JUST TRY TO BE GROWN ABOUT THE WHOLE THING AND IF YOU HAPPEN TO GET
INTIMATE DONT GET WOOPED OR CUAHGT UP THAT WAY YOU DONT GET HURT ITS
MESSED UP BUT THATS THE WAY THAT IT HAS TO BE SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO KEEP
IT REAL GANGSTA AND NOT FALL IN LOVE SO THEN IN TIME MAYBE YOU CAN HAVE
YOU A STEADY HOMIE LOVER FRIEND AND THEN MAYBE IT CAN TURN INTO
SOMETHING MORE AND IF NOT ATLEAST YOU GOT YOU SOME YOU KNOW AND DIDNT
GET YOUR HEART BROKE OR FEELINGS HURT

how do you not let feelings get in the way cus im real emotional and
fall in love to easyly

damn there was a tragic sitiouation over here some dude almost killed
his girlfriend

Terrance0,
You have to understand the game in order not to get played. Once you see
the signs. 1 example: If she does not want make any commitment in the
relationship. Obviously, you're being played. Basically, catch her at
her game before you get caught up....

HELL, how would you like to have been in my X-oladies game, I worked on
the road,gone alot and she done any and everybody,but when I came home
for my one or two day stay. She did'nt want to do me??? What's that
joke? What's the difference between a whore and a bitch?

A whore will do everybody and you--- A bitch will do everybody but
you!!!!!!!!!

like i said. alot of players are out here!!!!.. so take this stuff with
a grain of salt!!!!

I think my mind is turned away from the word love? Not that some day it
won't happen? But damm sure not on my lips for a long time!

yes... you got that right! i have dated alot of gals that just want sex
and they are still married! and most of them i have met on the internet
sop that should tell you about on line dateing!!!!...LOL!!

Because of being on the recieving end of hurt, that way. I will not go
out with any lady that I believed to be married? I do not want to give
any poor bastard that hurt?

yes. but the gals told me that they was getting divorced and they were
seperated. just alot of lies!!

You know, life's a real bitch at times. I look back to a 16 year marrage
and she was cheating, then I hooked up with a lady who her on marrage
ended before we met because her husband cheated then she was cheating on
me? How fucked up is that? So now I have a longgggggggggg way to go to
find TRUST in a woman?BUT, like all in life. There are still true woman
out here just going through the b/s to find em.

efp i always do that i know if a person is playing games with me cus
conversation is a motherfucker i pay attention to every thing a person
tells me some times i ask the girl over and over the same question to
see if she tells the story diffrent if i hear something she hasnt told
me before i know shes lieing

damn i am 4 you thats real drama

im not looking for a girl for just sex i want a relationship somebody i
can settle down with

but its hard finding that one

dating is a messed up situation anyway but it doesn't have to be. it's
compounded even more because you are an emotional person terrence, there
isn't anything you can do about it except roll with it. i don't know how
it is when you meet someone but don't try to catch them in a lie, you
don't have to say or repeat a thing to see that they are lying. it seems
like you may be worked up about catching them lting and they might see
that. i know when i meet someone and they are tryin to set traps and
shit when i haven't been nothin but honest with them i don't stay
around. some people play games when they see that stuff. just relax when
you're with them, don't be so caught up in tryin to catch them.

its not that i try to catch them in a lie its like the relationship
starts out real at first then she stars slipping it puts me in defence
mode

ok, i think i'm startin to see where you are coming from. do you think
that maybe they start slippin because they like you and don't want to
seem like anything but perfect to you? or?

no they start slipping this way talking to there exes,i catch them in a
lie cus they mess up when they talk they act like the dont have time for
me i hear guys in the background when im on the phone with them wear
some trashy shit and go to heb stuff like that