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He's over 18 and a doctor. I'll go out with you, I'm getting older you know and may need medical attention.
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She's in a relationship and not getting the attention/feedback she wants but hasn't yet found it in her to leave. She gets some of that feedback and attention from you, but she's still in the relationship. You're helping to boost her self-steem. I don't think you want anything to do with her. Even if she does eventually leave her boyfriend, you'd have to deal with the aftermath of the breakup and you would likely be the rebound guy anyhow. Keep being a friend and if she ever does break up and get her life settled and she still pays you attention, maybe then ask her out. Totally agree with this!!! |
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 In short, Im not sure how she feels, and she has a boyfriend. Is that short enough?
Exactly, unless you're just trying to mess around with her, I don't see the point of asking out a woman with a boyfriend. Now if she breaks up with the boyfriend, that's another story. Then you could ask her if she wants to go out sometime. I still say it doesn't have to necessarily mean anything, men and women should be able to talk and laugh and have fun without it being a sexual thing, but apparently I'm crazy. 
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Any girl who starts spouting off about her tool boyfriend right away like that is trouble.
That is way too much personal disclosure too soon and may mean that her motive is not pure. If you are looking for a genuine relationship, this is not the one. If you are just looking to get laid, then go for it. Just make sure she never finds out where you live 
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Perhaps we could get Susie to ask her if she thinks your cute ...
or You could write a note and leave it on her desk.. Please check a box! "Do you like me? with 2 little boxes...one marked "yes"...the other marked "no" Please check a box! |
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Thanks for the super quick reply, but don't you think it is kinda early to ask her out?  No wonder guys are so clueless and women have to take over! 
Really?????...... 
Yeah! so neener-neener-neener! 
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Hi there. You want some sound advice, run, run, run. This woman is complaining about her boyfriend, she loves him more than he loves her, yada, yada, yada. Women or men who go on about their signifigant others but don't do anything proactive about it (talk to them, go to counseling, leave the relationship) are people you want to avoid, otherwise in 6 months she will be talking to some other guy about you!
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Hi there. You want some sound advice, run, run, run. This woman is complaining about her boyfriend, she loves him more than he loves her, yada, yada, yada. Women or men who go on about their signifigant others but don't do anything proactive about it (talk to them, go to counseling, leave the relationship) are people you want to avoid, otherwise in 6 months she will be talking to some other guy about you! Um, yep.
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Mon 08/31/09 01:48 PM
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In short, Im not sure how she feels, and she has a boyfriend. Is that short enough?
Oh -- I missed that in your writing.
I am guilty of scanning your story because it was not an easy read. 
If she has a boyfriend, why are you even pondering this? Any person who plays back and forth will do it to you as they have done to others. Run -- run fast!  Common sense is your friend. 
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I met this super nice girl like 2 months ago in her office, we talked for a long time and I really felt comfortable talking to her. But that was it, just a nice chat with nice girl. A month later, I had to go back to that office to check on something and she remembered my name, and started complaining about her boyfriend and telling me how jerk he was with her. She said she loves him more than he loves her, and despite that she was thinking of ending her relatioship with him because she wanted to get married and have kids and he didn't want that. I met her again in the office for like four times and everytime I go there we talk about almost everything for a long time, she does things to keep me there like telling her costumers to come back later if they show up, she opens subjects and keeps the conversation going, she asks me a lot of questions about my family and asked me once why I didn't get married, and oneday she said I have to get married and have kids because she knew I like kids. She does sexy movements and I noticed her body language, it says she likes me, but I'm not sure as a friend or something else. I really like her and we keep sending each other emails. When I saw her this morning she hugged me and showed me her family pictures. What is that mean? I don't understand what she is trying to say? By the way she is my apartment leasing office manager. Ladies and gentlemen, help please. Well whatever you do stay out of her boyfriend troubles. Until she leaves him by her own choice, not with any help from you, she is not a single woman and you should act that fact. |
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In short, Im not sure how she feels, and she has a boyfriend. Is that short enough?
Oh -- I missed that in your writing.
I am guilty of scanning your story because it was not an easy read.
