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Topic: What annoys you in a relationship?
Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 02/02/10 11:19 PM
There's so many thngs tht r annoyng.. -Arguing -*** family members -Pets tht gt more attention than u -hvng 2 go 2 events n ignore the *** family members rude comments -lazy guy who wants 2 be babied -cheatng... omitting the truth/lying -poor communication The list could go on 4ever All of the issues were brought up n thts part of why the relationship ended ... thank god that's why it's best to date a guy who hates his family, or even better an orphan. now that would be blissful......

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 02/02/10 11:20 PM
lack of communication

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Tue 02/02/10 11:21 PM
Guys who chroniclly complain, whine, or have some kind of ailment. Suck it up cupcake!

JaneStar1 Joined Tue 06/30/09 Posts: 1580	Wed 02/03/10 10:04 PM
... the list of annoying traits seems to be endless... ______________________However___________________ What's even more disturbing is HAVEN'T THOSE TRAITS BEEN THERE FROM THE START? ? ? Cuz, if they have not (i.e. appeared later), then you might be to blame!

StuffedAnimalOrgy Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 1035	Thu 02/04/10 07:41 AM
Girls that hide issues from you until they think they have you secured. i.e. excessive drinking, ex-boyfriends and so on.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Thu 02/04/10 07:46 AM Edited by msharmony on Thu 02/04/10 07:49 AM
neediness, whining, obsessive nagging or complaining, pessimism, possessiveness, that thing where they treat their pets like babies(ok to treat them like family , but not like helpless children), emotional games, ultimatums, oh, and being babied by family(mother who does their laundry or fixes their meals,,,etc,,)

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 02/04/10 07:59 AM
relationships are annoying, but the 2 things i find most annoying are the women who have to have attention 24 hours and try to change me

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Thu 02/04/10 10:27 AM
I'm annoyed at someone who won't let me sleep Seriously, can anybody really figure things out at 4am... Thinking back, she was unemployed so she had all the time in the world to sleep it off the next days while I was >>>>>>>

CatsLoveMe Joined Wed 09/16/09 Posts: 4522	Thu 02/04/10 11:36 AM
Hmmm, what else bothered me other than the obvious that I've already stated? The severe lack of appetite, and wouldn't even drink water. Wine was her water. Her getting up at 5:30 AM for no reason every day, and then sleeping most of the day because she was always so tired, never had the energy to do anything fun. The fact that while she said she was working, she only worked one day a week, and her sister got her the job. That she liked to listen to the same CD, over and over and over again. How she conducted herself on vacations. Thoroughly embarassing and aggravating, after a while I took my own vacations without her.

che_ Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 8412	Thu 02/04/10 11:38 AM
Leaving toothpaste in the sink

StuffedAnimalOrgy Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 1035	Thu 02/04/10 11:40 AM
Getting dutch ovened.....Seriously not cool. Although i guess it's payback most of the time.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 02/04/10 11:41 AM
Let's say if you'd be in a relationship, or in your past relationships, what annoyed you the most? Did you tell him or her that something particularly annoyed you or you just kept going on and trying to cope with it without telling? THE most annoying thing -- and I have a list of hundreds, maybe even thousands by now -- but THE most annoying is the inevitable attempts to change me into some sort of domesticated creature 90 days into the relationship.

che_ Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 8412	Thu 02/04/10 11:43 AM
domesticated? Naw

CamrynCares Joined Thu 02/04/10 Posts: 3	Thu 02/04/10 11:44 AM Edited by CamrynCares on Thu 02/04/10 11:45 AM
What bothers me most would have to be.. I get off work late and the person throws a fit (all like where have you been and stuff) but when they come home late I'm not allowed to get mad about it.

che_ Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 8412	Thu 02/04/10 11:47 AM
What bothers me most would have to be.. I get off work late and the person throws a fit (all like where have you been and stuff) but when they come home late I'm not allowed to get mad about it. THAT'S what I don't like... NOT ALLOWED??? HA! Why do we think like that?

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Thu 02/04/10 02:05 PM
so many, many things annoy me in relationships.... I'm sure it's one of the reasons I'm single

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Thu 02/04/10 02:17 PM
I also hate the whining the drama kings the hands in my wallet

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Thu 02/04/10 04:27 PM
excessive drinking or drug use

FindMe1113 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 35104	Thu 02/04/10 04:42 PM
Phone calls in the middle of the night from his "ex"

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Thu 02/04/10 04:44 PM
Phone calls in the middle of the night from his "ex" Oh , hell nawwww!!!!!