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Edited by
darkowl1
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well, for MOST men....you know, the trump card, or one-up type, cheaters and such....there are septic tank trucks.....when the lever for the hose is put in reverse, it fills a car or house up rather nicely.....
 
always, yes.....always....smile at your accomplishments  
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No Bonny. From what I know of you, I don't believe you are. Outspoken now, is not altogether a bad thing. Depends on how we word things and choosing our timing etc. But speaking up for wrong, pointing out something to a friend, letting a guy know what you need/want etc, is not in my book considered outspoken.
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bonny, my friend. show him these threads, for there is very very good points in all that is written here, and what councilors they are, and maybe he'll understand what he's putting her through... thanks auburn(bows laughing sincerely) 
I will do no such thing.......... I will watch him trip up over himself. I have tried to advise him as a friend, but he seems to want to rush headlong into whatever distructive force that is drawing him towards his doom. Right now I do not want to baby sit a grown man, I do enough baby sitting when I am at work ( 1,700 children) I am also planning on things I can do to help me grow old disgracefully.
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And that last word was NOT a typo folks!
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No Bonny. From what I know of you, I don't believe you are. Outspoken now, is not altogether a bad thing. Depends on how we word things and choosing our timing etc. But speaking up for wrong, pointing out something to a friend, letting a guy know what you need/want etc, is not in my book considered outspoken. I got told recently I am TOO outspoken, *don't know what they meant.*
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Wed 09/09/09 03:57 PM
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bonny, my friend. show him these threads, for there is very very good points in all that is written here, and what councilors they are, and maybe he'll understand what he's putting her through... thanks auburn(bows laughing sincerely)
I will do no such thing.......... I will watch him trip up over himself. I have tried to advise him as a friend, but he seems to want to rush headlong into whatever distructive force that is drawing him towards his doom. Right now I do not want to baby sit a grown man, I do enough baby sitting when I am at work ( 1,700 children) I am also planning on things I can do to help me grow old disgracefully.
well, you can always roll out the "brown" carpet, because he's gonna go through lot's of **** when it's happening, and when it's over. and have 1700 kids track it through their house. |
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No Bonny. From what I know of you, I don't believe you are. Outspoken now, is not altogether a bad thing. Depends on how we word things and choosing our timing etc. But speaking up for wrong, pointing out something to a friend, letting a guy know what you need/want etc, is not in my book considered outspoken. I got told recently I am TOO outspoken, *don't know what they meant.*
Well good. Then "outspeak" one more time and tell them what they can do with it. 
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Edited by
BonnyMiss
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Wed 09/09/09 04:07 PM
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Well good. Then "outspeak" one more time and tell them what they can do with it.
I swear I am getting crotchy in my old age, I seem to have acquired this incredible knack for telling the truth to those who upset me...............  Isn't it funny when the worm turns? People do not seem to like you putting a stop to them taking advantage of you, suddenly you become THE b!tch for sticking up for yourself. 
Guys, it has, as always,a pleasure having a chat with you, but the time has come for me to wrestle my pillow or my duvet (I'm not fussy) So, it is with much regret (because I was having a good time) I am going to wish you all a good evening. 
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well, for MOST men....you know, the trump card, or one-up type, cheaters and such....there are septic tank trucks.....when the lever for the hose is put in reverse, it fills a car or house up rather nicely.....
always, yes.....always....smile at your accomplishments
Owl, there goes my reputation in this neighbourhood......... I am now on the floor screeching like a banshee!
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What would you think if your partner hung on to a friendship of the opposite sex during the course of your relationship? Here is an example of what I am talking about.......... A male friend of mine has been through two marriages (both marriages broke up for various reasons) he had a female friend (and still continues to befriend this woman) even after his two divorces, both of his ex wives were not too keen on his friendship with the lady friend in question.My friend is insisting that his friendship with his female friend is purely platonic, now that his second marriage has hit the dirt he has taken to escorting his female "platonic female friend" to dinner and various outings and has said that any woman he gets involved with in the future will have to put up with his friend or hit the road.He also states he has never been sexually involved with the lady in question ............ Do you think this is "normal" behaviour? Is it as he is saying that people should accept that a man and a woman can be friends without jumping into bed? Who's to say what's normal? |
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What would you think if your partner hung on to a friendship of the opposite sex during the course of your relationship? Here is an example of what I am talking about.......... A male friend of mine has been through two marriages (both marriages broke up for various reasons) he had a female friend (and still continues to befriend this woman) even after his two divorces, both of his ex wives were not too keen on his friendship with the lady friend in question.My friend is insisting that his friendship with his female friend is purely platonic, now that his second marriage has hit the dirt he has taken to escorting his female "platonic female friend" to dinner and various outings and has said that any woman he gets involved with in the future will have to put up with his friend or hit the road.He also states he has never been sexually involved with the lady in question ............ Do you think this is "normal" behaviour? Is it as he is saying that people should accept that a man and a woman can be friends without jumping into bed? Yes, a man and woman can be just friends. Why should he stop being friends with her? |
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At the cost of upsetting the person you are supposed to be in love with? I told him he should have practised a bit of caution, now that both of his marriages are over, it has given both of his ex wifes ammo to use against him, especially now that they are seen out and about having cosy dinners and drinks out in little country pubs. Unless either of his ex wives caught him being disloyal and intimate with his friend, there is really not anything they can say except for lies. I have been friends with some of my guy friends wives or girlfriends and have gone with them places or to party. I have had co workers that were my friend only and gone partying and/or dancing with them. But nothing intimate ever happened because of our friendship. My point? If your friend would have lied about his friend that is one thing, but if he is telling the truth there is nothing wrong with that. If he wants to keep his friendship, then he needs to let his next prospective partner know that up front. There are plenty of women that could handle that kind of a situation. Just my opinion. |
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What would you think if your partner hung on to a friendship of the opposite sex during the course of your relationship? Here is an example of what I am talking about.......... A male friend of mine has been through two marriages (both marriages broke up for various reasons) he had a female friend (and still continues to befriend this woman) even after his two divorces, both of his ex wives were not too keen on his friendship with the lady friend in question.My friend is insisting that his friendship with his female friend is purely platonic, now that his second marriage has hit the dirt he has taken to escorting his female "platonic female friend" to dinner and various outings and has said that any woman he gets involved with in the future will have to put up with his friend or hit the road.He also states he has never been sexually involved with the lady in question ............ Do you think this is "normal" behaviour? Is it as he is saying that people should accept that a man and a woman can be friends without jumping into bed? I have a friend like that...and my ex wife hated it. She was INSANELY JEALOUS of her for really no reason. She told me to basically never talk to her again. I absolutely refused to give up that friendship...I was taking her on dates or calling her every day though. But if she called, I would answer the phone and chat with her. I have known my best friend since I was 12 nothing sexual ever happened between us. We were and are just friends she is married now and lives across state but we still chat on occasion. So I'd say it is normal. If he is being honest about her...then....what is he hiding? wouldn't be easier to hide something by lying? |
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