I don't know about other single women of my age but I've found that I seem to attract younger men like popocorn does pigeons! Don't get me wrong! I love this and these young men seem to truely want to date. Its just that I still have a few hangups about dating younger guys. I'm attracted to them but sometimes these 18 to 30 yr olds just freak me out!!!

Wow! You don't look like you are in your 50s!

I would say.... determine what you want... fun, no strings attached dating -> go for the younger guys.... but if you want something more serious, try going on dates closer to your age.... doesn't guarantee that they are mature, but a slightly bigger chance.

Good luck and welcome to the site.

I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.

Lets keep this in context...

Are you looking for a deeper relationship?

Stick to your guns. LTRs involving serious age differences can be trying and have their difficulties.

Looking to get your groove on?

Why the hell not? Get past the minnows and you might have fun. Not all younger guys have their heads set on sideways.

I have had my fun with a cougar here and there. Again it is only something I keep as friendships and not serious LTRs. There are limitations to LTRs but then again I have seen a couple of cases where a cougar snagged herself a little "Buck" and both cases they were happily involved.

No shame if you have been thinking about putting on your Cougar Tail.

Rome praises you!

Yeah. I mean. I just wish these 18-24 year old young hot chicks would leave me alone. They are scaring me.

Hello! Cougar much? haha Yeah I read your post, and I understand where you are coming from. I'm 19, and I'm a very nice boy and mature for my age. If you are looking to just have fun. Lemme know!

Bah... stick with us old guys... The young guns can't hold their water anyways

good thing I took down my pics so now I wont get perved so much

Hummmmmmmmmmm sorrry the 18-30 year old's don't even make it into my radar....... I prefer those much closer to my age and on the same level as I'm....

I've had the offers and sure it does flatter me but...........still not my cup of tea....

Ya only live once. Go for the gusto, Honey!! Send me pics!!

First of all I hate the cougar label.Like u I always seem to attract younger guys-when they pursue u how does that make a woman a cougar?Dating them depends on the individual-some have a better head on their shoulders then older men.If I like someone and they like me I will go forward-after all I would hate to miss out on something that could be outstanding becuz of an age difference.Older men have been dating younger woman forever and no one thinks anything of it-when we do it we get slapped with a label.

Actually Nikita....there is a label for a dude who dates a younger chick.....it's "Creepy"

ms. cugar...let me give u a bill clinton briefing.
younger males in the 19 year old range have one thing on their mind,and it ain't coming over for dinner. kabish?

i get this all the time, and i am older than dirt. it is looking for a "good time" they say.
now i believe some 19 year old will read this, and throw dirt, rocks, or whatever else he can get his hands on just to confuse the issue.

make urself a little ugly, by blackening ur teeth, and put flour in ur hair. trust me, they will leave u alone and stop calling u hot momma. they don't like missing teeth, and white hair.

but if they think 4 one moment, u might be interested, it won't stop til you strap them in the hi chair, and yell "get lost".

I guess I should be grateful they don't call us that!

The problem with it is that the dudes who do it don't really mind the label "creepy dude dating young chick for sexual purposes" For some derranged reason, they love the title. Like it is a badge of honor.

sugar dadies r the label 4 younger women dating older men..
older men dating younger women....insane, and creepy?
older women dating younger men
younger men dating older women....

so what's the beef? ur all cougars in my opinion. young vs old, old vs. young.
why don't u just get out and have some fun? age is a number, but then again it signifies something.

So do we, Wolves!

Oh Yeah!

oh yes. i forgot u r wolves. not sugar daddies. sorry for the slip.

That or dirty old men!

I just love women.