If she has a boyfriend, why are you even pondering this? Any person who plays back and forth will do it to you as they have done to others. Run -- run fast! Common sense is your friend.
that's what i'm saying. you can't trust someone who's still with a guy- and whining about it. i've done this, let guys whine to me about their gf's or ex's and it never ended well. best to get out now. |
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Doesn't matter what she means truly. If she is still with this other man, then she is unavailable. I'm sure she is flirting with you, and other men, in anticipation that should she break up with the man she is with, she wants a back up man.
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I met this super nice girl like 2 months ago in her office, we talked for a long time and I really felt comfortable talking to her. But that was it, just a nice chat with nice girl. A month later, I had to go back to that office to check on something and she remembered my name, and started complaining about her boyfriend and telling me how jerk he was with her. She said she loves him more than he loves her, and despite that she was thinking of ending her relatioship with him because she wanted to get married and have kids and he didn't want that. I met her again in the office for like four times and everytime I go there we talk about almost everything for a long time, she does things to keep me there like telling her costumers to come back later if they show up, she opens subjects and keeps the conversation going, she asks me a lot of questions about my family and asked me once why I didn't get married, and oneday she said I have to get married and have kids because she knew I like kids. She does sexy movements and I noticed her body language, it says she likes me, but I'm not sure as a friend or something else. I really like her and we keep sending each other emails. When I saw her this morning she hugged me and showed me her family pictures. What is that mean? I don't understand what she is trying to say? By the way she is my apartment leasing office manager. Ladies and gentlemen, help please. SO ask her....... Tell her you enjoy her attention....and that the cues you are picking up on says she likes you. Ask her if she would consider developing a friendship with you....going out, doing stuff together. Then if she says yes, let her know you will wait for her to untangle herself from the relationship she is in, heal a little, and to give you a call when she feels ready to date. Be firm. Be confident. Let her know you look forward to her call in six months or so, to say I am ready now. |
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Would you guys recommend I ask her out with a group of friends, just to get to know her, or is too soon?
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Would you guys recommend I ask her out with a group of friends, just to get to know her, or is too soon? Nope, she an attached woman. Stay clear until she is unattached. |
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In short, Im not sure how she feels, and she has a boyfriend. Is that short enough?
Oh -- I missed that in your writing.
I am guilty of scanning your story because it was not an easy read.
If she has a boyfriend, why are you even pondering this? Any person who plays back and forth will do it to you as they have done to others. Run -- run fast! Common sense is your friend.
Don't you think I have to wait a little? I like her |
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Would you guys recommend I ask her out with a group of friends, just to get to know her, or is too soon? Nope, she an attached woman. Stay clear until she is unattached. Thanks Dragoness |
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In short, Im not sure how she feels, and she has a boyfriend. Is that short enough?
Oh -- I missed that in your writing.
I am guilty of scanning your story because it was not an easy read.
If she has a boyfriend, why are you even pondering this? Any person who plays back and forth will do it to you as they have done to others. Run -- run fast! Common sense is your friend.
Don't you think I have to wait a little? I like her Wait for what? She has a boyfriend! My edited answer is RUN AWAY! No I don't think you HAVE to wait a little for anything. You don't HAVE to do anything. This is not a smart situation to be in ..... I will repeat: if she is going back and forth -- and being wishy washy with you -- that means she does it to everyone. You will be the victim of her antics soon enough. Why would you want that? DRAMA is evil!! 
Common sense is your friend.
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Good greff dude! What does she have to do? Drop her knickers and say "Take me now with your monster stud tool."
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In short, Im not sure how she feels, and she has a boyfriend. Is that short enough?
Oh -- I missed that in your writing.
I am guilty of scanning your story because it was not an easy read.
If she has a boyfriend, why are you even pondering this? Any person who plays back and forth will do it to you as they have done to others. Run -- run fast! Common sense is your friend.
Don't you think I have to wait a little? I like her Wait for what? She has a boyfriend! My edited answer is RUN AWAY! No I don't think you HAVE to wait a little for anything. You don't HAVE to do anything. This is not a smart situation to be in ..... I will repeat: if she is going back and forth -- and being wishy washy with you -- that means she does it to everyone. You will be the victim of her antics soon enough. Why would you want that? DRAMA is evil!!
Common sense is your friend.
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