i am still friends with my ex...she gave me two beautiful children,i will always be thankful to her for that.i know whats done is done.we make better friends than lovers.when she needs someone to cry to,i will be there......for now anyway....if it pertains to my children i am there even quicker!

well said slykatt13....
and ain't that the truth....lovely kids, but what other grief can she give you besides crying to you..

and i caught that "i will be there....for now anyway....if it pertains to my children, i am there even quicker".

FOR NOW ANYWAY...what happens when you find your next dream woman? these are just some questions i asked myself...when my x cried to me...well after #5 he quit crying...cause he really loved the skenky *****....

well,i guess when i meet someone special.my focus will be on her.not talking to the x about her grief till 3 am...if it pertains to my children,they always come first before all.

grief until 3 am?
send her a bill and she will quit it...for sure.

I stayed friends with my ex for the sake of the kids and grandkids. I knew there would be times we would be thrown together because of them and I didn't want them to feel they have to choose sides. The only time I see the ex is when we are together because of kids and grands. There is no chance of rekindling the spark because he cheated on me twice (that I know of) so I don't trust him anymore. But that's not the kids fault and I don't want their special times ruined by any ugly scened between me and their dad and grandpa.

thats a good idea!!!!a bill yeah.i cant charge much,cause i just put it on speaker phone and say~ uh huh~yep~wow~ that sucks every couple of min.lol

I am only friends with one of my ex's we have known eachother for 13 yrs. We have dated through those yrs and still remained to stay best friends. Also with a lil bit of benifits if ya know what I mean lol ;-) We have seen eachother through everything. Loosing jobs loosing parents lossing lovers best times of my life drinking and talking even if its just over the phone! I love having him in my life even though there are days when we go to blows with eachother we always make up. He was my first time so that was special too and not a lot of girls can say that they still have their firsts still in their life. Whats has been the secret to keeping our friendship after the relationship last??? Beats the hell out of me! I just know if you can find that magic spark in yours than hold onto it cause its worth it!

friends with bennies?

on speaker fone?