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Topic: Older men are better because......
dobermangal's photo
Thu 12/15/11 09:13 PM
Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!

boonedoggy61's photo
Fri 12/16/11 06:40 AM
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navygirl's photo
Fri 12/16/11 12:23 PM
Edited by navygirl on Fri 12/16/11 12:23 PM

Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


Ouch, that has gotta hurt the older guys. surprised

navygirl's photo
Fri 12/16/11 12:24 PM
Edited by navygirl on Fri 12/16/11 12:25 PM



And we truly listen to our partners.


Oh, if only that were true. sigh.

oldhippie1952's photo
Sat 12/17/11 07:20 AM


Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


Ouch, that has gotta hurt the older guys. surprised


Doesn't hurt me cuz I'm none of that junk.

oldhippie1952's photo
Sat 12/17/11 07:21 AM




And we truly listen to our partners.


Oh, if only that were true. sigh.


It is true, well for me anyways. Not saying mistakes aren't made, nobody's perfect.

mary1230's photo
Sat 12/17/11 07:34 AM

Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


thats so sad u feel that way. Some older man must have ruined it for you....older men are exciting, passionate, and yummy with the right toppings!blushing

navygirl's photo
Sat 12/17/11 07:42 AM





And we truly listen to our partners.


Oh, if only that were true. sigh.


It is true, well for me anyways. Not saying mistakes aren't made, nobody's perfect.


Oh, I agree and personally I don't mind when a man doesn't always listen but the last guy I dated didn't even listen when I said the doctor was testing me for cancer. This is a big deal to me and for a man to ignore that; it truly hurt me.

navygirl's photo
Sat 12/17/11 07:45 AM


Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


thats so sad u feel that way. Some older man must have ruined it for you....older men are exciting, passionate, and yummy with the right toppings!blushing


Well, I don't totally agree with what she said about boring, crabby, and bitter but goodness knows I have met my share of them too. The bitter one were the divorced ones that just never got over it. Never met too many crabby guys but have met lots of boring guys. I am an active woman and sitting home and watching tv doesn't do it for me. I realize that its not all older men as that would be an unfair generlizing but as I say I have had my share of those types.

no photo
Sat 12/17/11 07:59 AM


Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


thats so sad u feel that way. Some older man must have ruined it for you....older men are exciting, passionate, and yummy with the right toppings!blushing
drinker A toast to you my Dear,
for it was very refreshing, reading these words here..flowers


Age to a point,,is time-less, in the eyes that truly loves them..

WE shall all grow old,,or die.

But on the way to BOTH,,,we should all be and love, everyone.
Life is the edge we all walk, and as IT cares less our age.
Why should we then make that an issue within ourselves?

mary1230's photo
Sat 12/17/11 08:00 AM



Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


thats so sad u feel that way. Some older man must have ruined it for you....older men are exciting, passionate, and yummy with the right toppings!blushing


Well, I don't totally agree with what she said about boring, crabby, and bitter but goodness knows I have met my share of them too. The bitter one were the divorced ones that just never got over it. Never met too many crabby guys but have met lots of boring guys. I am an active woman and sitting home and watching tv doesn't do it for me. I realize that its not all older men as that would be an unfair generlizing but as I say I have had my share of those types.


then I have to agree with you. I have met my share of boring guys....was married to one for 29 years.

teadipper's photo
Sat 12/17/11 08:06 AM
Edited by teadipper on Sat 12/17/11 08:07 AM

I saw this online today. It says it perfectly.....

1. You Get Off: He's confident in bed. He knows what he's doing ... and if he doesn't by then, well, then he's hopeless and you don't have to waste your time trying to teach him.

2. He Knows Cool Stuff You Never Heard Of: Generation gaps can be a good thing culture-wise. He can introduce you to music and movies that are totally awesome classics.

3. He's Super Supportive: He's got a career and is secure in his work life, so he’s totally supportive of your ambitions. And probs full of good advice! Not to mention the quarter-life crisis is kinda like the mid-life one.

4. Someone Has Already "Fixed Him Up": That relationship didn’t work out. And now you can reap the benefits of nice shoes and hand towels in the bathroom.

5. He Doesn't Stay Out Late: He might be a ladies' man, but after a certain age, he's not out on the prowl every night in da club lookin' for a fresh piece. He just wants to hang with you.

6. He Knows Himself: Nobody's perfect, and by now, he understands his main foibles. So, he can even communicate them to you to prevent friction.

7. You're The Pretty One: It's shallow, but it's always nice to feel extra sexy.
8. He Doesn't Want To Be Alone: He's already hit that point when men realize they don't want to be all by themselves. Even if they intend to stay confirmed bachelors, they still want company.

9. Salt N' Pepper Hair: So hot. Sure, not every middle-aged guy has got it, but it certainly ups your chances.

10. No More Going Dutch: There won’t be that awkward pause when the check comes; he'll always take it because a man of his years makes more money. You won't even feel the slightest bit guilty.

11. He Is Going To Be This Rad Forever: Some peeps just lose their lust for life at a certain age, but your dude has still got it! He can not only keep up with your young butt, but he piques your interest. You know for sure that time doesn't slow him down. He's always willing to try new things. He's not going to turn into some couch potato all of a sudden. In another 20 years, he’ll still be l-i-v-i-n'.






