mmmmmmmmmmm..big boobs.

Skinny girls aren't bimbos. Its the person itself, not weight. Shoot, I'm a big girl and I LLLOOVVEEE it!! My confidence is awesome. What they see is what they get. Just be yourself, and for dang sure somebody will find ya and wouldn't want to let ya go. Don't let your weight stop ya from the dating game! (This is for everybody/anybody...)

"are there any decent guys who dont want the skinny bimbo?" I haven't found one yet, good luck!

I couldn't have said it any better my size is not what makes me it's the inside of my heart and the love I have to share with others.

It really is all about confidence and if YOU feel sexy/sensual and are proud of who you are. Men gravitate to women who are confident in themselves.

I have been a size 6-8 for many years now...
but during my early 20's I was much heavier (over 100 pounds heavier), a size 22. Even back then, I never had trouble attracting men to me.

True beauty (that matters) is within...- focus on that and be proud of who you are...share that person with others, and think positive.

Attitude has a LOT to do with attraction.

The best of luck to you...(and everyone else) .

Well..here's a couple of thoughts for you.

While I can appreciate the fact that you have certain " preferences " in what you find attractive in the opposite sex...berating them with phrases like " back away from the buffet " aren't really going to help you make a good impression.

Another thing you should think about...you say that you go " tanning " twice a week. Ever heard of Melanoma??

Check into it. Those trips to the tanning joint won't seem quite as " attractive " then.

Hey now I do shshsh

Well said.

I'm simple, I just like women in general

I dunno. I actually, for one, don't mind skinny bimboes. They're okay, just like fat chicks.

Everybody should be happy in this world. I could really vote for that if any political party or subway system in Canada had that on their platform.

I would like to generalize a bit, please forgive me.

I think every person in the world deserves dignity, access to basic human rights, including freedom from torture and ridicule (unless meant in a jokular, non-abrasive fashion.)

I think we should, like, like each other? Why not? We've never ever given that a serious try. I, however, reserve the right, which should be a basic human right, to select my bedpartners, while acknowledgeing that my potential partners have the same right. This is not ideal, because I haven't got in bed w/anyone for ten years, but we all must make our patriotic and civil sacrifices for the common good.

E pluribus unum. ( <- I have never figgered out what his actually means. There is strength in a unified force field? We trust in the common good? The plesbians must pay taxes? If someone knows for sure that this means, please email me.)

Hi I have to say I understand why she feels like that because I have been the one watching and judging and being judged. I feel that is not what sould be going on when we all go out to have some fun with our friend's.I do not go to the bar any more because of that.
From Diana ( babydolphin )

Eww Melanoma! Gross!

You can usually tell when a person is into tanning. Sometimes it is just plain gross. FYI getting a tan doesn't actually help you if you have skin issues such as acne.

Bee, honey, it doesn't matter what you're weight is. Attraction is something personal to every person. Negativity will only attract itself. If you want a person to love you have to love. Not only yourself and your child, but others as well.

Also, calling others names. Not cool. Remember that saying about pointing. One finger out, three back at ya (I'm choosing to ignore our awesome thumbs here). So, maybe you're mad at yourself for being a bimbo?

its all in the eys of the beholder yet it starts within.. Be positive and happy with yourself

hey I came in to see how the voting was coming along -

how many for a skinny bimbo;

how many against a skinny bimbo?

how many just dont care?

Goof loves bimbos....of all sizes.

Ok. Kidding. The truth (which alot of us do not want to admit here) is that a person's "size", or "weight", or "look" does matter. You have to have that initial attraction to someone. It is just how it is.

I used to weigh a little over 300lbs about five years ago. Now, I am 170. Do I get more looks now than I did then? I believe I do, but it doesn't mean that there were women who thought I was butt ugly when I was heavier. Even now, with the way I look, some women will feel I am good looking, and others will feel that I am not there type. And hey, that is cool, cause we all want to be attracted to someone, then get to know them, and become even more attracted to that person.

Anyways, I still love all you bimbos out there. I'm out!

I like chicks that don't have to wine about others to feel better about themselves.I don't know, Maybe it turns some guys on???

I'm going to tell you the truth as it is for me and many other men. Please don't be offended as I am not talking about you or anyone else personally. I am simply doing my best to answer your question truthfully.

When you say "Decent Men" what you are really talking about are men of high value. High value being they have what most women are looking for in a relationship. Being high value themselves they also want a woman of high value. I won't lie to you. Looks ARE very important to many high value men. If they can have a woman that is smart AND pretty great. But, I would go for the pretty one over the smart one every time.

I have dated and been in relationships with women of all sizes and I have found that thin, attractive women are MUCH easier to get along with on a daily basis than heavy women are. I have ideas about why this is, but I won't go into them here as it wold likely offend people.

What you need to do is find your true inner value and learn to display it to the kind of man you want to attract. When you can do that finding a man will be easy.

Personally, being with a heavy woman drains me.

how hard was it not to type what you really wanted to type