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how old is too old or too young for dating each other...is there a certain distance between age that is right, whether the woman is the older one or the male is the older on in the relationship? would love to hear opinions on this
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I feel that each individual situation is unique. Age is pretty much just a number. It's the maturity level that I personally look for. A large age gap may work for some; not so much for others. Very hard question, but a good one!
  
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the best one ive heard so far is this girl that said that she figures it out this way....you take your age, divide by two and add seven...thats as young as you should go...sounded kind of interesting...but is that right?
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if that is a good equation to figure out how young you should date....i wonder if there is an equation for how old you should date...lol
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I'm finding out. Quite late in life that
it really does not mean all that much really! It's the maturity of those involved I'm finding out I still think though that it really should not matter except to the two involved it's still a learning process for me!! 
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the best one ive heard so far is this girl that said that she figures it out this way....you take your age, divide by two and add seven...thats as young as you should go...sounded kind of interesting...but is that right? Not a bad start! Being that my son is 16, that formula would certainly work for me, only I would add more than seven in my situation. Maybe like 12.
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the best one ive heard so far is this girl that said that she figures it out this way....you take your age, divide by two and add seven...thats as young as you should go...sounded kind of interesting...but is that right? Not a bad start! Being that my son is 16, that formula would certainly work for me, only I would add more than seven in my situation. Maybe like 12.
yours would be 28 or 29 by those calculations....mine would be 23...but i do get younger girls on here chatting with me...ill talk to them...but if they get to immature i just ignore them...lol |
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the best one ive heard so far is this girl that said that she figures it out this way....you take your age, divide by two and add seven...thats as young as you should go...sounded kind of interesting...but is that right? Not a bad start! Being that my son is 16, that formula would certainly work for me, only I would add more than seven in my situation. Maybe like 12.
yours would be 28 or 29 by those calculations....mine would be 23...but i do get younger girls on here chatting with me...ill talk to them...but if they get to immature i just ignore them...lol And I do the same. It's like Tammy said, it's really the individual and not the number.
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some people i ask this say that you should stay within 5 years of your age...that just sounded a little to constrained for me
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I found out those young ladies aren't unapproachable.
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some people i ask this say that you should stay within 5 years of your age...that just sounded a little to constrained for me Sounds a little too strict to me, too. I mean, what if your dream girl is six or ten years older or younger than you? You know what I'm saying? I would hate to see you, or anyone, miss out because of a number.
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Well, my men keep bein' younger than me ... since I was 27 ... They were always older before then ...
My line of demarcation is that they could not have been conceived by me, I could not have been concieved by them ... More simply put, not more than 12 years younger; it would so creep me out to think he could have been my son! In his case?  ... Well, yanno, whenever he was ripe and ready to knock someone up... 
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Thats a really good question that I have often wondered about.I haven't dated anyone older than me in a very long time. I do believe that maturity doesn't always have a lot to do with actual age. I guess it all comes down to the connection u share with someone,if it is strong then age shouldn't matter.
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Thats a really good question that I have often wondered about.I haven't dated anyone older than me in a very long time. I do believe that maturity doesn't always have a lot to do with actual age. I guess it all comes down to the connection u share with someone,if it is strong then age shouldn't matter. thats true...ive dated girls my age that were less mature than girls that ive dated that were like 10 years younger than me |
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im 5 in dog years but I feel like im 4
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must be all the cars you chase...lol
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I feel that each individual situation is unique. Age is pretty much just a number. It's the maturity level that I personally look for. A large age gap may work for some; not so much for others. Very hard question, but a good one!
I have to agree pretty much with what Jen said. I think it depends a lot on the maturity level & in my case if they are anywhere near my kids ages then they are off limits. But, that's just me. I've recently been with a guy as young as 32 & he's mature for his age & doesn't seem too young although I prefer a little older. |
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Hmmmmm, I use a simple formula. Subtract the age of the person you are looking to be with from your own. Add 10. Multiply by 4. Reverse the two digits of the product then divide by pi.
Once you've done all this sit down have a glass of wine and say to yourself "I'll do it if it is legal, feels right, and works for the two of us." |
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must be all the cars you chase...lol ... 
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Hmmmmm, I use a simple formula. Subtract the age of the person you are looking to be with from your own. Add 10. Multiply by 4. Reverse the two digits of the product then divide by pi. 
Once you've done all this sit down have a glass of wine and say to yourself "I'll do it if it is legal, feels right, and works for the two of us." |
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