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You're not alone, I've never felt this way either.... I do still have hope tho!
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input! 
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
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The 'in love' thing?
It's actually calm....it's quiet, it's the soft contentedness.... Infatuation is messy....lust is crazy headed.....love is calm. |
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input!
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
Again, I don't believe you. How often do I whine? |
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input!
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
Again, I don't believe you. How often do I whine? It matters not what you believe about me...and you are taking this very personally, I said whining was not for me..am not referring to you Peace Brother 
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Hahahaha are you two debating who isn't whining?
Do you need a mediator? Neither of you whine.... E V E R .... if you did, I would remember.... I like 'whine fodder'..
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input!
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
Again, I don't believe you. How often do I whine? It matters not what you believe about me...and you are taking this very personally, I said whining was not for me..am not referring to you Peace Brother
Sorry, you only gave two options...growth or whining. I'm not taking it personally, I find it funny that people can look at text on a forum and jump the gun on assumptions. There are many options to take, not simply two. Love is not so simple, and that is exactly why I don't believe you. |
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Fear, share what 'in love' is......please?
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input!
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
Again, I don't believe you. How often do I whine? It matters not what you believe about me...and you are taking this very personally, I said whining was not for me..am not referring to you Peace Brother
Sorry, you only gave two options...growth or whining. I'm not taking it personally, I find it funny that people can look at text on a forum and jump the gun on assumptions. There are many options to take, not simply two. Love is not so simple, and that is exactly why I don't believe you.
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input!
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input!
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
Again, I don't believe you. How often do I whine? It matters not what you believe about me...and you are taking this very personally, I said whining was not for me..am not referring to you Peace Brother
Sorry, you only gave two options...growth or whining. I'm not taking it personally, I find it funny that people can look at text on a forum and jump the gun on assumptions. There are many options to take, not simply two. Love is not so simple, and that is exactly why I don't believe you. |
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input!
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
Again, I don't believe you. How often do I whine? It matters not what you believe about me...and you are taking this very personally, I said whining was not for me..am not referring to you Peace Brother
Sorry, you only gave two options...growth or whining. I'm not taking it personally, I find it funny that people can look at text on a forum and jump the gun on assumptions. There are many options to take, not simply two. Love is not so simple, and that is exactly why I don't believe you. Wall or not, love simply does not exist anymore. |
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Interesting topic. To answer your question, no, I've never been in love.
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i'm hoping that the rumor "better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" is bogus It is...nothing about that is true... I've heard that having your heart broken can kill you. Now you know that you can survive anything! Thanks for your input!
oh it doesn't kill ya... ya either grow from the pain or ya whine about it forever..you get to choose what you take away with you. Yeah...this is why I don't ask for guidance from this forum... yeah, I don't ask either... Fact of the matter is many of you have not actually felt love, I know this because I have and am still met by nonsensical posts about how "you either whine or grow from it"...love is not so easy, least of all true love. Of course again, very few of the member base has actually felt that.
Fear..I'm gonna be 50 years old, I have raised 3 children..I have experienced true love and not so true love. I choose to not let it destroy me and I choose to keep my heart open. Maybe I didn't really have a choice because I had children that deserved a mother with an open heart.. either way, I CHOOSE how I would react and deal with my pain, whining was not a viable option for me.
Again, I don't believe you. How often do I whine? It matters not what you believe about me...and you are taking this very personally, I said whining was not for me..am not referring to you Peace Brother
Sorry, you only gave two options...growth or whining. I'm not taking it personally, I find it funny that people can look at text on a forum and jump the gun on assumptions. There are many options to take, not simply two. Love is not so simple, and that is exactly why I don't believe you. Wall or not, love simply does not exist anymore. |
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i was just curious if i'm as heartless as i've been told. i think people jump to soon The Grandma calls that "bein' cussed" and she has sworn by it all her life! I marvel at her ability to maintain her autonomy the way she does, even w/ the great loves she has had in her life ... I'm far TOO passionate to be "cussed" ... 
I just let her rip, damn the torpedoes and full speed ahead ... Duck! Incoming ...
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Ok.Well fukkkk it.Love is sheett I agree. 
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Fear is whining...JMO
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i was just curious if i'm as heartless as i've been told. i think people jump to soon The Grandma calls that "bein' cussed" and she has sworn by it all her life! I marvel at her ability to maintain her autonomy the way she does, even w/ the great loves she has had in her life ... I'm far TOO passionate to be "cussed" ...
I just let her rip, damn the torpedoes and full speed ahead ... Duck! Incoming ...
That's an interesting description of love, never heard that before. |
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i was just curious if i'm as heartless as i've been told. i think people jump to soon The Grandma calls that "bein' cussed" and she has sworn by it all her life! I marvel at her ability to maintain her autonomy the way she does, even w/ the great loves she has had in her life ... I'm far TOO passionate to be "cussed" ...
I just let her rip, damn the torpedoes and full speed ahead ... Duck! Incoming ...
That's an interesting description of love, never heard that before. Well, it's Grandma's response when she is called heartless... "I'm just too cussed to fall for that," she replies. She seems to fall in love w/ her head and keep her heart stowed in the overhead! She is 80 and SO happy, w/ no regrets ... and not one romantic broken~hearted episode to her name! It is a special skillset I've never been able to learn, try though I might ... 
I reckon it is my distinctly, wild artiste temperament! ... ... Oh well ... !!!
I am beginning to at least fake it until I make it, at 50 ... late bloomer ...
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i was just curious if i'm as heartless as i've been told. i think people jump to soon The Grandma calls that "bein' cussed" and she has sworn by it all her life! I marvel at her ability to maintain her autonomy the way she does, even w/ the great loves she has had in her life ... I'm far TOO passionate to be "cussed" ...
I just let her rip, damn the torpedoes and full speed ahead ... Duck! Incoming ...
That's an interesting description of love, never heard that before. Well, it's Grandma's response when she is called heartless... "I'm just too cussed to fall for that," she replies. She seems to fall in love w/ her head and keep her heart stowed in the overhead! She is 80 and SO happy, w/ no regrets ... and not one romantic broken~hearted episode to her name! It is a special skillset I've never been able to learn, try though I might ...
I reckon it is my distinctly, wild artiste temperament! ... ... Oh well ... !!!
I am beginning to at least fake it until I make it, at 50 ... late bloomer ...
I've been called heartless a few times, but I take it as a compliment.
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