Topic: Getting attraction
Jess642's photo
Wed 09/30/09 11:07 PM
Huh?


Say what?



You want what?



Don't ask me.....

I'm a picture of an attractive dog...slaphead

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Wed 09/30/09 11:43 PM

Ok I need help I'm good looking smart and have a huge heart but I can't seem to get ladies to like me. Is there something I'm missing. So my question is how do you get and tell someone you like them is there an secret art I don't know about usually I just tell em which isn't the best thing to do sometimes what do you do


You are a hairdresser perfect!! Highlights!!Is it better to use foil or can I just pull out small pieces and color them that way?flowerforyou

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Thu 10/01/09 12:12 AM

Ok I need help I'm good looking smart and have a huge heart but I can't seem to get ladies to like me. Is there something I'm missing. So my question is how do you get and tell someone you like them is there an secret art I don't know about usually I just tell em which isn't the best thing to do sometimes what do you do


YOU would never get a mass of people responding to you if you do not have photos or a photo posting in your profile. Try posting one... and Good luck to you.

southernangel7193's photo
Thu 10/01/09 10:05 AM
try to be a friend to that person first.. and just wait to see what comes out of that flowerforyou

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Thu 10/01/09 10:15 AM

I know as humans were very visual but theres more to me than looks. I want tecnique what do yall do.. But thank tomorrow maybe I can post a couple. Can you give me examples. Thank you


Yes, there is more than looks. However, many of us share pictures and expect the same of others. You cannot expect someone to want to meet you if you're not even willing to share a picture of yourself.

catseyes1's photo
Thu 10/01/09 11:36 AM
Just be who you are, and if the person can not accept you for who you are, then they are not for you. Good Luck.

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Thu 10/01/09 11:39 AM


Ok I need help I'm good looking smart and have a huge heart but I can't seem to get ladies to like me. Is there something I'm missing. So my question is how do you get and tell someone you like them is there an secret art I don't know about usually I just tell em which isn't the best thing to do sometimes what do you do


YOU would never get a mass of people responding to you if you do not have photos or a photo posting in your profile. Try posting one... and Good luck to you.
Sound of innocence and experience
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Thu 10/01/09 11:58 AM
Well said !!! way to go!

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Thu 10/01/09 12:33 PM

If a picture can paint a thousand words then why can't I paint you
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Thu 10/01/09 01:26 PM
Edited by robert1652 on Thu 10/01/09 01:27 PM


If a picture can paint a thousand words then why can't I paint you
etc etc



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Now how did I know that you may like that?

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Thu 10/01/09 01:38 PM
Personally I am attracted to men with confidence not to be mixed up with being egotistical btw lol. But I appreciate men who are upfront and bold, honest and blunt... sort of the male version of me!
Keep being yourself there is no secret because trying to figure out woman is impossible... were not all the same... being yourself will eventually bring the right one to you, and hopefully take your forwardness and run wild with it and with you.
There does have to be physical attraction for sure but it is within the eye of the beholder for sure and I personally would love to find someone who has just as much inner beauty as they do outter because one day the outer shell it to will fade....

Good luck fishing!

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Thu 10/01/09 01:44 PM

Ok I need help I'm good looking smart and have a huge heart but I can't seem to get ladies to like me. Is there something I'm missing. So my question is how do you get and tell someone you like them is there an secret art I don't know about usually I just tell em which isn't the best thing to do sometimes what do you do








I do not fully understand the part about telling a woman that you like them.



What is this, 8th grade? You have to have your buddy tell some girl that you are into her so maybe you can pass notes in class?



Weird.



Are you a little clingy? You sound clingy in a way. Maybe check for some things to improve yourself to make yourself more marketable to a woman- make a woman want you and need you.

pkh's photo
Thu 10/01/09 02:12 PM
Join the forums so everyone gets to know you

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Thu 10/01/09 02:18 PM
You might want to rework your interests- you start off saying you enjoy the finer things in life, and then you list sex in the morning and ice cream. The last two seem to work together, but the first one doesn't fit. If I read someone's profile and he says he likes the finer things in life, I'm expecting to read about art, good wines, literature, poetry, things of that nature, not morning sex and ice cream, but that's just me. So your problem could lie in how you're presenting yourself.

