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Edited by
justme659
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<-----I have been on this and other sites for 4 years. And now I am just as synical as hell. I dont think there is an honerable, single and honest man out there. Just call me Lex2. After that long you get tired of the games, lies, disapearing acts and sex fiends. Now dont get me wrong, I like sex a lot, its just not the first thing thats on my list to talk to someone about before we even have coffee or see a movie together. Some day I do hope to be proven wrong.
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I dont think there is an honerable and honest man out there.
heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hmpf |
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Johnrock.... I admire your honesty and sincerity... I hope your future is bright... *Smile* Jeff Darko: That's because they don't just do it. Nothing wrong with a hello. Nothing at all..... And most times, that's what most women are waiting for.... Why is it always about the bleeding women? I think this society would be easier to take if in a given week of the year no women would be allowed to say "no" to any guy. Just one week, that's all I ask for. Is that too much to ask? Okay, then how about the second wednesday of July of each year? |
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I dont think there is an honerable and honest man out there.
heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hmpf Yea, well you are spoken for mister, and therefore hands off. |
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I dont think there is an honerable and honest man out there.
heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hmpf HMPF? I looked on Wikipaediae and could not find this "txting" entry. What does it stand for? (Please tell me it doesn't stand for big governement or for more profits for the oil companies.) |
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hmpf- sound made when a person's nose is out of joint. Picture a person with arms crossed and head turned, and a little ticked off or insulted.
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It seems that we as a nation... perhaps as a species, have forgotten what real communication is all about. Is it really so much more likely that a stranger that you meet today will be a predatory monster than it would have been in a society without traffic cams on every corner, Amber Alerts, and so forth? Or is the paranoia over meeting "stangers" just another result of filling our heads with mass media rather than living our own lives and learning from our own experiences?
Sites like this would be wonderful if people would be themselves instead of pretending to be what they think people want them to be. There's an old saying, "If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem", which I think is appropriate here. This is supposed to be a community site, which to me means a place where people interact with one another. So why not remove the restrictions on your profile and encourage people to say hello, and maybe even make it a point to introduce yourself to someone new every time you visit? I've actually met people from this and other sites, and know you learn more about a person in one minute of face-to-face time than months of online exchange. But let's face it, it's not going to happen if you pre-judge people before you meet them, or have a laundry list of prerequisites. Remember that no two people are alike, and the more we stereotype others the more we become just another cardboard cutout. Which is fine, if that's also what you're looking for. Short answer: With 6+ billion unique individuals on this planet, whoever you're looking for exists. Finding them, however, will take some effort. As Richard Bach put it, "Argue your limitations and sure enough, they're yours". |
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<-----I have been on this and other sites for 4 years. And now I am just as synical as hell. I dont think there is an honerable, single and honest man out there. Just call me Lex2. After that long you get tired of the games, lies, disapearing acts and sex fiends. Now dont get me wrong, I like sex a lot, its just not the first thing thats on my list to talk to someone about before we even have coffee or see a movie together. Some day I do hope to be proven wrong. I'm honorable, single, and honest! I just don't have room in my life for a relationship right now, sorry. Maybe one day I'll take you on a date. |
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Ladies the question is not why is there so many guys that only want to talk about sex (we all know there are a lot) but the question is why do you always end up talking to those guys and pass on the ones that would love talking about everyday life to you.
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Johnrock.... I admire your honesty and sincerity... I hope your future is bright... *Smile* Jeff Darko: That's because they don't just do it. Nothing wrong with a hello. Nothing at all..... And most times, that's what most women are waiting for.... It's always the wrong guys who say hello though... |
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Edited by
GeniuSxBoY
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Wed 09/09/09 12:10 PM
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6+ billion unique individuals on this planet, whoever you're looking for exists.
That is not true. 6 billion is smaller a number than you think Factorials, or in probability and statistics, the number of possible unique outcomes in a set of numbers(such as the number of outcomes in the state lottery) shows that it only takes 12 or 13 variables to create between 479,001,600 (12!) and 6,227,020,800 (13!) unique outcomes, in this case people. In reality, we have an infinite number of variables, stemming by the second and third dimensions of each variable such as magnitude of each variable. |
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6+ billion unique individuals on this planet, whoever you're looking for exists.
That is not true. 6 billion is smaller a number than you think Factorials, or in probability and statistic, the number of possible unique outcomes in a set of samples (such as the number of outcomes in the state lottery) shows that it only takes 12 or 13 variables to create between 479,001,600 (12!) and 6,227,020,800 (13!) unique people. In reality, we have an infinite number of variables, stemming by the second and the dimension of each variable such as magnitude of each. math???? nooooo, i suck at math. my eyes, my eyess!!!!! |
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Are there any men out there, that are NOT just looking for a one night stand or webcam play? If so, how do you find them? I haven't had the opportunity to actually "meet" anyone, typically, it only gets to the point where sex comes up through messaging or email. You would think that someone would actually want to meet you first , before asking for something of that nature..... Any insight to this whole online dating would be appreciated. Ciao,,, |
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By the way... people change every day. If you find someone perfect today, tomorrow they will be different.
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No, I ate them...sorry... there's still that one, the one that got out. she can have him, can't she? |
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Edited by
justme659
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Wed 09/09/09 03:41 PM
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<-----I have been on this and other sites for 4 years. And now I am just as synical as hell. I dont think there is an honerable, single and honest man out there. Just call me Lex2. After that long you get tired of the games, lies, disapearing acts and sex fiends. Now dont get me wrong, I like sex a lot, its just not the first thing thats on my list to talk to someone about before we even have coffee or see a movie together. Some day I do hope to be proven wrong. I'm honorable, single, and honest! I just don't have room in my life for a relationship right now, sorry. Maybe one day I'll take you on a date. Since when does one date relate to a relationship? Does "dating" have to lead to a relationship? Can't a couple of friends go out and have a nice evening together? ( This isnt just addressed to Heavenlyboy.) But when you are ready, pick a time and place. I am waiting for someone to prove my earlier statement wrong. |
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Ladies the question is not why is there so many guys that only want to talk about sex (we all know there are a lot) but the question is why do you always end up talking to those guys and pass on the ones that would love talking about everyday life to you. The point being, that's when the conversation ends. Well, for me. Would for once, like that to happen. Seems that , those are the only one's that end up in my messages..... Find out WHO I am first. WHAT I am first.... Not posing questions to see if I'm a "Freak in between the sheets" first... Patience... Someone one day might find that out, without having to ask. |
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Yes, there are honorable men out there that don't just want one night stands. However, they are not online.
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There are men out there that are not all about sex! Take me for instance,a few years ago i survived Prostate Cancer but lost the prostate. I had Sex with my then wife the night before surgery and that was the last time. So you can say that Sex or the lack of it was a Big part of our divorce. we just never talked about it . I guess i kinda withdrew.Anyways im sure there are men like me out there that don't think about the self satisfaction of Sex but just wants to make his partner happy. Sorry i am babbbbling. I am wishing you lots of luck on Mingle. |
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Yes, there are honorable men out there that don't just want one night stands. However, they are not online. That is a bit general. |
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