People make. Not to look down on the post below me,and i do not mean any harm, but how many people that post post like. Is there any decent men or woman out there actually look at themselves and say. Am i actually picking the right people that i might think i'm interested in? Am i actually being honest with myself in what i want? Other words, it's not that there isn't decent people out there. It's all in who your looking for and a lot of the time, people put Attraction over everything else and when the relationship don't work out. They come to the same old question. Is there any decent people out there.

Just one more thing to add. Are you sure it's not you making things go wrong?

Hey stranger! How have you been?



...and yes, we all have at least a small part in everything we do, and how things come out, whether right or wrong, subconsciously or not.

if im honest, i think yeah it has to do with me....i try not to complain, but i find myself doing it anyway....but i think its my own fault because i dont know what i want yet....

i think i better hurry...haha

i am absolutely aware of the detrimental things i (can) do to a relationship and i try (almost daily) to ensure that i don't follow the same path.

however, there are some issues that i won't (can't) forsake and i'm not sure that doing so would leave me in a good state to continue on with the relationship anyway.

I'm always to blame since i can only control my own action, I've learned to accept that i choose who I want to be with and if it doesn't work for whatever reason I was the one wrong since I was the one to choose that person.

I uae to come on here looking for the wrong things, not to say it wont happen again, but i'm more aware today on things then i was in the past. I wouldn't blame it all on myself to what ever happen, but i do take responcibility for my own actions. Like i'm doing now. I met someone on here a little over two years ago. I took a chance and it din't work out, although what ever happened i was given a beautiful little boy out of it. And i'm making the best of it as i know how. So where i'm at at this point is, just trying to take care of me. I'm not looking for a relationship at this point, but at the same time i'm leaving the door open. And the one thing i keep in mind, is knowing everyone is different and knowing there are decent people out there. Just who knows when i will meet that one.

I for sure am a large part of the reason. I wont just date anyone.