(I do the same thing, shhhhh)

I can be friendly to, but never friends with.

You see, they are an EX for a reason and that makes me happy...Otherwise, they would still be a current and I would be happy.

.... u learn from other people's mistakes, and u won't be in that position.....
WEIRD......
think again. there is a chance that in the next 40 years u might just do what u said u would not.

however, call me 40 years from now, and let us c what really happens 2 u.....what u did and did not do...

Still dealing with an ex.........

For me......depends on how good the sex was.

If the sheet biting, head butting the head board, carpet burns on the knees out weighs all the b**chen I gotta put up with. Then yes, I will relegate them to the "Friends who I f*** occasionally" catagory with zero emotionality allowed.

If not, I simply do not even acknowledge thier existance.

so what u r saying is that "FICKING" is the most important thing here?
r u kidding or what?

zero emotion allowed....u always have emotion between the sheets sir. don't kid yourself.

I'm not really friends with the exs who I had long term relationships with... mostly with the ones I didn't date for very long or the relationship wasn't major.

I ain't saying that it is the most important thing........but, if I am dealing with an ex there had better be a damned good reason to waste my time with an ex who wanted something better than me. (I have never.......lemme repeat.... that NEVER dumped a woman) My dumb @ss empowers and encourages them with tripe like "You are so beautiful that you can be with anyone you desire....I am thankful you chose me".......tell that to a woman enough and eventually she starts looking at the grass on the otherside of the fence.

Zero emotion may be an overstatement......I will admit that there is generally unspoken resentment and bitterness.......but, when they are done with the sex and trying to get me to change my mind and take them back.....THEN it is zero emotionality.

Wow, I usually stay out of stuff like this, but you really seem to be upsetting yourself over nothing. Why do you care why he sleeps with someone? For the record, I have slept with people that I had zero emotion for and they felt the exact same way. That doesn't make me a bad person, people sleep with people for their own reasons, and it's no one else's business. Not everyone thinks sex and love are the same thing, I've never been in love, but I've had sex, and I can tell you, you can certainly have one without the other. And it doesn't mean you're a jerk or a whore or you have no morals, it means you wanted to get laid, so you did.

Like I said, I usually don't get in other people's arguments, but this is kind of sad, as long as someone isn't trying to **** me, I really don't care. Try to relax and not let what other people do with their lives and their bodies upset you, life is too short to always be pissed off. Best to you.

Morgannicole, what has been a long term relationship for you, at this age?

I am not trying to argue. It's just that it's been a helluva long time since I was young, and at 19 (if I recall correctly) I never had had a girlfriend yet. I was even a virgin at that age, yes, I remember that.

Oh would you just quit, for crying out loud...I will not make the mistakes people have made before me. I won't get married as I'm against it full force, I won't have kids because as bad as I was I dread to think what kind of hell would be unleashed from my offspring.

See how easy it is to learn and apply what you have learned to your own situation.

End of story, it won't happen, regardless of what kind of flying flower comes down a strikes me in the nose I will simply not do any of it.

I dated one guy for 9 months, and another for a little over a year.

I'm pretty sure you'd be hard pressed to find a lot of 19 year old virgins in today's society.

I'm a virgin.
It's not like I haven't had the opportunities to have sex, which I have. Duh, I'm in college and dated a couple of guys for long time periods.
I want to do that for myself.
Some morals don't change.

U r correcto mundo on some points. All of U out there...

Life is too short 2 b pissed off. I am not.

Remember that I am an older female, so I might not c the whole pix like u ladies and gents c it being part of the younger crowd.

Between the sheets with ur x, sister or mother,..better not unless u just want the bennies....

Sex after divorce, better not unless u want to keep it going somehow.

Again, sex without emotion, well maybe with a bag over your head so u can't c the dude or dudette.

Yes, I agree -- the virigins are either tumble soft or dry cleaned.


Edit:
Sorry, Morgannicole, it was not aimed at you. I haven't seen your reply yet when I posted this.

Good for you, you're unusual. I said "a lot of virgins" not any. I'm well aware not every 19 year is sexually active, but if you want to be realistic, you'll admit that many are.

I know I am. (:
I'm not like anyone else, and that's fine with me.
I go to college, I know people are hooking up left and right. It's no big deal to them, but I don't want to be remembered as "some chick" the next week.

Okay I am giving up the free advice tonight for someone has told me to give it up "for crying out loud". That is pretty good advice, now read on.....

It will never happen that this person gets married, or has offspring because for one, some flying flower is coming down to hit this person on the head, and two, the offspring would be incredibly mean.

How can you quarrel with this?

Haha, it's cool.