You forgot a very important one. He has out grown the need to be a hot azz punk b*tt kicker marking territory by peeing on every tree and if the guy at Jack in the Box is sweet on you and gives you twenty packets so BBQ sauce, he is just happy his girlfriend scored him extra BBQ sauce.

ujGearhead's photo
Sat 12/17/11 08:10 AM


I saw this online today. It says it perfectly.....

1. You Get Off: He's confident in bed. He knows what he's doing ... and if he doesn't by then, well, then he's hopeless and you don't have to waste your time trying to teach him.

2. He Knows Cool Stuff You Never Heard Of: Generation gaps can be a good thing culture-wise. He can introduce you to music and movies that are totally awesome classics.

3. He's Super Supportive: He's got a career and is secure in his work life, so he’s totally supportive of your ambitions. And probs full of good advice! Not to mention the quarter-life crisis is kinda like the mid-life one.

4. Someone Has Already "Fixed Him Up": That relationship didn’t work out. And now you can reap the benefits of nice shoes and hand towels in the bathroom.

5. He Doesn't Stay Out Late: He might be a ladies' man, but after a certain age, he's not out on the prowl every night in da club lookin' for a fresh piece. He just wants to hang with you.

6. He Knows Himself: Nobody's perfect, and by now, he understands his main foibles. So, he can even communicate them to you to prevent friction.

7. You're The Pretty One: It's shallow, but it's always nice to feel extra sexy.
8. He Doesn't Want To Be Alone: He's already hit that point when men realize they don't want to be all by themselves. Even if they intend to stay confirmed bachelors, they still want company.

9. Salt N' Pepper Hair: So hot. Sure, not every middle-aged guy has got it, but it certainly ups your chances.

10. No More Going Dutch: There won’t be that awkward pause when the check comes; he'll always take it because a man of his years makes more money. You won't even feel the slightest bit guilty.

11. He Is Going To Be This Rad Forever: Some peeps just lose their lust for life at a certain age, but your dude has still got it! He can not only keep up with your young butt, but he piques your interest. You know for sure that time doesn't slow him down. He's always willing to try new things. He's not going to turn into some couch potato all of a sudden. In another 20 years, he’ll still be l-i-v-i-n'.






You forgot a very important one. He has out grown the need to be a hot azz punk b*tt kicker marking territory by peeing on every tree and if the guy at Jack in the Box is sweet on you and gives you twenty packets so BBQ sauce, he is just happy his girlfriend scored him extra BBQ sauce.


You can never have too much BBQ sauce! :thumbsup:

luv2roknroll's photo
Sat 12/17/11 08:41 AM
They are much easier to take to a motel room, rob, and handcuff to the bathroom sink! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

DaveyB's photo
Sat 12/17/11 08:49 AM
Edited by DaveyB on Sat 12/17/11 09:13 AM


Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


Ouch, that has gotta hurt the older guys. surprised


Not this one. Older men also can see when someone is speaking from bad experiences, and sometimes inexperience, and that their comments really have nothing to do with them and so don't take them personally.

oldhippie1952's photo
Sat 12/17/11 09:57 AM

Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


I forgot to add I'm going to Hawaii in summer of 2014 to explore the island(s). I don't call liking to travel boring or bitter or crabby.

teadipper's photo
Sat 12/17/11 09:58 AM



Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


Ouch, that has gotta hurt the older guys. surprised


Not this one. Older men also can see when someone is speaking from bad experiences, and sometimes inexperience, and that their comments really have nothing to do with them and so don't take them personally.


I agree with Davey. Also older guys are more live and let live because they have been around the block and know it takes all kinds. They have their own personal morals that they abide by but like here in CA, they are not going to go off about a trannie sitting next to them on ferry to Catalina or whatever. They have matured into their own secure manhood and are not threatened.

DaveyB's photo
Sat 12/17/11 10:10 AM




Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


Ouch, that has gotta hurt the older guys. surprised


Not this one. Older men also can see when someone is speaking from bad experiences, and sometimes inexperience, and that their comments really have nothing to do with them and so don't take them personally.


I agree with Davey. Also older guys are more live and let live because they have been around the block and know it takes all kinds. They have their own personal morals that they abide by but like here in CA, they are not going to go off about a trannie sitting next to them on ferry to Catalina or whatever. They have matured into their own secure manhood and are not threatened.


Thank you and yes I feel much like that. Frankly rather than being uptight about that particular situation I'd be more inclined to see it as opportunity to learn.
At 55 my sense of curiosity has not slowed at all, in that respect I am as I always have been. Which really goes to the point I tried to make earlier, that as a group some traits may be more common to one than another, but it's really about the individual. My only reason for limiting my preferences is for common ground and likelihood of compatibility, but I would never write anyone off based simply on their age... well ok, yeah I do have an emotional issue when someone is younger than my oldest, just kind of freaks me. But it has nothing to do with "common traits"

navygirl's photo
Sat 12/17/11 12:12 PM



Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!


Ouch, that has gotta hurt the older guys. surprised


Not this one. Older men also can see when someone is speaking from bad experiences, and sometimes inexperience, and that their comments really have nothing to do with them and so don't take them personally.


That is good to hear Dave. Unfortunately; experience is what we all speak from and its hard for us not to generalize at times; especially when we are hurting.

markc48's photo
Sat 12/17/11 06:54 PM

Older men are boring, crabby and bitter. No thanks!
Its preety hard to be crabby and bitter when your rocking with a lady half your age.:wink:

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