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Topic: If your completely honest..
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Thu 12/03/09 11:34 AM
Yet you continue to end up in relationships where you lack feelings for them and they have feelings for you is it wrong? Does a person have an obligation to spare others feelings even though the person doesnt care as long as you stay with them?

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Thu 12/03/09 11:36 AM
My honesty prevents me from dating, I believe. I need to lie my *** off!

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Thu 12/03/09 11:36 AM
How do you end up in a long-term relationship with someone you don't have feelings for? That makes no sense to me, if I don't like the guy, or care about him in some way, I'm sure as hell not going to try to date him.

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Thu 12/03/09 11:36 AM
Not sure exactly what you mean? I always care if the guy I'm with has feelings for me.

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Thu 12/03/09 11:37 AM

Yet you continue to end up in relationships where you lack feelings for them and they have feelings for you is it wrong? Does a person have an obligation to spare others feelings even though the person doesnt care as long as you stay with them?


to me this means they are not completely honest.

not sure I'd be in a relationship out of obligation, that would not make anyone happy in the long run.


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Thu 12/03/09 11:37 AM

My honesty prevents me from dating, I believe. I need to lie my *** off!
laugh Nonestly,,,THERE'S a LOT of TRUTH to THAT!!!!

For me anyway,,,wink,lollaugh laugh laugh

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Thu 12/03/09 11:40 AM
stage 1 talk email phone

stage 2 date, and go out and have fun

stage 3 sex

stage 4 feelings

stage 5 hurt feelings


Thats what i mean. I don't say i am in love with them or lead them on just ends up happening.

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Thu 12/03/09 11:40 AM

Yet you continue to end up in relationships where you lack feelings for them and they have feelings for you is it wrong? Does a person have an obligation to spare others feelings even though the person doesnt care as long as you stay with them?


Put it this way. If my PS3 gets more love than she does, she just might as well pack up and leave.

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Thu 12/03/09 11:41 AM

How do you end up in a long-term relationship with someone you don't have feelings for? That makes no sense to me, if I don't like the guy, or care about him in some way, I'm sure as hell not going to try to date him.


I dont mean long term just sexual. I like them i just dont love them!

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Thu 12/03/09 11:41 AM

stage 1 talk email phone

stage 2 date, and go out and have fun

stage 3 sex

stage 4 feelings

stage 5 hurt feelings


Thats what i mean. I don't say i am in love with them or lead them on just ends up happening.


That's why if you're trying to be in a relationship with someone, you should have feelings for them before you sleep with them. If it's just casual sex, it doesn't matter, but if you're actually looking for a bf/gf, sex with no feelings isn't a good idea.

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Thu 12/03/09 11:43 AM


How do you end up in a long-term relationship with someone you don't have feelings for? That makes no sense to me, if I don't like the guy, or care about him in some way, I'm sure as hell not going to try to date him.


I dont mean long term just sexual. I like them i just dont love them!


ahh the proverbial booty call


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Thu 12/03/09 11:44 AM

stage 1 talk email phone

stage 2 date, and go out and have fun

stage 3 sex

stage 4 feelings

stage 5 hurt feelings


Thats what i mean. I don't say i am in love with them or lead them on just ends up happening.


so you're just using women for sex

and then wondering why they are hurt by it?

Goofball73's photo
Thu 12/03/09 11:44 AM



How do you end up in a long-term relationship with someone you don't have feelings for? That makes no sense to me, if I don't like the guy, or care about him in some way, I'm sure as hell not going to try to date him.


I dont mean long term just sexual. I like them i just dont love them!


ahh the proverbial booty call




I'll be Fran's booty call!pitchfork pitchfork

Quietman_2009's photo
Thu 12/03/09 11:46 AM


stage 1 talk email phone

stage 2 date, and go out and have fun

stage 3 sex

stage 4 feelings

stage 5 hurt feelings


Thats what i mean. I don't say i am in love with them or lead them on just ends up happening.


so you're just using women for sex

and then wondering why they are hurt by it?


I hit my hand with a hammer

I wonder why it hurts

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Thu 12/03/09 11:47 AM




How do you end up in a long-term relationship with someone you don't have feelings for? That makes no sense to me, if I don't like the guy, or care about him in some way, I'm sure as hell not going to try to date him.


I dont mean long term just sexual. I like them i just dont love them!


ahh the proverbial booty call




I'll be Fran's booty call!pitchfork pitchfork


come here booty pitchfork

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Thu 12/03/09 11:49 AM


stage 1 talk email phone

stage 2 date, and go out and have fun

stage 3 sex

stage 4 feelings

stage 5 hurt feelings


Thats what i mean. I don't say i am in love with them or lead them on just ends up happening.


so you're just using women for sex

and then wondering why they are hurt by it?



hold on here thats a little biased isn't it? I am not using anyone..... I never tell them i love them and i never promise them a thing. It just happens!

Goofball73's photo
Thu 12/03/09 11:49 AM








come here booty pitchfork


Standing "at attention" for you Fran!:tongue: laugh laugh

Gator76's photo
Thu 12/03/09 11:50 AM



stage 1 talk email phone

stage 2 date, and go out and have fun

stage 3 sex

stage 4 feelings

stage 5 hurt feelings


Thats what i mean. I don't say i am in love with them or lead them on just ends up happening.


so you're just using women for sex

and then wondering why they are hurt by it?


I hit my hand with a hammer

I wonder why it hurts




Again and again and again...!laugh

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Thu 12/03/09 11:51 AM
Look thats why i asked the question! Should i have a disclaimer before sex???? Is it my responsibilty to protect their feelings even though they wont???

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Thu 12/03/09 11:54 AM









come here booty pitchfork


Standing "at attention" for you Fran!:tongue: laugh laugh


woohoooo, now that I have "at attention" what to do with you??? pitchfork

drool

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