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Topic: WHY
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Sun 08/16/09 06:47 PM
Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol

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Sun 08/16/09 06:48 PM
This may sound harsh....

But, mainly, it's fear of having to compete with a ghost.

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Sun 08/16/09 06:49 PM

This may sound harsh....

But, mainly, it's fear of having to compete with a ghost.
agreed

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Sun 08/16/09 06:49 PM

Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol



It is hard to find a date for everyone. flowerforyou

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Sun 08/16/09 06:50 PM
Edited by lookatmeseewhatusee on Sun 08/16/09 06:50 PM
true lol

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Sun 08/16/09 06:50 PM


Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol



It is hard to find a date for everyone. flowerforyou


That's the truth.

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Sun 08/16/09 06:59 PM
oh yeah

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Sun 08/16/09 07:11 PM

This may sound harsh....

But, mainly, it's fear of having to compete with a ghost.


Which is a ridiculous and unfounded fear that generally comes from someone who is insecure. I had a man here, who no longer comes here, tell me that I should move along, that "no one would want to date a little widowed girl." He could not have been more wrong.

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Sun 08/16/09 07:15 PM


This may sound harsh....

But, mainly, it's fear of having to compete with a ghost.


Which is a ridiculous and unfounded fear that generally comes from someone who is insecure. I had a man here, who no longer comes here, tell me that I should move along, that "no one would want to date a little widowed girl." He could not have been more wrong.


Whoa! Easy there. Simmer down a bit.

have you ever seen me say, at any time, that it was the RIGHT idea??

She asked for an answer, and I gave her the most accurate ( albeit wrong in the idea itself ) answer as to why.

Shred the message..but don't shoot the messenger.flowerforyou

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Sun 08/16/09 07:16 PM
Did I direct anything I said to YOU?

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Sun 08/16/09 07:18 PM
ok guy i was just asking

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Sun 08/16/09 07:19 PM

ok guy i was just asking


I was just answering.flowerforyou

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Sun 08/16/09 07:19 PM

Did I direct anything I said to YOU?


Sowwy.

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Sun 08/16/09 07:21 PM


Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol



It is hard to find a date for everyone. flowerforyou


Unless this is not a pic of you, or it is and its 50 years old---You are kidding about the date thing---Right?

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Sun 08/16/09 07:30 PM



Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol



It is hard to find a date for everyone. flowerforyou


Unless this is not a pic of you, or it is and its 50 years old---You are kidding about the date thing---Right?


What is it exactly you are asking/implying???huh

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Sun 08/16/09 07:32 PM

Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol


It is hard for everyone, some moreso than others. As JustAGuy said, that is a possible reason...could also be you just don't go out enough to places, which is why I don't find dates...of course that is my objective too.

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Sun 08/16/09 07:35 PM



Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol



It is hard to find a date for everyone. flowerforyou


Unless this is not a pic of you, or it is and its 50 years old---You are kidding about the date thing---Right?

This me no am not kidding They would like to bed me but not date me and thats sad

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Sun 08/16/09 07:37 PM
Tammy, THAT PART, I don't think is unique to being widowed. I think lots of women have that issue. laugh

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Sun 08/16/09 07:52 PM




Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol



It is hard to find a date for everyone. flowerforyou


Unless this is not a pic of you, or it is and its 50 years old---You are kidding about the date thing---Right?


What is it exactly you are asking/implying???huh



I think he meant it as a compliment, saying that from what he can see, there should be no reason why someone would not seek out and enjoy her company. flowerforyou

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Sun 08/16/09 07:57 PM




Is it so hard for widow to find a date are someone to hang out with? lol



It is hard to find a date for everyone. flowerforyou


Unless this is not a pic of you, or it is and its 50 years old---You are kidding about the date thing---Right?


What is it exactly you are asking/implying???huh

I'm saying --from the picture i see here she is nice looking---Oh sorry--can't say that in this country anymore--I'll watch it from here on out. ----I must remember, all women look the same and that is that!!

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