so today i realized that someone was lying to me about something pretty serious. things didnt add up. comments didnt make sense.

and now... i know he's lying and don't like it one bit.

i'm a bridge burner. i know its not good but if you cross me i don't allow you back in my life.

what about you?

do you forigve forget and welcome them back in your life?

Some sins warrant not forgiveness from me.

I've forgiven only to be screwed over again and that was by family.... I give non-blood less opportunity...

I am being lied about now

I fogive. My heart is good

Karma

Toxic people have no place in my life...I make them go bye bye...

I agree with you but I don’t refer to myself as a bridge burner.

I cut out the cancers in my life and that includes liars, cheaters, thieves and jerks.

If this is the mantra you have then don’t question it -- own it! Why anyone would be remorseful for letting a loser go from their life is beyond me.

The people that continue to forgive are doormats for drama, and they always wonder why their life is such a roller coaster. Take control and STFU!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=595_yOAyZi8

Im the same I will do anything for anyone but if you stitch me up or cross me then thats your lot

I've said previously, second chances are NORMALLY reserved for those that did not deserve a first chance. Unless there is a long-term friendship and EXTENUATING circumstances, I cut ties.

That's a question only you can answer, but don't forget, if someone is lying to you, how much respect are you getting?

Two yrs ago I decided not to let any negative people in my life.. Life has been much better although sometimes someone will slip in but they don't get to stay..

Your first sentence -- that is so true. Never thought about it in that way. Thanks for the eye-opener.

nice. i once had someone told me that its wrong and unfair that i dont give second chances.

but then it was by a walking doormat. so there ya go.

i do say i'm a bridge burner because i know people who will keep that bridge above water no matter what. no matter how many times they get hurt/screwed/destroyed.

i can't allow that and the moment i find out you are lying to me, i cut you out.

i'm glad i'm not alone on that. :D i thought for a moment that i was just too much of a hardass. :p

lol my pals refer to me as the mafiosa.

"you're dead to me."

If a relationship is not mutually beneficial, it needs to end.

Liars and thiefs can kick rocks

I knew the weirdest dude in the world. He would lie about everything and anything. Just stupid stuff. Like he would say he saw some movie, when he really didn't. He had a mental disease.

Funny thing is, he would do anything for his friends, and if he told you he was going to do something, or be somewhere for you, at a certain time, you could count on him.

He would literally give you anything of his, if you were his friend and he thought you needed it more than him. I saw him do it, multiple times. (okay, maybe not his car, but just about anything else)

Unfortunately, if he told me he just took a ****, I wouldn't believe him, so I never invested TOO much into the friendship.

I suppose we might have different definitions of 'bridge burner'.

Burning a bridge to me is quitting a job on bad terms without any thought as to how will affect a job reference; you can't go back either.

Or, borrowing money and not repaying it so the person doesn't trust you anymore.

A short-sighted decision that may bite you in the azzz.


Cutting the bad people out of your life puts you on the other side of the bridge! They have burned the bridge to you.

I forgive them but I never trust them again.

I will give them the chance to tell the truth (I won't let them know) I'll just ask again or bring it up. If I am lied to, they are GONE! Bridge burned.

Everyone lies a little, i have lied so as to take off from work or maybe to not hurt someones feelings t is part of human nature.