Topic: You think you know someone...
darkowl1's photo
Tue 12/08/09 11:43 PM
MEW.



everything is relative.........

now.....poop.....see, that's constant! poop is consistancy! poop, pooped, pooed, and pooing....these are the building blocks of............uummm...........well,......anyway, uummmm, oh hi!bigsmile


IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 12/08/09 11:44 PM
Mew is cute, poop is not...


(((Vincent))) luvs ya hon.. flowerforyou

darkowl1's photo
Tue 12/08/09 11:46 PM
luv yooo too!:heart: drinker smooched and well, it depends on what shape the poo is in.......teddybear shaped poo could be.....from a distance? yeah?

ChristheKINGPIN's photo
Tue 12/08/09 11:47 PM

It's funny, you think you know someone and then you find out you really never did... Sometimes it takes years.. Could it be that they change or that they let you think they were someone they really weren't?



Do people really change or does what you want them to be change? People are people no matter what . We all have the same weaknesses and insecurities. Its just that over time your fantasy of what you think a person is or should be changes.And instead of being real about the REAL change that has occurred you lash out at that person so you don't have to adress what has changed inside yourself.

darkowl1's photo
Tue 12/08/09 11:48 PM
look! it's a bear! it's a plane! no somebody threw........uuumm....pew.

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 12/08/09 11:49 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Tue 12/08/09 11:50 PM
that's possible... I was more thinking more along the lines of when people say one thing and do another...

darkowl1's photo
Tue 12/08/09 11:50 PM
gnight hun! ((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))flowerforyou :heart: smooched

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 12/08/09 11:50 PM
g'night sweets... Call me soon to catch up.. The weekend maybe flowerforyou

myshell711's photo
Wed 12/09/09 03:30 AM

oh I hear you PS.. It's not about me, it was just a thought I was thinking when looking back.. My ex was probably the biggest surprise I've ever had or will ever had... But I was thinking tonight about people I know that have experienced it and then it reminded me of times I've seen it first hand in just talking to people for a long time..


I can sooo relate to that...wish I had an answer perhaps they just want to impress then when they think they have you in the palm of their hand, their true colors come out...?

no photo
Wed 12/09/09 06:07 AM

It's funny, you think you know someone and then you find out you really never did... Sometimes it takes years.. Could it be that they change or that they let you think they were someone they really weren't?




Sometimes this kind of thing happens when there's a problem that needs to be dealt with. When you see how they deal with it, or not deal with it, it tells you a lot about them.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Wed 12/09/09 06:09 AM

Good advice... I think I should note it was a thought I just had while talking a walk through my mind and thinking of people I've known in the past either closely or not so closely if I saw discrepancies...


Liars always tell on themselves. It's more a matter of noticing and accepting that you're being lied to than anything else.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 12/09/09 06:15 AM
It's definitely others, although I've questioned myself several times.

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Wed 12/09/09 06:18 AM

It's funny, you think you know someone and then you find out you really never did... Sometimes it takes years.. Could it be that they change or that they let you think they were someone they really weren't?




I think that there are many people who do not like themselves very much, so they act in a way that is more indicative of who they WANT to be... at some point the "real" them comes out -- then they seek out a new "way to be" that is better then they perceive themselvs to be.. and the cycle starts all over again...

It's difficult sometimes to be introspective, find who you are - and let it be. Being "true to yourself" sometimes means you will be alone -- some people cannot deal with that very well.

I think a lot of "fake" people are truly not very happy... at least "shallow" people (on that level) are more honest with themselves...

oh well...

$.02 drinker

isaac_dede's photo
Wed 12/09/09 07:47 AM


It's funny, you think you know someone and then you find out you really never did... Sometimes it takes years.. Could it be that they change or that they let you think they were someone they really weren't?




I think that there are many people who do not like themselves very much, so they act in a way that is more indicative of who they WANT to be... at some point the "real" them comes out -- then they seek out a new "way to be" that is better then they perceive themselvs to be.. and the cycle starts all over again...

It's difficult sometimes to be introspective, find who you are - and let it be. Being "true to yourself" sometimes means you will be alone -- some people cannot deal with that very well.

I think a lot of "fake" people are truly not very happy... at least "shallow" people (on that level) are more honest with themselves...

oh well...

$.02 drinker

:thumbsup:

I think you're right some people don't know who they truly are their personailities do a 180 depending on who their friends are at the moment...

I personally paint these people as insecure

irisheyes79's photo
Wed 12/09/09 07:49 AM
100% random goofy n spontanious n 200% cutie

Updawg's photo
Wed 12/09/09 08:03 AM
Edited by Updawg on Wed 12/09/09 08:09 AM
Hhhmmm...

Maybe these people have not changed there beliefs at all, just trying to be more excepting of others. In doing so they give others more and not limit themselves. But I dont know if Im on the right track here.

Insecurity is unwillingness to change (compromise)...It is not excepting...It is judging others. It is assuming without asking questions of the other person, then getting upset cause they did not get the result they wanted.

Security is knowing one has to change sometimes in some areas, knowing one has to be excepting and nonjudgemental of others beliefs.

msharmony's photo
Wed 12/09/09 08:06 AM


It's funny, you think you know someone and then you find out you really never did... Sometimes it takes years.. Could it be that they change or that they let you think they were someone they really weren't?




Sometimes this kind of thing happens when there's a problem that needs to be dealt with. When you see how they deal with it, or not deal with it, it tells you a lot about them.


sweet, please dont think Im following you,,lol . We are posting the same threads this morning...

anyhow, It is when things are down that you see who truly cares about you and when true colors come out. My soon to be ex, who I would NEVER have thought to be a racist,, called me racial slurs in our last argument. I was shocked and disappointed beyond belief.

Mom always said, its easy for people to love you when your popular or fun or lovable, but people who really love you are the ones there when things are rough.

no photo
Wed 12/09/09 09:44 AM



It's funny, you think you know someone and then you find out you really never did... Sometimes it takes years.. Could it be that they change or that they let you think they were someone they really weren't?




Sometimes this kind of thing happens when there's a problem that needs to be dealt with. When you see how they deal with it, or not deal with it, it tells you a lot about them.


sweet, please dont think Im following you,,lol . We are posting the same threads this morning...

anyhow, It is when things are down that you see who truly cares about you and when true colors come out. My soon to be ex, who I would NEVER have thought to be a racist,, called me racial slurs in our last argument. I was shocked and disappointed beyond belief.

Mom always said, its easy for people to love you when your popular or fun or lovable, but people who really love you are the ones there when things are rough.


I'm sorry to hear that actually happened to you. It's incredibly sad and disappointing to see people turn like that.

tanyaann's photo
Wed 12/09/09 09:49 AM
I think it's both and that you might have assumptions or your perspection of the person might change!

isaac_dede's photo
Wed 12/09/09 10:07 AM
Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake a whole relationship