Okay, so here's my take on it...

Personally, I think that people that are homophobic are really not
secure in themselves and it's easier to direct your attention to
something outside than something inside. I know who I am and what/who I
like and dislike...and I have absolutely no problem communicating that
to anyone.

I don't understand straight people that are put off by being hit on by a
gay person. If ya think about it, someone who hits on you can only be
doing so because they find you attractive. Straight or gay, my idea on
this is "thanks for teh compliment." Now, if I tell you that I'm not
interested and you push the subject...then we got a problem. That's not
because someone is straight or gay, it's because they are an annoying
jackass that isn't listening to the words coming out of my mouth.
Period.

Frankly, I don't care what someone's sexual orientation is...what you do
in your bedroom (or anyone else's) is not any of my business unless a)
it's my bedroom or b) i'm there. Same thing I felt about the whole damn
Bill Clinton/ Monia Lewinsky/ blue dress/ cigar thing...

but then...that's just my opinion...I could be wrong...

Good Lord Ghost....the statistic thing was just a joke lmaooo
geeeez....nice postulate tho lol

Probably at my age, it would a compament. LOL

thanks guys your giving me alot or opinions and I'm loving it...

william1986:

"dude being in a situation that i was in once makes me not real fond of
gay guys"

Your ignorance just shines through...if I was to hold the actions of one
straight man against them all...I'd end up the crazy old lady is 600
cats just waiting for me to die so they could eat my eyeballs.

Party fag I appologize.....Wrong person I think..I have a 19 yr old
daughter and wouldnt want her harrassed by older guys. She said quit and
he didnt. There is nothin wrong with being gay as long as its no pushed
on someone who donst want that situation. I have gay friends and again
aplogize. Enjoy life no matter who you are with...

Well said Peachy - people with prejudgement often make excuses for why
they have a right to hate people. A black guy robbed my family so all
them are bad. A Mexican guy I knew was always lazy, so all Mexicans are
lazy. We have to take everyone at face value and if someone is a jerk,
they are a jerk, not everyone like them. So one lesbian wanting to cop
a feel of your breast, or even a few that may have hit on you also does
not mean all of them are on the prowl for you (refering to an earlier
post full of face punching anger). But everyone has to live in their
own skin, walk their walk, and even the negetive energy and hatred seem
to have a place in the world, so I will do what is right for me. I just
think the world would be a better place if people could soften their
hearts a bit. If someone gives you a crappy situation, deal with it and
move on.

I guess templer is not so mean after all..

Thx Cancer, just raised my daughter since she was 11. Im really a just a
sweet old man.....

lol.. that's good.

I just read DeeDee's reply and want to say, thanks DeeDee.

I agree w/ u also..

Now Ghost, wow! U had me going.. That was sooo long I almost didn't read
it, but when I started, I had to finish.
Interesting... also I agree w/ u on the whole thing with the name
party_f.. is using. My uncle's gay and I would never call him a fag nor
any other gay person.

Well put ysrider!

My brother is gay and has been actively so for many years. I accept him
and his right to live how he choses. I have met and hung out with gay
people and find them very intellectual and to have a great sence of
humor.
People make their own choices and live with whatever happens after that.
I have no problem with it.

Everyone deserves and needs to be loved whether they are gay,lesbian,
fat, skinny, or what have you. I have no hate nor ill will towards gay
men or lesbians, I want to know the person inside not just the sexual
preference.I don't understand the hate thats out there towards anyone,
life is just too damned short to spend it hating. So Party ,darlin
,being gay is fine with me.The world just needs to stop the hate.

I could care less if somebody is gay.I only care when gay men mistake me
for gay and attempt to hit on me.I mean I here gay friends mostly female
but they I'm straight and we chill with no problems

Being gay is not my sexual preference but who am I
to judge anyone? I really don't know anyone who's gay,
or at least admits it but I wouldn't think any worse
of them if they were gay. Who knows what makes people
attracted to one another? Humanity itself, and sexuality
in particular, is a complicated thing. There are no easy
answers. We do what we do. Shit! That is an easy answer,
isn't it?

Hell yeah. Gay people are loads of fun. Haven't you ever been to a Gay
Bar? You will meet the friendliest people in the world!

most homophobes are secretly gay .....

i agree with you on that one... i know a few guys that spent our child
hood calling me a fag or trying to lay a beating on me.. and now they
get drunkna nd all they want is to get me in bed.. .it's crazy but i
agree that most homophobes are gay

Sorry to put a damper on things, but homosexuality in not all right. We
have come to an age where we are indiscrimanaltly tolerant of
everything. Some thing are not right. I have no hate or fear of gay
people, and have known a few for a long time. They know how I feel,
disagree with me, but respect my opinion anyway. The big question I have
for gay men is what is to name a thing in society that is wrong.

i respect everyone's opinion.. no matter what u have to say i look
forward to readining about it ... i want to know what everyone thinks of
the matter supposing it's good or bad