Also, you list in great detail what you expect from a potential mate, but perhaps you could list what you have to offer in order to make yourself more attractive to whomever you're seeking? Just a few suggestions, good luck.

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Thu 10/01/09 02:26 PM
I'm not going to read the other posts, or your profile ...

I'm gonna shoot straight from the hip of having read the OP ... then glancing to your profile name ...

'BIGHEADED" ... What else do I need to know, ask? ... think ...

Are ya missin' how ya front there? That is the fartherest I could be pushed from 'attraction', I'm repelled ...

First impressions are made in seconds, face value w/ 1st incoming data!

Epic fail there!

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Thu 10/01/09 02:27 PM

I'm not going to read the other posts, or your profile ...

I'm gonna shoot straight from the hip of having read the OP ... then glancing to your profile name ...

'BIGHEADED" ... What else do I need to know, ask? ... think ...

Are ya missin' how ya front there? That is the fartherest I could be pushed from 'attraction', I'm repelled ...

First impressions are made in seconds, face value w/ 1st incoming data!

Epic fail there!


Yeah, I thought about that too, but there are some pretty weird screen names on here, so I just side-stepped it.laugh

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Thu 10/01/09 02:34 PM


I'm not going to read the other posts, or your profile ...

I'm gonna shoot straight from the hip of having read the OP ... then glancing to your profile name ...

'BIGHEADED" ... What else do I need to know, ask? ... think ...

Are ya missin' how ya front there? That is the fartherest I could be pushed from 'attraction', I'm repelled ...

First impressions are made in seconds, face value w/ 1st incoming data!

Epic fail there!


Yeah, I thought about that too, but there are some pretty weird screen names on here, so I just side-stepped it.laugh


Yeah, well that's true about the screen names...

But this one, in context w/ the question?

Makes me wanna tip him off that the first glance, first 10 seconds ... that's everything and last chance!

Makes me suspect the first 10 are routinely blown ... W/ out him ever checkin' that ginormous fact!

Yanno me, actually tryin' to assist in response ... flowerforyou

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Thu 10/01/09 02:35 PM



I'm not going to read the other posts, or your profile ...

I'm gonna shoot straight from the hip of having read the OP ... then glancing to your profile name ...

'BIGHEADED" ... What else do I need to know, ask? ... think ...

Are ya missin' how ya front there? That is the fartherest I could be pushed from 'attraction', I'm repelled ...

First impressions are made in seconds, face value w/ 1st incoming data!

Epic fail there!


Yeah, I thought about that too, but there are some pretty weird screen names on here, so I just side-stepped it.laugh


Yeah, well that's true about the screen names...

But this one, in context w/ the question?

Makes me wanna tip him off that the first glance, first 10 seconds ... that's everything and last chance!

Makes me suspect the first 10 are routinely blown ... W/ out him ever checkin' that ginormous fact!

Yanno me, actually tryin' to assist in response ... flowerforyou


Yeah, one of those "not able to ignore the elephant in the room" situations.laugh

Bigheaded's photo
Thu 10/01/09 03:26 PM
Yeah I thought I would get some shock value lol omg I crack myself up anyway I'm just trying to have fun please don't be so prim I'm not showing you my privites... Which by the way I've seen a Couple... Yuck absoultly no class or tact ICK!!! Oh I got some pictures so yall can continue to cut me down like ya think ya know me pps my mother didn't raise me to be a nasty pervert thank you. Thanks to all thoughs who came with good positive things to say peace

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Thu 10/01/09 03:30 PM



If a picture can paint a thousand words then why can't I paint you
etc etc



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Now how did I know that you may like that?

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You wanted to know?laugh laugh
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