ok so this girl that seems so perfect in every way except she has an ex boyfriend which is also her current roommate. He went to his brothers house to give us some free time but he had different plans which was to **** block me the whole time how do i deal with this scab?

ditto

Hmmmm.......by taking your girl out somewhere else?


Not very compassionate for a buddhist taoist...scab?

kick his azz?

You can't, she has to do it it's her ex it's her job to make him understand he is an ex and to leave her alone.

she told him many times but he seems to not listen. she went as far as to tell him that she hates him and she never wants to see him ever again.

Ok, why you're with someone that still has an ex living with her is beyond comprehension. Obviously she likes him hanging around or else like any other normal person would have done is kick his butt out her apartment or move out of his.

And I don't think it's her telling him to stay out of her life, just think about it. If she really wanted him gone and wanted time with you she'd make it happen. That's just reality.

I guess then that whatever you or your girlfriend say will make him go away, he is stuck on her and won't go away until he finds another girls to put his attention on.

Find him a girl and maybe he might leave the two of you alone after.

It's sad that people get pleasure in running others love life because they can't have it.

He's her safety net.....he hasn't gone very far, has he?

What's he hangin' around for?

Why's he jealous?


Hmmmmm?


Be asking yourself some open eyed questions here....

I dated this girl who was living with her ex. I told her if things were going to go anywhere with us, she had to move. She did, we got a place together. He f_c_ed with us every chance he got. We ignored him for about 8 months, and he finally got over it. In the end I don't think anything you do or don't do helps. He has to get over her on his own. Maybe you could hook him up with one of your ex's.

that might be true but she really seemed to be more fond of me then him.

that's wut u think or that's wut u know... i'd say no way u leav in the same house with ur ex if u trully wanna move on ans start a new relationship.. and the ex jalousie will never go away that easily cuz he is constantly reminded of wut he doesn't hav anymore.. she need to get out of that place or the dude needs to get out.. otherwise.. let me break it down to u like this.. "ur gurlfriend got a boyfriend"

Yeah, that seems like a bit of a bind. I would have to agree with a few comments on here when it was stated that if she wanted him out of her life it would be so.

She might tell you that she can't afford to move out or that they have a lease or something but at that point you really have to ask yourself if this situation is worth the hassle? Is she going to make the initiative to move out or make arrangements for some other room mate? Are you going to give her an ultimatum? I think you should or just walk away with a lesson learned bro.

This is a good building block in the sense that next time you will know warning signs and a certain new trait you don't want in your life...



I hope what ever your intentions might be that they work out.... Peace

Did you ever see the old movie "Who's Afraid Of Virginia Wolf"? It's the dance they do.

lol, you are blind, maybe dumb...lol...If she really wanted you then it would be easy for her to move out of her place with him...For instance if he is still that possessive it is probably because she is still giving him either sex or leading him on...Most likely sex...She will deny it but like I said if it wasnt going on she wouldve been pissed about him being there just as much as you and found a way to move out...She seems to have a win win situation there...She'll probably ask you to hang out at your place from now on and thats just to mask the fact that he is still doing her...Use your head and make a stand...Its easy to ask a question and if she really has no plan on moving away from him then you'll have your answer...Period

Maybe right now she cant make it without him financially, and she hasnt found a new roomate, roomates are hard to find.


Anyway, she sounds like she likes the drama.

I think you two should have for sure gone somewhere else,.. but anyway.. why would you want in any of that mess anyway?


She needs to get her **** togther.

Move on.

This is quite amusing. well thank you for your advise but that still doesnt explain why she wanted to get me alone so bad. I still dont even know if this guy is abusive because she doesnt seem to like to talk about anything about him :(

grow some testicular fortitude and BE the alpha male.

Eliminate the competition! RAWWWRRRRRR!

Take what you want! slash and burn!

or


be meek and wondering what to do and make threads about it

Grow up.........