Yeah, when they bring trouble to you ie gurads to your door!! Yes I said it. And yes we are broke up as of 2 and a half weeks ago!!

You better check her identity:
SHE might actually be a She-Male!!!

tooting of their own horns due to major insecurities. ME ME ME I'm so good at this and and that etc etc....

if dude wont put out

Several things come to mind:
Neediness- I don't like that the men I have dated was so needy that they HAD to call me every day when they got off work. The same thing was done today as yesterday so why call?
What is with this need for PDA? I date one man at a time, there is no need to "claim me in public."

Lack of self worth- Dated a man who did NOTHING before I met him. When we got together we did a lot due to my own organizing. I told him that he needed to jump on board and get with the activity program. That was too much work for him. When he did manage to arrange an activity, it would always involve eating somewhere because that is all he wanted to do.

Lies- They speak for themselves.

Hygiene- I have NEVER dated a man who practices proper hygiene. I had to correct them on this. Yuck, I had to talk one guy into visiting an orthodontist and getting braces. At that time, he was too old not to care about himself.

When they can't talk about whats bothering them. I had a exgirlfriend that never said anything bad about me untill six months into the relationship then just f*** n bluwup at me and riped my a** for 2 hours about every little thing that pissed her off over the 6 months.

I hear what you're saying but that also sounds like a symptom of bad communication....