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Without mentioning last names
Let's say that two people are getting married NOw Normally the woman take that Guys last name BUt Neither one likes their last names for what ever reason What should they do MY thought was to use a name from either one's family's history But I am open to suggestions on this What do you guys and gals think about this? |
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Whatever makes you comfortable, Chris..
It is, and will be, your name..And, you can have it be whatever you want.. 
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Can you tell this is about us?
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soprano?
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i think a woman should take her husbands name
this is just my how i feel so much in our world has changed as far as traditions go if a woman is to be a wife than she should have pride in the name her husband carries 
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you could use both last names just use the -
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go with Squarepants.... Twilight & Imbro Squarepants
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Yeah I cant imagine me keeping my last name
Plus I dont like the history behind that side of the family (My last name) |
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Have to agree with you on that Lisa.
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what should they do? NOT get married..LOL
you say "Neither one likes their last names for what ever reason" I think it shows a deep insecurity about your own heritage and If you can't deal with your own Identity...you really can't deal with marrige and all that it encompasses....Just my opinion...."What's in a name?"
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hey katie here is a good last name for the both of you
chris and katie dontgiveasheet |
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well Serchin4MyRedWine
This really has nothing to do with heritage as you put it That;s why I mentioned using a different name from eithers family's history |
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Insecure?
Ok Ok... I am 1.) oldfashioned I believe I the woman should take the husbands last name 2.) My mom remarried and the last name I have now is a heritage I do not want to reconize. I love my moms new husband (my step dad) he has become my father. My real dad tried to kill my mom & I with a shot gun because he was a physically abusive drunk |
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once again
why I used the phrase " for whatever reason" |
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ok..then its an Identy thing....same thing..whats not to like about any
name...it is what it is...changing your name does not change who you are...so why change it unless your embarrassed about it or afraid what people think about it...then it goes back to insecurity....but if you insist..I think Rumplestilskin is as good as any 
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Have you checked into the legalities of it? I would think it would be
okay. Only other issue would be if children were involved, how would changing your last name at this point affect them if they have your current last names?? I hated my ex when I divorced him but kept his name because our daughter had it and didn't want to confuse the issue by taking my maiden name back during the divorce. Just a thought. |
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lol
Serchin4MyRedWine it's not that I don't understand what you are saying There are just other variables to consider |
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Huh? Are you two getting married? This is GREAT news? Or did I
misunderstand? I've been traveling for several weeks and may have missed the announcement....  Oceans |
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yes
Marie55 just for reference neither of the children have our last names |
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why don't you go with Imbroglio?
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