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Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 02/13/10 12:10 PM
to finding someone for you, I believe, is to stop looking and trying so hard. When you just go with the flow... things just somehow happen.

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Sat 02/13/10 12:44 PM
..yea that's my problem alright..note the picture,if i tried any less i would have to deactivate...

seamac Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 3104	Sat 02/13/10 12:48 PM
to finding someone for you, I believe, is to stop looking and trying so hard. When you just go with the flow... things just somehow happen. Well this has been said forever, it does seem that when we stop trying so hard we meet someone. However I think you do still have to be open and aware of who's around you, you won't meet anyone camped at home or walking around in public places with blinders on.

ronny4dating Joined Wed 11/04/09 Posts: 1105	Sat 02/13/10 12:51 PM
meeting someone is not the hard part, meeting the right one is the difficult part and that takes work so not sure if i agree with you.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 02/13/10 12:53 PM
to finding someone for you, I believe, is to stop looking and trying so hard. When you just go with the flow... things just somehow happen. Well this has been said forever, it does seem that when we stop trying so hard we meet someone. However I think you do still have to be open and aware of who's around you, you won't meet anyone camped at home or walking around in public places with blinders on. Oh of course, but when a person stops going out places with the sole intent of finding someone, it seems easier to meet people.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 02/13/10 12:56 PM
meeting someone is not the hard part, meeting the right one is the difficult part and that takes work so not sure if i agree with you. just voicing my opinion, you don't have to agree. Wouldn't be an open forum at Mingle if you did bro'.

bsdetector Joined Mon 02/08/10 Posts: 459	Sat 02/13/10 12:56 PM
I always wanted to know what a seceret is. Thanks.

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Sat 02/13/10 01:19 PM
Agrees!

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Sat 02/13/10 01:24 PM
to finding someone for you, I believe, is to stop looking and trying so hard. When you just go with the flow... things just somehow happen. I think so to up to a point...relaxing and not looking ended up being 11 years, methinks it's time to actually put myself out there now and be more proactive.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sat 02/13/10 02:41 PM
to finding someone for you, I believe, is to stop looking and trying so hard. When you just go with the flow... things just somehow happen. I think so to up to a point...relaxing and not looking ended up being 11 years, methinks it's time to actually put myself out there now and be more proactive. Right on!! You finally gonna' put out!~!~!~

seamac Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 3104	Sat 02/13/10 02:45 PM
to finding someone for you, I believe, is to stop looking and trying so hard. When you just go with the flow... things just somehow happen. I think so to up to a point...relaxing and not looking ended up being 11 years, methinks it's time to actually put myself out there now and be more proactive. I think that was my point, there is a balance between being desperate (which people pick up on and is usually a turn off) and being open and aware and putting yourself in places where you might meet someone. Be that a future friend or the next love of your life. All of the places we all go, grocery, library etc etc are full of possibilities if we just are aware and open, who knows where I friendly question might lead? ...and it is stuff we have to do anyway - not acts of "trying to hard" or desperation.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sat 02/13/10 03:20 PM Edited by heartSoul on Sat 02/13/10 03:20 PM
I dunno..........

Shasta1 Joined Wed 09/09/09 Posts: 3308	Sat 02/13/10 03:24 PM
My ma always said, you gotta join things that interest you to find someone with your interests. The Audubon Society, a hiking class, gardening. Too bad am not a joiner

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Sat 02/13/10 03:29 PM
My ma always said, you gotta join things that interest you to find someone with your interests. The Audubon Society, a hiking class, gardening. Too bad am not a joiner Yep..me too. I'm a loner, not a joiner.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24707	Sat 02/13/10 03:30 PM
Never was "looking" on here and it happened for me.. twice

bsdetector Joined Mon 02/08/10 Posts: 459	Sat 02/13/10 03:33 PM
These days I go to wakes to find a date.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sat 02/13/10 04:06 PM
to finding someone for you, I believe, is to stop looking and trying so hard. When you just go with the flow... things just somehow happen. And a watched pot never boils. Sorry, demonstrably untrue things are demonstrably untrue, in my experience.

skydancingA Joined Mon 11/30/09 Posts: 1605	Sat 02/13/10 04:16 PM
These days I go to wakes to find a date. And it is never the embalmed one, right? Right?

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 02/13/10 04:34 PM
to finding someone for you, I believe, is to stop looking and trying so hard. When you just go with the flow... things just somehow happen. I don't disagree, but I think this is an over simplification.

bsdetector Joined Mon 02/08/10 Posts: 459	Sat 02/13/10 04:42 PM
These days I go to wakes to find a date. And it is never the embalmed one, right? Right? Necrophilia is not my thing.