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Topic: What Is She Trying to Say
s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Tue 09/01/09 08:27 PM
ask her if she could elaborate on the bf situation a little more specifically. it may turn out that it has faded somewhat. give her a chance. find out what she is really like. you never know what you never know, you know? but you might be surprised!

kayarie Joined Tue 01/13/09 Posts: 331	Tue 09/01/09 08:34 PM
well it's always a touchy situation when someone is already involved with someone els. You said she is sweet and i am sure she is :) i am not one to give advice uf i dont know the situation but take it slow get to know her so you know she is how she appears to be genuine so you wont jump onto a sorry situation she could be right maybe he treats her bad i have had that but i never told anyone or bad mouthed them i handled it by letting them know how i felt it was between us not everyone els:)

mythicalman22 Joined Sat 07/19/08 Posts: 2791	Tue 09/01/09 10:25 PM
lol, it seems as if you are going to do whatever you want and ignore the obvious..Have fun dude, I hope you are not as stupid with everything in life...Once she cheats on you if you even get that close then do not write another thread on here about it...You are asking for it, clearly you are a glutton for punishment..I was wondering and now I know...Her boyfriens is er boyfriend dude...have a little respect for your fellow men how about...How about having respect for her and letting her work things out without you hornily movin your way in on her...Its easy dude..You either make a bad decision or a good one, which do you want? If I make a lot of sense its cuz I have given you both scenarios and given you both results numerous times but you have obviously allready made a bad decision and do not need our help anyway..I love wasting my time on people who are not seriously asking for an answer...If you allready know what you are gonna do then dont ask others...Simple as that

brigade2984 Joined Fri 05/29/09 Posts: 9	Thu 09/03/09 01:18 AM
I appreciate every single response, thank you ladies and gentlemen.

Katzenschnauzer Joined Sat 03/28/09 Posts: 2731	Thu 09/03/09 01:26 AM
seriously unless you are a glutten for punishment do not ever consider that one for keeper status...Just look at how she is behaving...Does she seem like the future wife type? Would you like to find your wife doing what she is? Is that acceptable to you? Think about these things before you ever entertain investing feelings or emotions into someone who acts like her...You will get burned and badly burned at that...Just make the smart decision and either use her for what she is worth or leave her be and save your feelings and your humility and leave her to screw up on her own, she doesnt need your help she is obviously volatile What you are saying makes a lot of sense, I just don't want to judge her that quick because I don't really know how her boyfriend is like, maybe he is a big As-hole who makes her acts like that. She is otherwise super cute. By the way, she just sent me an email saying she couldn't quit thinking about me, how does that sound?? A boyfriend who MAKES her act that way? No, no, no, no.

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Thu 09/03/09 09:40 PM
Since she is your landlord, you might consider finding out who else she has been "sharing her secrets" with. It could be that she has merely worked her way up to your floor

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 09/04/09 02:31 AM
Since she is your landlord, you might consider finding out who else she has been "sharing her secrets" with. It could be that she has merely worked her way up to your floor Good point.