I used to have a fear of winding up old and alone. The longer I'm alone, the more comfortable with it I am.

I think I see, a couple folks on here that don't want a mate but are here anyways. To read their replies makes me kinda' sad. The way they express themselves shows me they are bitter about something and want company in the pits.

The profiles show the same. Expressing more of what they don't want than what they are looking for. Also, they post no pictures of themselves. Tells me, they don't much care for their own company.

I am very grateful I ain't aging bitterly.

How are ya'll aging?

I'm not anywhere near being old or bitter.

Like a fine wine...I get better with time.

I'm not aging, that's my story and I'm sticking to it

I'm aging as gracefully as I can..and I'm finding I'm getting more and more passive and calm as the years go by.

I'm just aging graceful,living life as I see fit.If someone joins the ride wonderful.If not wave as I pass by.

Well not everyone can carry off sitting in a metal tub in the backyard taking a bath leaving very little to the imagination. When you up the ante like that, how can others even compete???



Like a fine whine, I get bitter with time.

I'm not old nor bitter. And if I stay alone for the rest of
my life, then so be it. That is what life has in store for me.

I'm not looking for anyone special, I am accustomed to my life
as I know it.

BUT I am not against it either. If it happens, it happens.

Its my goal in life to age like milk, now get off my lawn!!!

I am old and getting older each year - lol. Being able to laugh at yourself can keep you from getting bitter

I feel mostly great. I'm having fun, loving my life, my job, my son and the world I live in. My life isn't perfect, but no one's is.

I bought the ticket and I'm taking the ride!

I'm older but not bitter about anything.. Being alone the last 3 yrs, I have changed in ways that surprise even me... but I refuse to sit on the porch and watch the world pass me by.. I would love to have someone in my life but they are going to have to catch me...lol

Hummmm well I have gotten older but I do not feel that I'm old. As far as bitter shshs no way, to be bitter one has to let hate take over their life and I choose to laugh instead.

As far as being alone I may not have a significant other but I do have my family & friends so I'm not alone.

Sure it would be nice to have a partner at times to enjoy things with but even if I don't I refuse to let that rule my life and bring me down.

There are more things within life that can make you smile then another. One must learn to be happy with themselves first and enjoy life.

Aaaaw Shadup! All of yas!

I don't post pics of myself on here for several reasons, one, I'm not looking so it's irrelevant what I look like, and for another I got sick of disgusting people repeatedly perving my profile, sending stupid emails, random nudges, and adding me to their favorites list. And I love my own company; spending time with me is the highlight of my day.

the only thing that made me old and bitter was my old and bitter x

the one thing is you cant change people you can only change yourself,

<<<<<<Completely old and bitter.

I have always been comfortable alone, never the type to NEED an intimate relationship. However, the longer I am on my own, I do find that my desire for an intimate relationship lessons. I am not opposed to the idea and still have my fantasies and dreams, but I just think I can be pickier now because I really dont have the same NEEDINESS and DEPENDENCE as I did when I Was younger. I know I can do it by myself, because I already am. I just would prefer not to.

The more people in my life, the more I stress about their happiness, so to be in a relationship with someone at this point,,it would have to truly be a situation that ADDED more happiness to my life than stress,, and I think thats hard to find in such a casual culture.

Sure I am bitter.....kind of like tequila....I just need a little salt and lime and I will leave you all f#@ked up.