Topic: How to get a date from dating sites like this one.
motowndowntown's photo
Wed 02/24/10 05:13 PM


It all sounds like game playing to me.


You think that was game playing? Dude, what planet are you from?

It's a game in the sense that it's fun like playing checkers. But, it's not a head game by any stretch of the imagination.


The reason a lot of relationships fail is after the fun of playing checkers wears off and the real work of forming a true bond with someone begins people decide to take their board and go play with somebody else.

How many women have posted on this site that they are looking for a real relationship and are tired of game players? Yet when somebody comes along that talks a good game they find themselves right back again with a checker board sitting on their knees.

mscherbear's photo
Wed 02/24/10 05:15 PM

Ladies

just put your boob size in your pro

they will be lined up!!

Then you can pick and choose!!!!

Jk!!!!!!!!!!:heart:


Ummm, I don't think that would work for me! embarassed

DaveyB's photo
Wed 02/24/10 05:16 PM


Ladies

just put your boob size in your pro

they will be lined up!!

Then you can pick and choose!!!!

Jk!!!!!!!!!!:heart:


Ummm, I don't think that would work for me! embarassed


Um, there are some of us who are not fans of big boobs blushing

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 02/24/10 05:21 PM
Who said ya have to like big boobs??

Girls put your small ones up

your medium ones up

I was kidding

haha:banana: :banana: :banana: :heart:

mscherbear's photo
Wed 02/24/10 05:32 PM
laugh I know that, silly girl! flowerforyou

s1owhand's photo
Wed 02/24/10 05:36 PM
Edited by s1owhand on Wed 02/24/10 05:37 PM
:cry: free the breasts!

DaveyB's photo
Wed 02/24/10 06:03 PM

:cry: free the breasts!


I like to free willy so why not laugh

no photo
Wed 02/24/10 06:05 PM



It all sounds like game playing to me.


You think that was game playing? Dude, what planet are you from?

It's a game in the sense that it's fun like playing checkers. But, it's not a head game by any stretch of the imagination.


The reason a lot of relationships fail is after the fun of playing checkers wears off and the real work of forming a true bond with someone begins people decide to take their board and go play with somebody else.

How many women have posted on this site that they are looking for a real relationship and are tired of game players? Yet when somebody comes along that talks a good game they find themselves right back again with a checker board sitting on their knees.


So, what do you think is the best way to get someone's attention here? What has worked for you?

We always see men posting in here, complaining that their emails aren't getting answered. And women complaining that emails they get from men are boring. Why not be a little creative and make it fun? Seems to me it would work well.

no photo
Wed 02/24/10 06:09 PM
I just flash the girls ... shades

think ... Once he's thrown the Sapphire beads?

I'm a shoe in ... spock

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 02/24/10 06:10 PM
I'm not here to get attention. And I don't send E-mails.

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Wed 02/24/10 06:13 PM
Edited by Dancere on Wed 02/24/10 06:13 PM
:thumbsup: ... Brill that!

They just redirect all your intended attention to me, natch ... :angel:

slaphead ... Oh, after they put it through the gender reassignment gizmo ...



I'm not here to get attention. And I don't send E-mails.



RKISIT's photo
Wed 02/24/10 06:18 PM
to be honest i really don't have a problem with getting a womans attention, i'm rather creative sometimes when i send an email. its just i lose their attention when they ask if i would ever marry again i simply type "HELL NO", and that usually ends anything that may have been

everydailiv4u's photo
Wed 02/24/10 06:18 PM
Thanks for posting this, Tex. It is, indeed, inviting when the conversation begins with a comedic twist. Humor/silliness is a nice alternative to the serious back and forth emails trying to determine if you're compatible with someone. flowerforyou

TexasScoundrel's photo
Wed 02/24/10 06:53 PM

The reason a lot of relationships fail is after the fun of playing checkers wears off and the real work of forming a true bond with someone begins people decide to take their board and go play with somebody else.

How many women have posted on this site that they are looking for a real relationship and are tired of game players? Yet when somebody comes along that talks a good game they find themselves right back again with a checker board sitting on their knees.


This isn't what women are talking about when they say they want a man that doesn't play games. When a woman says that she's means she's tired of men that lie, cheat and use emotional blackmail to get what they want.

