the first time I have ever been ashamed of my home town..there was a street dance and I have a gay friend that I was dancing with and other females where dancing with..and some of our finest drunks had a problem with him..why do people fear what they do not understand..he was hurting no one..

they just dont understand gays.

It's obvious, lol. They weren't having as much fun! Your friend had ALL the women's attention. hehe The drunks were jealous.

I don't understand people like that You and your friend were having a good time dancing and all. Some people I guess just go out looking for trouble. Maybe they were jealous because you all were having a good time and they weren't.

yea well my friend spent the night in jail while the close minded idiots they put him there partied the night away..but every dog has his day...I rest in the fact that one day they too shall have to bark...

yes he did...that man can bring out the freak in ya for sure....

Yeah, that sucks! People are idiots....especially when they get the pack mentality going and ganging up on an individual like a bunch of friggen p***sies.

I got plenty of gay friends. They are polite, respectful....and apparently every last one of them are interior decorators.

I got no problem with the butt pirates.....too bad people just can't live and let live.

2 questions,,,,

How did anyone know he was gay?
What was he actually arrested for(being gay is not illegal).

Serious?

Honey...gays are relatively easy to spot strictly through mannerisms.

As far as the arrest...I wasn't there...but, I would bet that the cops looked at the situation and figured it would be easier to arrest one gay (who Ain't gonna resist) as opposed to a group of mouthy belligerent drunks.

With all respect Krupa, my brother is gay and I am bi, so I disagree that you can spot them. People can discriminate because someone is gay and they can also discriminate against how someone carries themself(which is not an absolute correlation to their sexuality). As far as the arrest, it is BECAUSE I wasnt there that I asked the question of the one who was. I am curious what the actual charge was because it seems as if an arrest for being gay could be successfully contested and possibly followed by a civil suit.

I agree...oh, and Krupa, ever try to spot the gay NFL players?

I have to agree with some of the posters, you can't determine sexual orientation by mannerism.

It's sad people with small minds can't understand others , Don't worry some day it will come back in bite them in the A$$...

When it comes to gay mannerism , I have male gay friends who are queens and other you would never know that they where gay .....

Hummmmmmmmmm well I'm a tad curious as well as some of the others for I have had many gay friends and would like to know what he got arrested for as well. Maybe the reason he got arrested would shed more light on the situation as well as opinions.

People discriminate against everything these days, if it not how they think it should be then your a .... we make more of a brouhaha when it is a certain type of people being discriminated against but we actually do it against all may it be gender, beliefs, looks, sexual orientation, race, color, height, political, financial and the list go on.

Those a s s holes did on your gay friend that night and tomorrow it will be against somebody else for different reasons, once an a s s hole always one.

As I was ready through the posts I had to agree with most of what was said.. As I was scrolling towards the bottom I was anticipating the answer to "why he got arrested"... I was disappointed there wasn't an answer...