOULDN'T have harmed her eventually? Your assuming a lot here. And maybe you might take it as a compliment, but others (quite rightly) take it as a guy being a pig who can't keep his hands to himself.

I'm a club promoter in Los Angeles and usually spend 3 to 4 nights a week in my club. Usually it's a cool scene, but sometimes there are trouble makers. We have bouncers that control things , but they can't see everything and sometimes I end up dealing with something myself.
This one night I noticed this guy with a bloody nose and this chick who had punched him was cursing him. I went over to find out what happened and the chick was saying this guy was groping the girl she was with and so on.

I said, "Look, we,ve got a strict rule on this shi*. You fight, you're out. Your'e welcome to come back in the future, but tonight you're out."

The chick exploded when she heard this. "I guess it's ok for a women to be assaulted in this club. I guess we should stand around and do nothing. "

"What you're supposed to do is get a bouncer ...", I said but she interrupted me in mid sentence. "My friend was getting her *** grabbed. I'm a 3rd degree black belt in Tae Kown Do. I use restraint, but I won't allow anyone to attack my friends."

"Wait a minute", I said, "if you used restraint, why is this guy standing here with a broken nose?" This really pissed her off. "You asshol*", she said, "I told you 3 fuc*ing times he assaulted my friend". At this point both of these xxxxxes were up in my face cursing and calling me names.

"Alright ladies", I said, "it's time to go."
"I want to talk to your boss", she responded.
"I am the boss around here. I'm in charge and you're leaving."
"You better call up your boss because if you touch me I'll break you nose too."

This was a mistake. I don't like being threatened. First I turned to the guy with a bloody nose. "Go tell them that I sent you over for a free drink. You get to stay. How do you 2 like them apples?" He walked off with a smile on his face and the TKD chick was furious.

"He stays we stay mother fu*ke*!" With that I grabbed her by the arm to escort her out and she punched me in the mouth hard enough to bust my lip up. Now I don't train martial arts as much as I use too, but I take my steroids and hit the weights hard core. I tackled this chick like a linebacker and I thought about pounding her out like I would a man, but I was a gentleman and didn't throw a punch. Instead I put a vicious head lock and started choking hard. "Want to play with men b*tch?" I whispered in her ear. "No matter how hard you train in Tae Kwon Do you will never be able to live in my world."

By this time the bouncers had arrived and I let them have the chick. When she got her wind back and the bouncers picked her up, she started cursing me again. I just grinned at her because we both knew she had learned a lesson. There are some men a karate chick can mess with and there are some they can't.

and how do you know he would? thats an even greater assumption. All men are out to rape women, nice way to defend your gender haha. its not true, ALL my friends except a few are males, and they all have physical fun. its only natural to do stuff like that.

Danger? your funny, she has her butt groped, so what. thats no reason to break a nose. its just skin. she wasnt raped, wasnt harmed, etc. thats a bouncer moment. defense is one thing, lack of self control over a stupid thing is pathetic. someone grabs my *** its a COMPLIMENT over my looks, sure they wont be getting anything more or get to again, but not break a nose over a compliment

I'm a club promoter in Los Angeles and usually spend 3 to 4 nights a week in my club. Usually it's a cool scene, but sometimes there are trouble makers. We have bouncers that control things , but they can't see everything and sometimes I end up dealing with something myself.
This one night I noticed this guy with a bloody nose and this chick who had punched him was cursing him. I went over to find out what happened and the chick was saying this guy was groping the girl she was with and so on.

I said, "Look, we,ve got a strict rule on this shi*. You fight, you're out. Your'e welcome to come back in the future, but tonight you're out."

The chick exploded when she heard this. "I guess it's ok for a women to be assaulted in this club. I guess we should stand around and do nothing. "

"What you're supposed to do is get a bouncer ...", I said but she interrupted me in mid sentence. "My friend was getting her *** grabbed. I'm a 3rd degree black belt in Tae Kown Do. I use restraint, but I won't allow anyone to attack my friends."

"Wait a minute", I said, "if you used restraint, why is this guy standing here with a broken nose?" This really pissed her off. "You asshol*", she said, "I told you 3 fuc*ing times he assaulted my friend". At this point both of these xxxxxes were up in my face cursing and calling me names.

"Alright ladies", I said, "it's time to go."
"I want to talk to your boss", she responded.
"I am the boss around here. I'm in charge and you're leaving."
"You better call up your boss because if you touch me I'll break you nose too."

This was a mistake. I don't like being threatened. First I turned to the guy with a bloody nose. "Go tell them that I sent you over for a free drink. You get to stay. How do you 2 like them apples?" He walked off with a smile on his face and the TKD chick was furious.

"He stays we stay mother fu*ke*!" With that I grabbed her by the arm to escort her out and she punched me in the mouth hard enough to bust my lip up. Now I don't train martial arts as much as I use too, but I take my steroids and hit the weights hard core. I tackled this chick like a linebacker and I thought about pounding her out like I would a man, but I was a gentleman and didn't throw a punch. Instead I put a vicious head lock and started choking hard. "Want to play with men b*tch?" I whispered in her ear. "No matter how hard you train in Tae Kwon Do you will never be able to live in my world."

By this time the bouncers had arrived and I let them have the chick. When she got her wind back and the bouncers picked her up, she started cursing me again. I just grinned at her because we both knew she had learned a lesson. There are some men a karate chick can mess with and there are some they can't.

Danger? your funny, she has her butt groped, so what. thats no reason to break a nose. its just skin. she wasnt raped, wasnt harmed, etc. thats a bouncer moment. defense is one thing, lack of self control over a stupid thing is pathetic. someone grabs my *** its a COMPLIMENT over my looks, sure they wont be getting anything more or get to again, but not break a nose over a compliment

It's a little different if you know them though isn't it? This guy DIDN'T.

THANK YOU! i like seeing a guy who will take down a ***** who deserves it! When you throw the first punch expect some recoil

Your kidding right...I was figuring your joking by the laughter you put up there. You don't really take it as a compliment to have a stranger grab you azz do you?

So, you're saying that if some drunk dude grabbed YOUR ***, he doesn't deserve a punch in the nose? Have fun getting date raped.

people are people, most are living their lives like you and me. yes il agree there are some psychos, but if he left it as what happend, then i stand by it wasnt called for. if he began and attack THEN is the time to defend, but she worked on assumption more than reason and had 0 self control.

kleisto- its not an attack deserving such a reaction when it can be solved in other ways if there is no sign of imediate danger

ladylid- i dont deny that for a second, that person is on the hell no list for life afterward, but it is still a compliment in a sense. they wouldnt do it if they saw 0 attraction/fugly.

Danger? your funny, she has her butt groped, so what. thats no reason to break a nose. its just skin. she wasnt raped, wasnt harmed, etc. thats a bouncer moment. defense is one thing, lack of self control over a stupid thing is pathetic. someone grabs my *** its a COMPLIMENT over my looks, sure they wont be getting anything more or get to again, but not break a nose over a compliment