Game plating like what I posted NEVER HAS TO STOP. Flirting, double entendre, playful banter, etc is a great way to keep a relationship fun IMHO. It will always be fun to flirt with your S/O.

EquusDancer's photo
Wed 02/24/10 10:08 PM


The reason a lot of relationships fail is after the fun of playing checkers wears off and the real work of forming a true bond with someone begins people decide to take their board and go play with somebody else.

How many women have posted on this site that they are looking for a real relationship and are tired of game players? Yet when somebody comes along that talks a good game they find themselves right back again with a checker board sitting on their knees.


This isn't what women are talking about when they say they want a man that doesn't play games. When a woman says that she's means she's tired of men that lie, cheat and use emotional blackmail to get what they want.

Game plating like what I posted NEVER HAS TO STOP. Flirting, double entendre, playful banter, etc is a great way to keep a relationship fun IMHO. It will always be fun to flirt with your S/O.



:thumbsup:

Monier's photo
Wed 02/24/10 10:37 PM
I just straight up say hi and start up a conversation. Yeah the real me is interesting, and usually I prove it. Off the wall role play without even knowing anything about the person you're talking to might be fun, or an ice breaker, but when her curiousity of 'what's up with this guy?' wears off, you're still going to lose out if the real you is'nt what she's looking for.

It's all about your personality (you're real personality). Stick to who you are.

kc0003's photo
Wed 02/24/10 11:15 PM
How to pick up girls on the internet...*available soon in paperback* laugh

This is completely indulgent.

To say this is not about relationships is a little odd, don’t you think?

Weather it is a sibling, a friendship, or dating these are all relationships. Not to mention that your post tells us that she is in one. The fact that she doesn’t seem to care does say something about her character as much as your continued pursuit does. Which leads me to wonder if you would be so lighthearted about this if you were the “boyfriend”?

Please don’t insult me by saying, I have missed the point of the post, clearly you could have made it without some of the details you have included, therefore, they become part of the point. Especially when now, you feel the need to dismiss them as filler; it would be a bit self serving to omit them. The point that you are making, either consciously or sub- is that you are more interested in acquiring “notches” than anything else. I sight your own words for this point, “I’m not letting her saying she has a boyfriend slow me down”.

That statement in and of itself, speaks volumes. I find it curious that you state you don’t cheat, but you obviously have no problem being a party to someone else’s unfaithful exploits.

I know we cannot control other people’s actions however; we are responsible for our own. Like it or not, our actions are what define us as humans. With this example you have given us great insight to the level of respect that you hold for relationships, be they yours or not.




IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 02/24/10 11:26 PM

How to pick up girls on the internet...*available soon in paperback* laugh

This is completely indulgent.

To say this is not about relationships is a little odd, don’t you think?

Weather it is a sibling, a friendship, or dating these are all relationships. Not to mention that your post tells us that she is in one. The fact that she doesn’t seem to care does say something about her character as much as your continued pursuit does. Which leads me to wonder if you would be so lighthearted about this if you were the “boyfriend”?

Please don’t insult me by saying, I have missed the point of the post, clearly you could have made it without some of the details you have included, therefore, they become part of the point. Especially when now, you feel the need to dismiss them as filler; it would be a bit self serving to omit them. The point that you are making, either consciously or sub- is that you are more interested in acquiring “notches” than anything else. I sight your own words for this point, “I’m not letting her saying she has a boyfriend slow me down”.

That statement in and of itself, speaks volumes. I find it curious that you state you don’t cheat, but you obviously have no problem being a party to someone else’s unfaithful exploits.

I know we cannot control other people’s actions however; we are responsible for our own. Like it or not, our actions are what define us as humans. With this example you have given us great insight to the level of respect that you hold for relationships, be they yours or not.







Wow KC, that was insightful :thumbsup: I wasn't going to post b/c I was sickened by the whole thing but I admire the way you wrote your take on it, I was thinking along the same lines....

tripledigits69's photo
Wed 02/24/10 11:36 PM
are you kidding me, are your people skills this bad you have to ask how in a thread.wow I've seen it all

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 02/24/10 11:43 PM

are you kidding me, are your people skills this bad you have to ask how in a thread.wow I've seen it all


I don't think he was asking