Like what is the first signs a guy or girl realy n2 u

When they want to spend time with you or talk to you.

Ummm....my friends want to talk to me all the time. Means nothing.

I think she was referring to the "dating" world..

Ohhh....well...I wouldn't know anything about that world....lmao

eh, me neither...I'll just shut up here...leaving room, hanging head in shame.. squirting tears now.

Right behind ya...lol

me 2

lWell...being a guy....I get this coy smile and grin...Then, I call and I like to talk and spend a lot with that special someone. And there are a few other non verbal cues as well. Body langauge is always a good sign... Usually I will relax my protective posture and you will get my undivided attention.

just ask!

blows my mind how many women don't do this. drives me even crazier when I simply ask a girl if she's feeling attracted to me, but instead of answering she'll go off on some other subject, avoiding the question. It's either a YES, a NOT QUITE YET, or a NO - not that hard to figure it out on the spot, is it?

ps. if I'm 'in' I can't keep my eyes off the girl, and just genuinely feel great about being next to her. Are these signs that someone can look for? I don't know, but I know that if YOU are starting to feel something you should express it, including verbal communication.

I agree If I like a man I tell him right out. But if Iam not into him like if I know he smokes that turns me off.

if you can feel the hair on his chest...odds are good

When he tells you so.

If he is hard then he's in to you

when i am moaning loudly.

read the book "He's Just Not That Into You."

its a fantastic book.

the movie was okay.

but the book really is a nice lil eyeopenner for this exact question.

I loved the movie.

They throw out all the books and stupid rules like waiting to call three days and pay attention to you. Make sure you get home safe. Wear a shirt you say you like. Come to the door to get you. Keep their hound dog friends away from you.

The pupils in their eyes will dilate a bit when they first see you. No one can hide that.