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Topic: would women rather wait on a guy or be waited on
redneck_08 Joined Thu 07/31/08 Posts: 56	Tue 09/29/09 08:53 AM
take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around??

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 09/29/09 08:55 AM
oh serve me....rub my feet, fan me, bring me drinks with tiny umbrellas

redneck_08 Joined Thu 07/31/08 Posts: 56	Tue 09/29/09 08:57 AM
oh serve me....rub my feet, fan me, bring me drinks with tiny umbrellas i mean does it realy make a difference in the way the relationship works if the guy is wanting to wait on the women or does it matter

35TOO Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 10407	Tue 09/29/09 08:57 AM
take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around?? NO I THINK IT SHOULD WORK BOTH WAYS ...... A RELATIONSHIP IS A PARTNERSHIP TOO........

AngeliaJ Joined Fri 06/12/09 Posts: 403	Tue 09/29/09 08:57 AM
I think it should be give and take. By the way you two would look cute together. red neck and lady

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Tue 09/29/09 08:58 AM
I agree. it should be equal now get in the kitchen and get me a beer

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 09/29/09 08:59 AM
Doesn't matter...both SHOULD be being kind and doing kind to the other.

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Tue 09/29/09 08:59 AM
oh serve me....rub my feet, fan me, bring me drinks with tiny umbrellas Your wish is my command.

redneck_08 Joined Thu 07/31/08 Posts: 56	Tue 09/29/09 09:00 AM
take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around?? NO I THINK IT SHOULD WORK BOTH WAYS ...... A RELATIONSHIP IS A PARTNERSHIP TOO........ i mean i understand the meet in the middle concept but what im saying is does it make the relationship better if the guys shows more effort in the relationship or not

Dancere Joined Sun 04/06/08 Posts: 14561	Tue 09/29/09 09:02 AM
... I'm all in w/ reciprocity ... Let's take turns; many hands make light the load ...

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Tue 09/29/09 09:04 AM
Um, as a couple, you should both be accommodating. You know, yin, yang. It should come naturally do want to do so, too. Nothing conspired.

Englishrose2 Joined Sat 09/26/09 Posts: 1145	Tue 09/29/09 09:06 AM
A bit of give and take i would say. Anna x

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Tue 09/29/09 09:06 AM
take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around?? NO I THINK IT SHOULD WORK BOTH WAYS ...... A RELATIONSHIP IS A PARTNERSHIP TOO........ i mean i understand the meet in the middle concept but what im saying is does it make the relationship better if the guys shows more effort in the relationship or not If he doesn't, he isn't really a loving partner, is he? You know, unless he is disabled, that is. But even if disabled, the reciprocity would be in making sure the partner knows he/she is appreciated.

silly Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 2789	Tue 09/29/09 09:08 AM
It should be give and take.: now please give me a back rub and a foot rub.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Tue 09/29/09 09:12 AM
take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around?? No. If that is what make's you happy and, feel good. Go for it. But, you have to allow it to go the other way too.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Tue 09/29/09 09:13 AM
take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around?? NO I THINK IT SHOULD WORK BOTH WAYS ...... A RELATIONSHIP IS A PARTNERSHIP TOO........ i mean i understand the meet in the middle concept but what im saying is does it make the relationship better if the guys shows more effort in the relationship or not It's not a competition.

redneck_08 Joined Thu 07/31/08 Posts: 56	Tue 09/29/09 09:18 AM
take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around?? NO I THINK IT SHOULD WORK BOTH WAYS ...... A RELATIONSHIP IS A PARTNERSHIP TOO........ i mean i understand the meet in the middle concept but what im saying is does it make the relationship better if the guys shows more effort in the relationship or not It's not a competition. i dont mean to make acompetition of it i am just wondering for every relaionship i have been in i have done everything for the women and yet they always seem to cheat on me with someone that they wind up waiting on

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 09/29/09 09:24 AM
I agree. it should be equal now get in the kitchen and get me a beer And don't forget my turkey pot-pie!

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 09/29/09 09:36 AM
take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around?? I think that couples should be a team.

Annacincy Joined Mon 09/21/09 Posts: 8	Tue 09/29/09 11:20 AM Edited by Annacincy on Tue 09/29/09 11:21 AM
I see nothing wrong with you doing things for the women you're with but....when a guy does somethings for me I like to show him appreciation by doing things for him too.