Wow right now I feel how females do after this situation. I was really liking this girl, and it turns out she liked me back. I was trying to take it slow, but long story short she seduced me lol. I was thinking ok a little bit rushed, but maybe it can still work. We were talking about dating and all, but she never had time for me, and would only text me from then on. Mostly when she wanted me to do a favor, which I did like a fool. She said the sex was great and wanted to be with me, but everynight she said she'd come over she never did and always had an excuse. Come to find out she had a dude who was cheating on her, & I was just a form of revenge. I haven't heard from her in a while now.

I never been in a situation like this before, and more disappointed I let my self fall into it, instead of seeing through the motives. I mean being used for money is one thing, but I feel like I was mentally screwed with this deal.

I want to know how you all feel about these type of situations and what you did after you found out...

People do use there sexuality in many ways like the damsel in distress scenario but to use it in order to play on the emotions of an individual and play him or her along is horrid.
I think you know the answer you have already put it down in words your being used as obviousley you have a soft heart and you deserve better,move on there are plenty more fish in the sea.Anna x

if your conversation is all about sexual things, then u know they dont think beyond that
dont do it

hi english rose . u in here too?

I know what you mean I just didn't think she was like that. She used to tell me she was so into church and my sis told her I was a good dude. Making like she was looking for something serious and real, then pulling this had me like wow. I guess when you really like some one you just want what they tell you to be true.

Its called blinded by love hun we only see what we want to see now you have wised up move on you seem like a nice guy i wish you well in what you seek. Anna x

Sadly that's what it ends up boiling down to. :-( One learns from it hopefully.

nope but is there any ladies that wanna use me?

Anna x

What is all this strange talk? You can be used? Sexually? That dont happen....Right?


....I volunteer to allow myself to be used sexually so some poor guy doesnt have to. I do it for FREEDOM!!!! I'm such a patriot!

"Mostly when she wanted me to do a favor, which I did like a fool."

So you let it happen? Why didn't you stop it? Difference between being 'used' and letting it happen...

You heard that too?


I figured I had best not comment....my tough love approach is not so well received....

I'm that good.

Yep, doesn't feel good at all.
So don't do it again with her.

Lonelylova-

Its terrible that that happened. Sometimes in our effort to believe something we want to believe in we dont always see things until its too late. The old "hindsight is 20/20 thing"...
It angers me though because that makes it tough on the rest of us who are sincere...
Everyone is human and we all have our list of mistakes -things we would do differently if we could.

Im sorry you are hurt. Dont judge everyone by one persons cavalier attitude and disregard for others...

I feel for ya man... just one observation - just because someone goes to chruch it does not make them a good and moral person...

chock it up as experience... good luck to you!

That's how I like my men.......








Sexually!!!

Any time I got used, I knew what was going on.

NO ONE can use you, UNLESS you allow it.

I CAN be AVAILABLE, to the right people.

I could'nt be used but i am available and willing to allow Calm down guys girl only zone Anna x