My Mom is 71 and my Dad is 72. They've been married for 51 years. She's been in the hospital for 8 days and now a nursing home/rehab place for over two weeks. He's been parked in her room from 3:00 to 8:00 every single one of those days.

My Aunt died this year. Her husband of 55 years lost his best friend.

These are only two examples of many people that I know that have been there for each other for many, many years.

99.9% of the men that I know don't follow the belief "variety being the spice of life". The men that do follow that belief are jerks, IMO.

I've read your original post. I'm not buying what you're selling.

Winx just buy aspirin for the headache you're going to get...

I wish ur mom well and good health and its only natural for ur dad to be there for her at this time.....51 yrs of marriage is indeed a long relationship based on love and friendship...and i congratulate them both ...They are amongst the few true loves.
However Please leave aside ur good family and consider this pointer: being in a relationship and maintaining it without getting caught cheating also is a probability worth considering.

Ok so the profile description doesn't match the cut and paste head on another body picture. The writing goes from broken english with choppy sentences, misuse of punctuation and grammar to perfectly normal.... and we're all taking this guy seriously because why? He's obviously just trying to get attention and just mess with us in general.

Note to the OP... if this is all you got, I suggest you take it to the joke forums.

What she said.

Mumbai?


The land of forced marriages, honor killings and slumdog millionaires?

I've got to hand it to you Indians... You got it goin on!
surrounded by chaos AND you manage to operate a kickazz call center nation?... Kudos!


I suggest you govern yourself in a way where you are EQUAL to women?
it's not how long you can get away with cheating that matters, It's about being a man and doing the right thing when no one is watching

HERE'S ANDY!


OK. We are facing a clash of cultures here and that can lead to some unfair moral lines getting crossed.

First of all let me qualify that most of what many men do is for sex in some way shape or form. It is a part of our instinct to reproduce. Not all men in any culture think or act alike. I myself want to be prosperous for my own reasons. Frankly any man who is rich just to get P*ssy is a delusion. Getting rich is because you want to be rich (usually). Any man who gets rich by himself deserves to live a life he chooses. Fidelity is a choice period!

Allow me to clarify this. I am forced to endure a life of living month to month. I do not have brothers and sisters, Mom and dad pulling financially for me. My brother is well to do because he worked his *** off for what he as. He did it alone. He is still trying to achieve that which even I want for myself but we are two completely different people in a lot of ways. Now with that aside let me get to the meat of the issue here.

Let's assume tomorrow I meet a woman and we hit it off very well and both of us build a financial empire together. She would be the only one I would remain faithful to because we built Nirvana together. Why? She was part of the Building Process.

OH But let reality settle in. Say I finally manage to find my Niche and get fantastically wealthy. No help from anyone. Monogamy? That is just another form of wood. I would be inclined to keep three women under the same roof and if any one of them disturbed the peace of MY household she would be replaced faster than you could say "Ten Seconds!" I would be clear as pure water with any woman about that point. It isn't cheating if you never lied in the first place. It also isn't cheating if you didn't get married in the first place.

People here give Paris Hilton crap about marrying a man who was old enough to be her grand father. How about in good old India? How many lecherous old rich perverts marry teen age (and in some places Preteen) girls there? Heck it also goes on in strongly Islamic countries. Sex and money are all relative like anything else. Some women gravitate towards men who can provide them Meth or Blow. Others just like a guy because he provides "Something" they want like he can dance although he is SO Ugly he can turn a funeral procession down an alley. A particular look, he drives a particular car, he owns horses. Women have the same F*cked up reasons for getting involved with men just the same. World wide we have our own self interested wants and desires for each relationship. Some guys want their woman to work for them like a slave. The game has different routs but in the end it all comes down to the basics, Safety, comfort, satiation, reproduction, self fulfillment. Then we die.

Do not let money disillusion you from making a happy life for yourself. The pursuit of money is nothing but pain and frustration. If you are involved with a money hungry woman you got yourself the wrong woman. She will leave you for greener pastures. Do not let that dissuade you from making money and if you are able to get it all together and you do get rich enjoy your blessings. Just don't let it get to your head. We call people like that Bugee. It means you got a big head over your money, 'you think your better than the rest of us.' That is what Bugee means.

The funny thing to me is Islam and Christianity share a lot like passing blame on to other things. Quoran, "there is a devil in the berry of every grape" therefore all wine is evil. Well, You can get drunk on Mead and it is made from honey! In reality the Devil many complain about is actually a part of humanity. Money itself like guns, knives, and rat poison which are not evil. They are inanimate objects until a human hand animates them. the Human hand and heart makes them evil. Just an additional tidbit for the wind!

To cap things off if an older guy gets a younger lady he's a pervert.

Which is a F**ked up double standard. jealous people suck!

Thanks for the warning.

It's not a probability. Many people marry and remain faithful.

And an older woman that gets a younger guy is a cougar and desperate...

Which is also a hypocritical double standard!
There is nothing wrong with an older woman getting her groove on with a younger guy!

people are so fu*ked up and judgmental.

I wasn't making an type of excuse. My point was that it was being made out that guys find it exhilarating to take a girls virginity which I think is stupid. It should be a memorable experience for a girl but that in no way makes it a man's trophy. You should check what you're saying before you click reply.

Yeah, What I said!

if this were true, then i would do nothing with my life but sit at my moms house stretching my willy. then go out in public and strole up and down outside an all girls school wearing nothing but my tightest hot pants.

i go to work not to earn money to buy houses and cars and clothes so i look atractive, in the vain hope that i will apeal to some blonde big boobed long nailed pouting bimbo.
no, i go to work for the feeling of self satisfaction, a sense of purpose and to live a fullfilling life of all kinds of different experiances.the joy of helping others is far greater than the motivation that by doing it i might get layed
yes, sex may come in there somewhere amongst these motivations but its not number 1.

if YOU realy think about it, the sort of people you are discribeing end up with nothing and therefore have no realistic chance of atracting anyone.

people who atract others are generaly those who dont try. theyre to busy liveing the life of an evolved human.

your thinking of unevolved uncivilised cave men

on the other hand, your absolutly right.

nature wants me to have sex with every woman i meet.

who am i to argue

women should just be realy greatfull that i use condoms, because nature hates condoms. its like hurricanes in unpopulated places, whats the point?

One man's Apple is another man's Orange!









Bananna