Topic: Men and Vasectomies
talldub's photo
Thu 02/11/10 04:02 PM

And along the lines of some of the other threads (and I didn't know where else to put it)...

Hey guys, once you had your 2 kids or whatever you and your partner decided upon, would you have a vasectomy?


Can't the woman have a hysterectomy instead?

Anton_k's photo
Thu 02/11/10 04:07 PM


And along the lines of some of the other threads (and I didn't know where else to put it)...

Hey guys, once you had your 2 kids or whatever you and your partner decided upon, would you have a vasectomy?


Can't the woman have a hysterectomy instead?


and there is the mens mind set.. let the woman take of it..getting the big V is a lot less complicated and risky not to mention invasive to the body..

Soulbreeze's photo
Thu 02/11/10 04:32 PM
I have a question...why do some men put in there profiles under "want children" yes or undecided/open when they've had a vasectomy? I am fine with a man not wanting children, but just feel a little mislead by this. I'm sure they were informed when they had their vasectomy about the low success rate of a reversal, not to mention how incredible expensive it would be. So why lie? It's a bit of a red flag for me, ya know like if he's going to lie about this then what else is he going to lie about? I am not against a man having a vasectomy at all, in fact I applaud the men who do. I was just hoping someone could help me understand the reason for this.

Updawg's photo
Thu 02/11/10 04:35 PM
So how do you know from their profile they have had a vasectomy...I mean does it say Oh by the way if you just want to have sex I have had a vasectomy so you will be safe?

buttons's photo
Thu 02/11/10 04:35 PM

yes and they can be reveresed if the need should come up !Iknow people who have successfully I might add
me too my old neighbor guy had his reversed and him and his new wife had a child..

Soulbreeze's photo
Thu 02/11/10 04:36 PM



And along the lines of some of the other threads (and I didn't know where else to put it)...

Hey guys, once you had your 2 kids or whatever you and your partner decided upon, would you have a vasectomy?


Can't the woman have a hysterectomy instead?


and there is the mens mind set.. let the woman take of it..getting the big V is a lot less complicated and risky not to mention invasive to the body..


Aaaaaand the gold star goes tooooo.....wait for it......wait for it........ Anton_k for a great post! :thumbsup: flowerforyou

Soulbreeze's photo
Thu 02/11/10 04:40 PM

So how do you know from their profile they have had a vasectomy...I mean does it say Oh by the way if you just want to have sex I have had a vasectomy so you will be safe?


LMAO! laugh No I meant I started chatting with them, we would exchange emails, get to know each other and then the topic of kids would come up and then they would tell me they had a vasextomy. This has happened several times. Just curious about the reason, that's all.

Soulbreeze's photo
Thu 02/11/10 04:43 PM


So how do you know from their profile they have had a vasectomy...I mean does it say Oh by the way if you just want to have sex I have had a vasectomy so you will be safe?


LMAO! laugh No I meant I started chatting with them, we would exchange emails, get to know each other and then the topic of kids would come up and then they would tell me they had a vasextomy. This has happened several times. Just curious about the reason, that's all.


I am still laughing...sheesh updawg...now you made me spell vasectomy wrong. I typed vasextomy..rofl devil


willing2's photo
Thu 02/11/10 06:13 PM
I keep telling them I am sterile but, they keep getting themselves knocked up anyway.:angel: tongue2

talldub's photo
Fri 02/12/10 10:39 AM



And along the lines of some of the other threads (and I didn't know where else to put it)...

Hey guys, once you had your 2 kids or whatever you and your partner decided upon, would you have a vasectomy?


Can't the woman have a hysterectomy instead?


and there is the mens mind set.. let the woman take of it..getting the big V is a lot less complicated and risky not to mention invasive to the body..

Like anything, getting the snip is no guarantee, so safer for the woman to get her tubes tied as well. I was joking about the hysterectomy, wouldn't wish that on anyone!

buttons's photo
Fri 02/12/10 10:59 AM
Make that snip
give the past the slip
before you enter a crack
and the baby showers back

Make no accidents come along
you must snip it
before the cream sits out too long
you must snip it
when something's may go wrong
you must snip it

Now snip it
into shape
shape it up
get straight
go forward
move ahead
try to detect it
it's not too late
to snip it
snip it good

When a good time turns around
you must snip it
you will never live it down
unless you snip it
no one gets their way
until they snip it
i say snip it
snip it good
i say snip it
snip it good

Make that snip
Don't let your sperm slip
before you enter a crack
and the baby showers back

When a problem comes along
you must snip it
before the cream sits out too long
you must snip it
when something's going wrong
you must snip it

Now snip it
into shape
shape it up
get straight
go forward
move ahead
try to detect it
it's not too late
to snip it
into shape
shape it up
get straight
go forward
move ahead
try to detect it
it's not too late
to snip it
snip it good
laugh laugh

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 02/12/10 11:13 AM
A man who won't get a little nip to the balls?

Whines about it.....

A little cut... Your done having kids... Takes coupla minutes ..

Not to much pain...not to much recovery

the balls make the man??

Like I always said

I :heart: my alpha-male!!

no photo
Fri 02/12/10 11:16 AM
now how do you know it doesnt hurt much?

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 02/12/10 11:49 AM
The men I know who have had it All say there is a lot of discomfort but the pain factor itself is low

also watching my dad. Years ago. He was up and back to work fast

now daddys the man!!!!:heart:

Englishrose2's photo
Fri 02/12/10 11:56 AM
My mum said she never needed to suggest to my dad about getting the SNIP as we call it here since he is that lazy she is convinced his sperm are all couch potatoes anywaylaugh laugh Anna x

no photo
Fri 02/12/10 12:10 PM


..No way,not going to happen..has nothing to do with pain or anything else...and yes the balls do make the man in a sense...:laughing:

Englishrose2's photo
Fri 02/12/10 12:12 PM



..No way,not going to happen..has nothing to do with pain or anything else...and yes the balls do make the man in a sense...:laughing:


Now that explains it..when my mum whoa whoa says your dad...what a balls ache he is!!:laughing: :laughing: Anna x

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 02/12/10 12:13 PM
The balls only mak the man in the physical

if I heard a man whine and complain about a V

step to the curb please!!!

no photo
Fri 02/12/10 12:24 PM
:cry: Why you would you do that?

beachbum069's photo
Fri 02/12/10 12:24 PM
Women can get the Essure procedure done and it is non-surgical and doesn't even require anethesia. I would say that is better then getting my wee cut