Topic: for anybodyreal
RoxyGrl84's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:00 PM
Yeah you're right King, I mean I would probably tweak what I said a
little cause more or less if you do something to lose my trust and I end
things then it's usually something important to me. For instance,
feeling like I'm girl number 6 of the week or that you're feeding me the
same stuff you are to every other girl. For me I just go on gut
instinct, if someone makes me feel uneasy or I can't be myself
completely around them and trust them then the relationship will never
work.

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:00 PM
the hell are you talking about

RoxyGrl84's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:02 PM
Yeah Terrance, you definitely want to be careful of that. Because you'll
just offend those girls you are dating or push them away. If you have
doubts just talk to them, tell them "it's not that I don't trust you, I
just want to be up front about what I'm looking for. I'm not someone
who's ok with cheating, etc... After my past relationships, I've become
a little jaded and just want to make sure we're on the same page."

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:03 PM
i feel you on that i usally have good vibes or bad vibes about a person
so i generly know if there true or if there just full of it

no photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:03 PM
you just need to leave that stuff behind with the last girl. that's the
thing with emotion, it tends to lead our lives for us if we don't hold
it in check and an emotional stuation without any rational thought can
be a dangerous situation.

RoxyGrl84's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:05 PM
Exactly.

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:05 PM
yes but its hard if your an emotionall type of person it dosnt work that
way

califmike's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:06 PM
slim the big time pimp trying to give sex advice.

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:09 PM
how do i handle not asking them the same thing over and over

RoxyGrl84's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:09 PM
Yeah very true Terrance, I'm a very emotional person so as much as I try
to hold them back when I need to it's not always that easy. Especially
if it's something you're very passionate about.

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:09 PM
fuck you

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:13 PM
it dosnt seem like there any real women out there there are some but not
alot

no photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:13 PM
you are right, it doesn't work that way with you but you have to try to
think about it before you say it instead of just letting it all pour
out. you are never going to be able to change that part of you so i
would explain that to the person that you are with and try to talk more
about how you are feeling and why instead of telling her. i know alot of
people don't consider that to be very manly but if you can't do it then
you have to deal with the situation as it is.

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:14 PM
i geuss i have to find the right person

RoxyGrl84's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:16 PM
I like a guy who can communicate his feelings, I hate trying to guess
what someone is feeling or how they feel about me and our relationship.
Communication and trust are key, if you communicate what you want
Terrance I'm sure you'll find someone you can trust too.

no photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:17 PM
you have to find what works for you man. you could be the most perfect
person in this world and you would still have problems and haters,
that's just the way it is and there ain't no way around it. good luck
tho

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:18 PM
i dig what your saying what if your man acted like he didnt have time
for you to come see you or what ever

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Mon 10/02/06 07:19 PM
that's true roxy but the way alot of people are raised that ain't
considered manly. it is always better to talk about a situation but some
people aren't brought up that way, it's the man is right and you can't
say shit but their ain't alot of women like that anymore. talking is
always a viable option if you get past the image problems that people
create for themselves.

TERRANCE0's photo
Mon 10/02/06 07:20 PM
it was nice talking to yall ive got to sign off till tommorow

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Mon 10/02/06 07:21 PM
take it easy man.