Hi, here's hoping all is well
And I'm hoping to meet some interesting people. I have a ?
Is loving the same as hurting?

Why do you think they call it "Falling" ???

It doesn't always have to be...good luck, welcome to the site, and have a blast!

Only if u fall off the bed. Be seeing you...

Depends on how hard you love her

all i can say is when you love someone you give them the ability to hurt you

Depends on how rough you get.

Love does not hurt a bit, its the breaking up that slams you into the pavement...

welcome to mingle2 (i am still newer here too) When you fall in love its easy because normally you don't see it coming. You get strapped into this amazing ride with new twist and turns and adreneline rushes -it's the best ... and that where the problem lies becuase if the ride stops you think you can never get back on it. It's kinnda like physics (for every action there is an equal yet opposite reaction) you get so high and you are there for so long you forget how hard and low the ground is. Don't worry though, the ground is always there to stand on.

Gday, Its better to have loved than never to have loved. builds character and life is a zig zag anyhow, cheers

Well, love is a laxative.

having read the replies to my ? "does it hurt to love?" I think I have found the answer. It has taken me this long to finally get over the love that I lost than the love I still have. Some will say that it hurts, some will not, but I say: yes it hurts, and no it does not hurt. For you see, when you love, the happiness that is shared is a hurting thing because you see so many that do not love the way you do, and it does not hurt because you have someone to share it with. You only grow stronger in your hurt, so you can love the right way the net time. Can u c the wisdom in this?

Welcome

When you love a person the world is a beautiful place but when that love dies and you are the one who is no longer loved its the worst pain in the world, but in time you recover and move on and that ache in your heart fades. Anna x

yes it hurts. It's a human emotion. But when you stay in the hurt or act out in a negative way, then there is a problem

Get involved in the different forums here and meet people

first week on line dating on another site..i thought we were going strong and care deeply with each other with this guy i met online ..after 2 weeks he disappeared in thin air and in the forums flirting and gossiping about his past relationships and ignoring me completely...now that hurts....
sure...we all need thick skin to deal with the skinheads/jerks that we meet online who enjoy hurting other people"s feelings...gee...it is the holidays you know....

Absolutely not!

If you are "hurt" in love than you are not in love.

Welcome to the site!

welcome....from a newbie here