How long should one have to wait before they get a picture of who they are talking to?

Say this guy has a certain kind of job where he cannot post his picture online or can't call that often. The other person wants to know who is behind all the words they've exchanged. The person who's face is not shown has the advantage. So, they don't talk much but nice emails, emails only on mingle. She gave him her email address and she's guessing because of security reasons that he has not either emailed her nor sent her a picture. They don't live in the same state either.

So again, how long before someone should send a picture to the one they have been emailing on mingle extensively?

Ummm I would want it pretty soon!! so I would have to say Now!!

otherwise im going to think he is hiding something- security or no- he has her private email and a distinct advantage.

Are you sure he isn't married?

I generally don't talk to anyone without a pic or pics!

The last guy who pulled that crap with me turned out to be a total liar. This guy is hiding something, be careful.

Hmmmm! Private e-mail exchanged & yet no pic.exchanged?? Security reasons?? It sounds as if this person is being elusive.(jmo) Godspeed!Cy

I'v Had that happen to me as well.99% of those people have something to hide.Cut your loss and move on.... sorry to say

I know

I looked at that angelic face...

That beautiful smile....

And thought....

I hope some married azzhole Is not taking advantage of her!

i've heard that excuse before and i have to wonder what sort of job does one have to have in order to not post their photo online? a CIA agent?

i don't buy it; they are either ugly as sin, married, or have some other reason to hide.

You should get it as soon as it's asked for.

what a load he's passing her..tell quasimodo to cough up the pic or hit the bricks..

Same here!

If the person doesn't post a pic, call Bullllchit! They are "more than likely" hiding something: marriage, girlfriend, fugly, or being on America's Most Wanted )

Honey Id drop him like a hot rock!! (AND I Do have a pic!! )

Yea, who is he? Jason Bourne?

wow pretty much the same responses.

So this woman's feelings are valid then. I'll have to tell her.

Shut this guy down. He is playing games. If he can't it is either in jail, married, or just having fun enjoying your interest while trying to gather enough info to run some kind of con game. Probably sold your email to half a dozen lists. It is pretty sure with in 15 minutes of getting your email he did and info search on you and knows more about you than you know about yourself.

Don't feel bad some of these guys are really charming when they want to. You are too nice for this creep. Put your energy where it is deserved.

I agree

Are men really allowed on here from jail?????

Did someone say jail?


Why some don't break down and give pics is beyond me. One guy insists on meeting me, I have him my email address and said he couldn't send it to that email address. Haha I get emails on that everyday. Now the guy wants my phone # and says he will text me a pic. Uh I don't think so. Do I have "gullible" written on my forehead.

No my dear it happens all the time!!