LOL Dancere!
The "No photo" thing is really becoming a huge red flag for me as well. Thus far it has never turned out to be a good sign. I hate that for there are some just reasons one would not wish to post a photo, but I'm chickered if I will respond

Speaking of ex talk, I could never understand why one wouldn't enjoy a spot of freedom and a bit of reflection as not to make the same mistakes down the road. For me at least I like to enjoy at least six months of both after a break up. Like running a long race, afterwards one bends over holds their knees and catches their breath.

I'm not saying the Love Boat isn't out there --

I'm just saying you have to be careful not to fall into the Scammer Boat or the Crazy Boat or the Ship of Total Deception on the way out there....

And bring a spear gun while you're at it....

*note to self*

GET A SPEAR GUN!!!!

Spear gun or harpoon?
Personally I was thinking of investing in a Battleship. About how many payments ya think that would be?
"U.S. RED FLAG" ?

What the hell?

I honestly thought that guys who were straight up belligerent @sshol@s was a friggen aphrodisiac to women. Every last damned woman I know has hookedup with that type....generally married em too.

Thus all of us nice guys whining in the endless "Nice Guy" threads.

Let's face facts, if I could force myself to be a mean and spiteful uncaring piece of $h*t...I would probably be married.

Now, I am just confuzeld.

Nope Sweets, woman like myself will bypass an @sshole and go straight for the guy with a sense of humor. Laughter cures all.
If I wanted to deal with an @ss I could just entertain myself most of the time